08/09/2024
Youâll see my dogs out and about helping reactive dogs with their skills.
What you wonât see are my dogs interacting with other dogs.
Why?
My dogs are raised to be neutral with dogs. Whether they like other dogs, or donât like them, they donât interact with dogs they donât know.
That means no dog parks, doggy day cares, no play groups.
They are all well socialized, which means they are comfortable when theyâre out. They have no need to interact with the environment when theyâre out. That makes life A LOT easier.
Not sure what âneutralityâ means, or how to train for it? Iâd be happy to explain! Just send me an email: dognerd204 @ gmail.com
Many people are âšshockedâš to see that my dogs arenât super dog-friendly. Theyâre a dog trainerâs dog, how can they be so mean?
âMeanâ because they donât run up to other dogs, mean because they arenât dying to meet your dog, mean because they donât tolerate inappropriate behavior..
To me, theyâre an example of dogs with healthy boundaries and relationships to others. It seems to be the ânormâ for a lot of dog owners to expect other dogs to tolerate all of their own dogâs behavior. If your child was being harassed by another child, would you tell them to tolerate it? Of course not; we would intervene and the same should be happening for our dogs.
Any inappropriate behavior (posturing, face licking, jumping, excessive sniffing), or really any behavior that makes the receiving dog uncomfortable, should be interrupted or punished.
This can happen in two ways: we intervene which is the preferred method. If your puppy is face-licking your older dog and your older dog isnât enjoying it/is trying to get away, etc, it is YOUR RESPONSIBILITY to remove the puppy from the older dog. We should not except any dog to tolerate annoying behavior and we certainly donât want to raise our puppies to continue this. Or if your male dog is excessively sniffing a female dog to the point sheâs uncomfortable, you can interrupt or punish that with a âno,â a nick on the ecollar, separating them, etc. It is your responsibility to manage your own dog and advocate for others.
The other option is to allow the receiving dog to correct the inappropriate dog, but this is rarely efficient and should only happen under very strict circumstances. We never want to allow a dog we donât know to correct our dog. Thereâs a good chance they wonât, which will teach tolerance, and thereâs an equally good chance they will overcorrect, resulting in injury or fight.
Often a puppy is raised where other dogs are expected to tolerate behavior. One day the puppy runs up to a dog and starts behavior that theyâve rehearsed, the new dog doesnât tolerate it and corrects the dog/starts a fight...
Read the full article here:
https://www.horizonretrievers.com/post/socialization-1