28/03/2024
Listening π(long post - sorry π¬)
The importance of listening to your horse.
I have worked with horses for over 10 years now, and still very much stand by "there is no such thing as a naughty horse" only a horse trying to communicate to us something, of which we need to listen. But so many people are quick to just label the horse as bad or naughty, and "ride it through it" or put some contraption on it to force it to submit, silence it and go into a frame.
Horses can't speak English, they can only speak with their body language, and no horse woke up one morning and said "I really want to p**s my rider off today"... They are the most willing, kind, forgiving and honest creatures to live on this planet, we humans could learn alot from these amazing and special beings if we could have an ounce of their qualities.
Horses start their conversations subtlety at first, perhaps moving away when you walk in with the saddle, a little swish of the tail as you girth up, reluctant to go forward, to bend or yield in a certain direction, or unwillingness to pick up the correct lead etc, but the more they are ignored they will "up the level" and it could end up in a much more expressive and even explosive behaviour, from exploding when girthing up, broncing or rearing, napping, aggression towards the handler etc. But all these behaviours started somewhere, they didn't just wake up and decide to behave like that today.
I'm not saying all these behaviours are pain related, sometimes it can develop from a miscommunication in training too, napping for example - if an inexperienced rider is riding a green horse and is unable to give the horse kind and confident support when the horse is showing you it's unsure of something, because they as a rider lack the confidence to do so, then the horse learns to make the decision for his or her own safety. They are of course flight animals, keeping themselves alive in the threat of perceived danger.
It doesn't always have to be something major either. My showjumper Lou lou has felt a little "off" when it comes to jumping since her field accident last January, just not quite able to give me 100% like she always usually does, couldn't put my finger on it and my vets were unable to determine what I was explaining to them. I got a second opinion from a different vet recently, and finally we have a diagnosis and she's currently in rehab and doing very well and I'm optimistic of her return to jumping to the level we were prior to her accident, in the near future. If I hadn't listened to the subtle signs Lou was telling me, her behaviours could have progressed into much more undesirable traits. I'm grateful that I listened to my gut, all the little things Lou was telling me, and we also had the help of a very good physio, who supported us along the way.
So I just want to leave you all with this; the next time your horse is displaying a less than desirable behavior when you're asking them to do something, stop, think and ask the question "why?"... They'll almost always show you if you listen.