01/02/2025
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Horses owe us nothing 🐴
I am baffled by the way I used to think about horses, I would always bleat the “horse first, sport second” line, but it wasn’t true, not really.
Anything that made me feel uncomfortable would be justified away in my head, I’d find others who would also validate that line of thinking and dismiss anything to the contrary.
It won’t come as a surprise to anyone who’s followed this page for a while that I don’t agree with the idea that horses must do a "job" for their life to have value and for them to deserve to have their needs met. The idea that the horse, who had no choice in who bought or sold him and never agreed to any of this, should provide what we think we’re owed makes me really frustrated.
I’m going to tell you about a conversation I had with someone several years ago that I still think about to this day. They wanted help with their severely nappy horse. This horse had been retired from a very intense life of showing with significant arthritis and they had been told by the vet that he could only work in straight lines. They were struggling to even get him out of the gate. Along with all of his joint issues, the horse was overweight and the rider, in my opinion, was too heavy for him in his current condition.
We talked back and forth for a while as I tried to explain my ethos and how we needed to look at the bigger picture. They described how they’d had another trainer out who had got on and essentially beaten him with a whip and it still didn’t work.
We just kept talking in circles as they’d keep coming back to “what would you do to fix the problem though?” I explained about positive associations and building confidence with hand walking. They told me they couldn’t hand walk him as they also had joint issues. I then gently suggested that seeing as he was quite loudly telling us he wasn’t feeling okay about being ridden and we knew he had several chronic pain issues that we should perhaps think about whether continuing to ride him was appropriate.
“I’ve already put so much money into him getting his joint injections and I've even moved off the yard I like so he can have turnout every day. He can’t retire because I can’t walk far and he is my legs so I can actually get out and enjoy nature. I just want him to go out walking for a few hours I’m not asking for much”
Isn’t it interesting how someone who cannot walk far due to their own pain cannot empathise with their horse having the same issues?
I hear similar things to this all of the time, everyone wants to put the horse first to a point. But when things start to get really complex and we realise we may not get the happy ending we envisioned our morals start to slide. I often get a bit of "but he has a really nice life I just want him to do this for me". A nice life should be a given, you are not owed damaging your horse's body because you spent money on him and met his basic needs.
I find it a really difficult line to walk as an ethical trainer. While I don’t want to alienate anyone from improving their horse’s life and learning a better way, I also don’t want to be an enabler to continuing to treat horses like crap. I realise that sometimes my line in the sand is in a different place to some of my clients, but that is something I have to navigate and question for myself all of the time. What am I okay with even if its not what I would do myself, and what am I definitely not okay with?
Any professional out there who is really for the horse knows how difficult this is to do. Its a really terrible business model and it makes you the fun police a lot of the time.
I’m not here to fix your horse, I’m here to help you understand your horse and make better choices. Times are changing and if I can just improve things for one horse then I guess it’s worth it. 🐴
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