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mypawfectk9 mypawfectk9 is run by Laura Gilmour; a positive reward based Pro-Dog Trainer. Fully accredited. We learn to listen to the dog.
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Laura worked as a curriculum leader in a secondary school for 17years, but decided to use her passion of teaching to support people struggling with their dogs and re-trained as a qualified positive reward based trainer. Having 5 rescue dogs the desire to prevent more dogs entering rescue is the driver for helping people better understand the motivation of their dogs behaviour. 'Dog's do not have '

bad' behaviour, they just have behaviours, it is our job to understand what motivates that behaviour and to learn how to motivate better choices. I think very few people actually know what their dog was bred for, or what motivates training them'. My dream is that society is so much more empathetic to our dogs and that we stop placing our social expectations on to them.

NEW - Monthly 'Drop-In' training sessionSunday 13th October2-3pm 3-4pm Let me know which time you prefer to come down to...
06/09/2024

NEW - Monthly 'Drop-In' training session

Sunday 13th October

2-3pm
3-4pm

Let me know which time you prefer to come down to the Scout hut
£10 per dog for the hour- NEED TO BOOK as 5 dogs max per session!

Inside and secure Outdoor space
Secure car park
Toilets

I’m sharing this because I refer to ‘Fawn’ as learned helplessness. Our boy Cooper showed appeasement behaviours when we...
06/09/2024

I’m sharing this because I refer to ‘Fawn’ as learned helplessness.

Our boy Cooper showed appeasement behaviours when we got him; this is not the same as a dog being happy and carefree. It is when the dog shuts down because they are overwhelmed and can’t cope.

Flight may not have been an option in the past (chained/ crated etc), nor fight if the dog has been violently physically punished.

Learned helplessness is so sad. They have given up on their own preservation and is interpreted as compliance.

I'm sure we've all heard of 'fight, flight or freeze' , but how many know of the 'fawn' response ?
Not just specific to dogs, but humans too.
I actually think this is the most dangerous of all of the survival responses, because unless you know what you're looking at in the case of a dog, their emotional state can easily be misinterpreted & often is, putting them in some very traumatic situations.

The 'fawn' response is a fear response & stems from anxiety.

It involves offering appeasing ( non threatening behaviour ) or people pleasing behaviour/s to avoid conflict & is often disguised as being calm & friendly, but if you look beneath the surface & the intricacies of canine body language, a truer reflection of the dogs real emotional state is clearly seen.
The response is not a choice, it's the bodies instinctive reaction to danger, the dog is feeling threatened & insecure.
If repeated on a regular basis, it becomes habitual, so appears to be the dogs natural personality.
It's far from it.
Beneath a calm exterior will be a dog who is struggling to cope in a situation & process what is happening around him / her, they will start to shut down & appear unassuming so they don't draw attention to themselves, the problem is the dog can only do this for so long, until the Cortisol ( stress hormone ) spikes & they begin to demonstrate other survival responses - such as fight or flight.
This can occur in any situation & while most commonly seen in rescue dogs or those with traumatic backgrounds, any dog, in the wrong environment can demonstrate a 'fawn' response.

I often wonder about dogs when I see them sat outside busy pubs , shops or cafes with humans & people are commenting on what a good dog they have - is the dog being good or is it simply 'people pleasing' to protect itself, when all the dogs want to do is curl up & hide.
Just because the human end of the lead wants to be sat there, it doesn't mean the dog does.
Next time you see a dog in a public place, take time to look at it's facial expressions & body posture, ( from a safe distance ) you may see things from the dogs perspective.

Picture of mine, just because I think they're lovely !

The problem is people see this on telly and think it’s real training …. And you can ‘fix’ a dog in a matter of minutes. ...
05/09/2024

The problem is people see this on telly and think it’s real training …. And you can ‘fix’ a dog in a matter of minutes. 🙈🙈🙈

⚠️ 𝑾𝒉𝒚 𝑰 𝒘𝒐𝒏'𝒕 𝒃𝒆 𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝑫𝒐𝒈𝒔 𝑩𝒆𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒈 (𝑽𝒆𝒓𝒚) 𝑩𝒂𝒅𝒍𝒚

Yesterday, I received the following email from a researcher for the TV programme *Dogs Behaving (Very) Badly*:

"𝑀𝑦 𝑛𝑎𝑚𝑒 𝑖𝑠 (redacted) 𝐼 𝑤𝑜𝑟𝑘 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑇𝑉 𝑠ℎ𝑜𝑤 ‘𝐷𝑜𝑔𝑠 𝐵𝑒ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑖𝑛𝑔 (𝑉𝑒𝑟𝑦) 𝐵𝑎𝑑𝑙𝑦’.

