Leading from a place of presence, listening & observing.
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Autonomy is the cornerstone of effective training.
By allowing your dog to think and make choices, you're encouraging them to become confident problem solvers and active participants in their own education.
Empowering your dog with autonomy not only enhances their learning experience but strengthens your bond.
For some, autonomy may look like regular off leash hikes in nature
For others, it may look like a 15 foot leash 3ร a week in alleyways & quiet parks
Find what works for you & your dog
& do what you can
Your dog will benefit from it
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I can't tell you how often I get to a clients house..
They're telling me about their dogs leash reactivity outside..
While their dog is panicking about me being inside their house - barking, lunging & retreating, even nipping me
Meanwhile, they're ignoring their dog
(until I ask them to leash or crate their dog)
because they've been told to act like it's no big deal - not to act anxious so your dog won't be anxious.
But your dog is too panicked to get that message
They need your intervention, support & guidance.
Your lack of advocating for & guiding your dog inside of the house
is absolutely connected to your dogs reactivity outside of the house.
Your dog is always learning from their environment & that includes you
Every moment is an opportunity to demonstrate to your dog that
YOU'VE GOT THIS
that you've got THEM
If you're not 100% confident on how to demonstrate this to your dog, it's OKAY to ask for help!
Highly intelligent dogs were bred to be incredibly perceptive and mentally active!!!!
That to me, does not sound like the ideal average pet!!!!
This means..
You didn't challenge my brain today??
Guess I'm going to learn how to get past the baby gate, steal your shoes & then resource guard them from you.
Sound familiar?
*cough* every doodle ever *cough*
It's okay if you've found yourself in that situation!
But consider getting help โค๏ธ
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REWARD MISTAKES -
โข Confusion increases frustration, frustration decreases mental clarity which may cause more mistakes
โข Chances are, you could of been clearer or simplified further - change your game plan next time
โข Your dog is showing up & trying things - that's worth rewarding
While rewarding mistakes, my dogs have still learned the objective I was teaching - dogs are smart! It's not that big of a deal.
LEAVE YOUR DOG ALONE -
โข Poking at me and my steak dinner is not going to make me feel any better about your presence while I eat
โข Bring great things so your dog anticipates great things from you while they eat
โข The less you mug them, the less they're going to anticipate being mugged by you & thus, sharing resources won't be as big of a deal
If you're experiences resource guarding with your dog, contact a qualified trainer - this is simplified blanket advice.
MANAGE YOUR DOG & THE ENVIRONMENT -
โข What your dog gets to practice, your dog will repeat
โข If a "bad" choice is on the table - choice is off the table.. how can I manage my dog or the environment so they can be successful.. GET CREATIVE!
โข Help your dog make good choices and reinforce those choices, so they become new habits! Gradually expand their freedom & challenge as their skills increase.
There is value in structure, there is value in freedom.
When you can't train, manage your dog or the environment.
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๐๐'๐ ๐บ๐๐ฐ๐ต ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐๐ผ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐ฏ๐ฎ๐ฑ ๐ต๐ฎ๐ฏ๐ถ๐๐ ๐ณ๐ฟ๐ผ๐บ ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ๐บ๐ถ๐ป๐ด, ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ป ๐๐ป๐ฑ๐ผ ๐น๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ต๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐๐ฟ๐ ๐ฎ๐ณ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฑ๐
I KNOW you want your puppy to be a part of the household
But they don't know how to behave in your household!
They don't know they can't chew youe baseboards and pee on your carpet
So if you give them the chance..
๐๐๐ฒ๐๐ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐'๐น๐น ๐น๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ป!
This is why I'm incredibly strict with managing puppies freedom!
๐ฆ๐ผ ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐น๐ผ๐ป๐ด ๐ฟ๐๐ป, ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ป ๐๐ฟ๐๐๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐บ.
๐ฆ๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ ๐บ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐๐ฎ๐ถ๐น๐ ๐ผ๐ป ๐บ๐ ๐๐๐ด๐ด๐ฒ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ฟ๐ผ๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป -
Crate or x-pen -
A space where your puppy can fully shut off for multiple hours a day to get the proper rest they need.
Also, this allows us to take a break from supervising them & ensures their safety!
Exercise -
Playtime, training, walking, free roaming, enrichment, etc..
This is your puppies chance to burn energy & learn about the world around them!
BUT you HAVE to be supervising...
As soon as you turn away is when something naughty will happen ๐
*leave a leash dragging to make your life 10 times easier*
Preferrably tether (or x-pen) -
After they've been exercised, your puppy can now learn to relax in your home without interacting with every moving piece (ie. When you're getting the kids ready for school).
This is also great to normalize a boundary between you and your puppy.
Ensure they have something approrpiate to chew on and you hang around in the beginning!
Now either exercise again or crate!
Repeat this all day long until you can start trusting your puppy with a little more freedom... but don
A few points I hope this video highlights -
โข There is no Rule Book you & your dog must abide by
Are you okay with their behaviour?
Is it reinforcing the opposite of something you're trying to curb?
If not - so what?
I did not care about Chumba jumping & mouthing! She only does it during play, when it's welcomed.
โข Decompression time is a MUST.
Chumba & Fred are afraid of the outside world - taking breaks from stressors & releasing it all physically is a great way to show up feeling good!
โข Play is an important part of training & overall well-being.
Our dogs learn a lot about the world around them through playful interactions.
Play is a big part of our relationship, so I can use it as a gage for how they're feeling around stressors!
It's hard to let your guard down and act silly if you're stressed!
โข You can't have all gas & no breaks.
If you're going to turn something "on", you need to have strategies to turn it "off".
Fred checked out when he was ready for a break.
