
04/24/2025
Play Behavior 101: Is Your Dog Really Playing? Let’s Break It Down!
At Kairo’s K9s Training, we’re all about building better bonds—and safe, respectful play is a huge part of that.
Playtime is more than just fun and games—it’s a crucial way dogs learn social skills, burn off energy, and build relationships. But not all play is healthy, and sometimes it can escalate before we even notice.
So how do you know when to let play continue, when to step in, and when to separate dogs altogether? Let’s dive into the Play Traffic Light System—a super handy way to assess dog-to-dog interactions at home, at the park, or at daycare!
Green Zone: Everyone’s Having Fun!
This is the sweet spot! Play is mutual, balanced, and all parties are enjoying themselves. You’ll notice:
• Play bows
• Switching between offense/defense
• Loose, wiggly body language
• Soft mouthing
• Light, happy vocalizations
• Dogs taking turns initiating play
Just like kids, dogs need breaks. If they’re pausing naturally and re-engaging on their own, you’re likely in the green!
Yellow Zone: Watch Closely—Could Go Either Way
This is your warning zone. The dogs might still be playing, but things are getting a little too intense or one-sided. Look for:
• One-sided play or third-wheeling
• Holding, not releasing during play
• Heightened vocalizations or rougher wrestling
• Posturing (head over back, standing over)
• Submissive licking of another dog’s face
What to do: Interrupt play gently. Give a break, reset, and observe. If everyone returns to balanced play, carry on!
Red Zone: Intervene Immediately
This isn’t play anymore—it’s stress or a prelude to a fight. Stop the interaction right away if you see:
• Stiff bodies, raised tails, whale eyes
• Biting and shaking
• Hu***ng or pinning
• Resource guarding (people, toys, beds)
• Obsessive following or patrolling
This is where confidence gets damaged, and reactivity can begin.
Healthy play builds confidence, resilience, and communication skills in dogs. Over-arousing or scary interactions? Not so much. That’s why YOU play the role of referee—reading the signals and helping your dog feel safe and supported.
Want to Level Up Your Dog’s Social Skills?
At Kairo’s K9s Training, we help owners interpret dog behavior and develop confident canines. Whether your dog is the life of the party or unsure around other dogs—we’ve got your back.
Visit www.KairosK9s.ca or email us at [email protected] today!