𝐼 𝑤𝑎𝑠 ℎ𝑜𝑝𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡𝑜 𝑒𝑛𝑞𝑢𝑖𝑟𝑒 𝑎𝑠 𝑡𝑜 𝑤ℎ𝑒𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑟 𝑠𝑜𝑚𝑒𝑜𝑛𝑒 𝑓𝑟𝑜𝑚 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑡𝑒𝑎𝑚 𝑤𝑜𝑢𝑙𝑑 𝑏𝑒 𝑖𝑛𝑡𝑒𝑟𝑒𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑑 𝑖𝑛 𝑏𝑒𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑎 𝑝𝑎𝑟𝑡 𝑜𝑓 𝑜𝑛𝑒 𝑜𝑓 𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑒𝑝𝑖𝑠𝑜𝑑𝑒𝑠 𝑤ℎ𝑖𝑐ℎ 𝑤𝑒 𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑓𝑖𝑙𝑚𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑛𝑒𝑥𝑡 𝑤𝑒𝑒𝑘 𝑖𝑛 𝐿𝑎𝑛𝑐𝑎𝑠ℎ𝑖𝑟𝑒 𝑛𝑒𝑎𝑟 𝐿𝑦𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑚.

𝑊𝑒 𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑠𝑐ℎ𝑒𝑑𝑢𝑙𝑒𝑑 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑠𝑜𝑚𝑒 𝑓𝑖𝑙𝑚𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑜𝑛 𝑇𝑢𝑒𝑠𝑑𝑎𝑦 10𝑡ℎ 𝑆𝑒𝑝𝑡𝑒𝑚𝑏𝑒𝑟 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑙𝑜𝑜𝑘𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑎 𝑝𝑒𝑟𝑓𝑜𝑟𝑚𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑑𝑜𝑔 𝑡𝑟𝑎𝑖𝑛𝑒𝑟 𝑒𝑥𝑝𝑒𝑟𝑡 𝑡𝑜 𝑐𝑜𝑚𝑒 𝑜𝑛𝑏𝑜𝑎𝑟𝑑 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑓𝑖𝑙𝑚 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑢𝑠 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑎𝑟𝑜𝑢𝑛𝑑 𝑎𝑛 ℎ𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑖𝑛 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑎𝑓𝑡𝑒𝑟𝑛𝑜𝑜𝑛. 𝑊𝑒 𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑙𝑜𝑜𝑘𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑎 𝑝𝑟𝑜𝑓𝑒𝑠𝑠𝑖𝑜𝑛𝑎𝑙 𝑡𝑜 𝑠ℎ𝑜𝑤𝑐𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑠𝑜𝑚𝑒 𝑡𝑟𝑎𝑖𝑛𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡𝑜 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝 𝑜𝑛𝑒 𝑜𝑓 𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑑𝑜𝑔𝑠 𝑡𝑜 𝑛𝑜𝑡 𝑟𝑒𝑠𝑝𝑜𝑛𝑑 𝑡𝑜 𝑎 𝑡𝑒𝑙𝑒𝑝ℎ𝑜𝑛𝑒 𝑟𝑖𝑛𝑔𝑡𝑜𝑛𝑒.

𝑊𝑒 𝑤𝑜𝑢𝑙𝑑 𝑖𝑑𝑒𝑎𝑙𝑙𝑦 𝑛𝑒𝑒𝑑 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑡𝑜 𝑏𝑟𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑜𝑤𝑛 𝑑𝑜𝑔 𝑡𝑜 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑓𝑖𝑙𝑚𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡𝑜 𝑠ℎ𝑜𝑤 𝑠𝑜𝑚𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑠𝑝𝑜𝑛𝑠𝑖𝑣𝑒 𝑡𝑟𝑎𝑖𝑛𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡𝑜 𝑛𝑜𝑛-𝑣𝑒𝑟𝑏𝑎𝑙 𝑐𝑜𝑚𝑚𝑎𝑛𝑑𝑠, 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑚𝑜𝑠𝑡𝑙𝑦 ℎ𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑔𝑒𝑠𝑡𝑢𝑟𝑒𝑠.

𝑃𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑙𝑒𝑡 𝑚𝑒 𝑘𝑛𝑜𝑤 𝑖𝑓 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑠 𝑖𝑠 𝑠𝑜𝑚𝑒𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑘 𝑎𝑛𝑦𝑜𝑛𝑒 𝑤𝑜𝑢𝑙𝑑 𝑏𝑒 𝑖𝑛𝑡𝑒𝑟𝑒𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑑 𝑖𝑛. 𝑂𝑓 𝑐𝑜𝑢𝑟𝑠𝑒, 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑦’𝑑 𝑛𝑒𝑒𝑑 𝑡𝑜 𝑏𝑒 ℎ𝑎𝑝𝑝𝑦 𝑡𝑜 𝑏𝑒 𝑜𝑛 𝑐𝑎𝑚𝑒𝑟𝑎, 𝑏𝑢𝑡 𝑖𝑡 𝑤𝑜𝑢𝑙𝑑 𝑏𝑒 𝑎 𝑔𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑡 𝑜𝑝𝑝𝑜𝑟𝑡𝑢𝑛𝑖𝑡𝑦 𝑡𝑜 𝑠ℎ𝑜𝑤 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑖𝑟 𝑠𝑘𝑖𝑙𝑙𝑠!"

