11/07/2024
I always wear a helmet, but this is true!
The words 'holes in the foundation' get bandied about quite often these days, and I have a little different take on this subject. One that I'm sure isn't going to be all that popular as the blame isn't placed on the 'other guy's ' shoulders, but our own. As riders and horsemen the level of commitment and drive is becoming more wishy-washy than it has ever been, despite all the knowledge and advice and training videos offered for free on the internet.There is nothing, absolutely NOTHING, you can find on YouTube that is going to teach what used to be called courage...but I'm not sure if that is considered a dirty word these days. There are lots of articles and podcasts and guru's that will teach you how to groundwork your way around or through a problem with your equine partner, but nothing that will take your foot to the stirrup and your leg over the saddle. That step is always going to be on you.
The biggest hole I see in the foundation of most horses in this day and age, is the holes in the foundation of their riders. Let me tell you something; if a trainer can get on your horse and make him line out and behave, then the problem isn't in your horse's training. I do not care how much ground work you do on that horse. I don't care if you side pass him to and fro a dozen times up and down the fence, or tie tarps to his tail. None of this is going to help you at the end of the day if you don't have the nerve to ride.
I can't tell you how many times I've had people come to me for riding lessons with their horse in tow, and tell me how scared they were to actually ride. I am always flabbergasted at this statement. I want to say, "Then what are you doing here? You need a life coach, not a riding instructor."
(I understand horses, people not so much. 🤷)
The pendulum in this world of horsemanship is swinging so far off dead center, that fear and misunderstanding is actually being pandered to instead of encouraged to be overcome. Horses are being trained and desensitized as if it is their responsibility to keep us from dying. Ground worked into zombies. As if we are taking our very lives in our hands every time we swing a leg over any horse, well educated or not, and it's up to the horse to keep us utterly safe despite any lack of common sense we may have where the horse is concerned.
Helmets, instead of riding ba****ck; lessons and lunge lines and arenas, instead of kids playing (God forbid!) cowboys and Indians on horseback and hunting one another down like scoundrels of old. Riders used to be expected to fall off, it was part of the learning process. Sometimes they even got bucked off...a little education and ego control all in one quick lesson. But now, to be bucked off is catastrophic. The horse is ruined...or had a major hole in his foundation!
"My goodness, I hope you were wearing a helmet or you could have been killed due to a head injury"...you weren't, but you could have been!!
The entire world wagging their jaws about what you did wrong.
All this fear...it leads me to wonder where the faith (and the fun) has gone?
Have a good day folks! 😊
P.S poor old Honest Abe (Sue) with his little horse thief in the saddle.