03/02/2024
Social support.
Today I took Ash to a new place. He struggles with new places. We went there last week and he managed less than 5 minutes before wanting to go back to the van where he feels safe. Today he had an hour and a half walking, sniffing and investigating.
What magic did I perform in order to cause such a massive improvement? He was with my other dogs. That's it. Last week I met a friend with her dog and Ash wouldn't have coped with a new place as well as a new dog so he popped out for a wee walk on his own before I walked the others. This week we were alone so he came with his family.
Don't underestimate the value of social support. When we're out walking, Ash rarely interacts with other dogs, including those he knows well and those he lives with. This doesn't mean that those dogs aren't a necessary part of his life and an important factor for his emotional well-being.
I've spent a long time slowly building a small circle of friends for him and even though he hardly acknowledges their existence now he's comfortable with them, he will gravitate towards them for the confidence and sense of safety they provide for him.