I asked Chumba to "stop - sit" when I was ready for a break. Then we moved on.
โข It doesn't have to be perfect. It doesn't have to be serious. Just let go, be present & have fun.
The popup caption in the video was supposed to read "Getting *humped"
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What's the value in being confident?
๐ช๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐
When you feel comfortable,
you can execute things to the best of your ability
&
respond to situations appropriately
But..
๐ช๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ต๐ฎ๐ฝ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐ถ๐ณ you have trust issues because you've SEEN how your dog behaves!
You fear what they're capable of
๐ง๐๐๐ง'๐ฆ ๐ฉ๐๐๐๐!
If we could just
๐ช ๐๐๐๐ ๐ช
Your anxiety away.. we all would ๐ค
Confidence can grow from feelings of ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ฐ๐๐ฎ๐ฏ๐ถ๐น๐ถ๐๐
We can gain ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ฐ๐๐ฎ๐ฏ๐ถ๐น๐ถ๐๐ through ๐๐ป๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ๐ถ๐ป๐ด
๐๐ป๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ๐ถ๐ป๐ด what the given outcomes are in any circumstance
As well as ๐๐ป๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ๐ถ๐ป๐ด how to respond to them
If you're ๐น๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ป๐ณ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ in training your dog
The best thing you can do is work with the right trainer to -
โข Help make your dog feel predictable, through understanding
โข Provide you with strategies to train + manage
โข Set up controlled environments for your dog to learn + thrive
โข Assess the safety & limits that come with that
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Can virtual training really work?
๐๐ฏ๐๐ผ๐น๐๐๐ฒ๐น๐ - ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ป ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ต๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ๐-๐ผ๐ป ๐น๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฟ๐!
How it works..
โข Send me videos of the behaviour you're looking to modify - or explain in great detail
โข Hop on a call & we will cover your personalized action plan
โข I can demonstrate with my dogs, watch you practice with your dog or just work through exchanging videos after our appointment!
โข Ongoing support!
You can reach out after our appointment with questions, videos to review & updates!
๐๐ณ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ ๐๐น๐ถ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ฐ๐ฎ๐น๐ฒ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ป๐ด
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By avoiding these 3 mentions, you are going to increase your dogs trust & tolerance for you.
1.
If they anticipate that every time you come around, you mug them, guess how they're going to feel & thus behave around you ๐คจ
Unless it is dangerous for your dog,
do you really have to take it from them?
Most dogs, especially puppies, like to explore things with their mouth!
Let them chomp on that pinecone!
Then trade them for a snack or a toy & move on when it's time!
2.
Common advice is to put your hands in your dogs food to "get them used to it"..
If you repeatedly put your hands in my steak dinner, I'm going to be annoyed & likely tell you to f off.
However.. if every time your nearby, you put more fries on my plate ๐๐ come on by
(Drop high value treats next to your dog when they're enjoying something good & they won't be concerned about your presence around resources)
3.
Before a dog shows teeth, growls or snaps..
They will politely tell you "no thank you"
With avoidance, stiffness, whale eyeing, etc.
Those are fair warnings.
If we dismiss their polite boundaries - we are pushing them to escalate.
#DogsHaveBoundariesToo
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Challenge -
Take at least 5 minutes on every walk
to sit & watch the world go by
pick a distance from the action that will give your dog the best chance at settling
over time, increase challenge
& watch your dogs intensity dip
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Do nothing
Really, I mean it
๐ฃ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐ฑ๐ผ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ป๐ผ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด
This isn't just for dogs that are excited about their equipment & go barreling through the front door
๐๐ณ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ฑ๐ผ๐ด has a hard time focusing on your walks..
๐๐ณ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ฑ๐ผ๐ด pulls or barks at things in the environment..
๐ง๐ต๐ฒ๐ป ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ ๐ถ๐ ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐๐ผ๐.
Practice waiting for calmness before putting your dogs leash on
Practice waiting for calmness before going through doors
going down the steps
& at the end of your driveway
๐ง๐ต๐ถ๐ ๐ถ๐๐ป'๐ ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐ผ๐๐ ๐ผ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ
๐๐ป ๐ณ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐, ๐ ๐ฑ๐ผ๐ป'๐ ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ป ๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ฎ๐๐ธ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ฑ๐ผ๐ด ๐๐ผ ๐๐ถ๐
Simply wait
&
Observe your dog
Look for signs that they're calming down..
Slower head movements, slow blinking, offering to sit or lay down, sniffing around them
Great! Now go forward! & take breaks when you notice signs of escalation
There are 1000 pieces of advice I could give you on improving your dogs walk & this is just one of them
Helping your dog regulate indoors as well as consistently on the walk can help your dog mentally slow down..
so they can make better choices on their own
& be more receptive to training!
Here's sweet Rio! ๐ถ
๐ง๐ต๐ถ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ ๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฟ๐๐ ๐ผ๐๐๐ฑ๐ผ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐๐ฒ๐๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป & we did a whole lot of waiting for calmness at thresholds.
As soon as we were outside, she was ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ป๐๐๐ฎ๐ป๐๐น๐ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ถ๐๐ต ๐บ๐ฒ & listening when I would need her close by (she lives downtown Toronto)!
This was a huge immediate improvement considering ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ผ๐ณ๐๐ฒ๐ป ๐ถ๐ ๐น๐๐ป๐ด๐ถ
When I showed up for Freddie's walk this day, he hesitated to leave the yard
So we hung out for a moment & recalibrated..
We snuggled
He recieved massage & comfort
I listened to him
& after a couple minutes, he was ready to go
It's okay to take an extra moment
It's okay to listen to your dog & to comfort them
Sometimes we just need a minute & some affection,
Before we're ready to face the world
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