My first thought was to delete the email. I'm not a fan of Graeme Hall. I've watched a few episodes of his show, and in my opinion, he seems to make things up as he goes along, relying on outdated training methods.

However, I was puzzled. Was the “cravat” unwell, and they needed a stand-in? I'm a nobody – why on earth would they want to film me training a dog when there are so many high-profile trainers out there? Curiosity got the better of me, so I decided to give the researcher a call.

I'm still in shock as I write this. The researcher explained that they wanted to invite me to Lytham with my Border Collie to "demonstrate" to Graeme Hall how I would train my dog not to respond to a phone ringtone.

Graeme would then take my training method and use it to teach the Border Collie of the family seeking help – all while filming it for his TV show!

WTF 😳😳😳

I decided to dig a bit deeper and reached out to the force-free dog training community to see if anyone else had experienced something this bizarre.

It turns out that many trainers had also been asked to attend filming sessions to show Graeme how to train dogs before the cameras rolled. Most reported that they refused because of his methods, but a few had shown him and his team how to train a dog, only to be dismissed without any credit for their expertise.

I then did some open-source research on "The Country’s Best Dog Trainer," as the *Daily Telegraph* calls him. He has no formal training in canine behaviour or training. He’s essentially winging it with the help of whatever trainers are willing to show up and assist him.

According to his website, he charges £875 per session 🤔😧

Now I’m not someone who normally criticises other trainers. I prefer to let my clients decide if I’m the right trainer for them based on how I work with their dogs.

However, I couldn’t let this pass without making it public knowledge.

If you're looking for a dog trainer, please avoid this programme and this man. You have no idea whose techniques he’ll be using week to week, and given that most qualified and accredited trainers want nothing to do with him, the quality of training you’ll receive is questionable at best.

Instead, do your own research and find a local trainer who aligns with your own dog training ethics. Organisations such as The IMDT or APDT - Association of Pet Dog Trainers can help guide you to qualified & accredited trainers in your area.

𝑷𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒆 𝒅𝒐𝒏'𝒕 𝒑𝒖𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒅𝒐𝒈𝒔 𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒅𝒔 𝒐𝒇 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒓𝒍𝒂𝒕𝒂𝒏𝒔!

05/09/2024

Emails have been sent for Monday at Weeton

Please check that you have received one - and which class you are in!

04/09/2024

I’m so proud of these guys. It has taken 2.5yrs to get to a place where their dog is happy to interact with another, on and off lead.

She happily runs off lead with others, but equally pays no attention to dogs if they are unknown to her.
A balance of calm and friendly - not overbearing and rude. She has learned to read other dogs well and disengage when required.

For those who are struggling - remember this particular dog as taken 2.5yrs to get to this stage.

It won’t happen in a few weeks or even months in some cases.

It takes as long as it takes.

So pleased for you all and I’m
Glad Maggie is now living her best life!!

Last night we did some work on teaching a settle - and transferring this then to new environments. It’s not ‘training’ t...
03/09/2024

Last night we did some work on teaching a settle - and transferring this then to new environments.

It’s not ‘training’ training it’s a state of mind.

We are calm and we relax.

Think Keeva has this nailed gifts

I really liked the responses from the two posts yesterday and Sunday because in the comments you all began talking about...
03/09/2024

I really liked the responses from the two posts yesterday and Sunday because in the comments you all began talking about YOUR dog. There is no right or wrong - it is what your dog needs to feel safe and happy.

For me both have pros and cons.

Field - Pros
Huge distance to create space
Good visual so the dog can see potential triggers and be rewarded for remaining with you and engaged. Use a long line to prevent poor choices.

Field - Cons
Chance of off lead dogs approaching
Possibility of too much visual stimulation and dog being over-whelmed.

Path - Pros
Manage triggers easier as they can only come from in front or behind.
Good distance ahead to see easily
A good sniffy walk, so calming in nature.

Path- Cons

Dogs will be meeting head on - this is NEVER good.
Limited pacing places at the sides, so you would have to keep walking towards the trigger
Still possibility of off lead dogs approaching

Ultimately you know your dog and what their triggers are and what distances they need to feel safe, as well as how good their recall is.

For me I would opt for the field over the path, as I have more ability to see who is about and what potential may scare my dogs. I have enough distance to get my dogs away from a dog I see heading over, simply by walking away in the other direction. I also have enough space to pass a trigger on a BIG curve.

I always opt for distance in any situation between me and the trigger.

The most important thing is YOU know YOUR dog :)

What about this space for our reactive dogs compared to yesterdays image? Better or worse?
02/09/2024

What about this space for our reactive dogs compared to yesterdays image?

Better or worse?

Comment below… Is this a good walk for a dog who is dog reactive? Yes or No?
01/09/2024

Comment below…

Is this a good walk for a dog who is dog reactive? Yes or No?

Happening tomorrow - still places if people want to attend as its a HUMAN only event! Topics requested so far... * Resou...
01/09/2024

Happening tomorrow - still places if people want to attend as its a HUMAN only event!

Topics requested so far...

* Resource Guarding
* Teaching a Settle
* Loose Lead Walking
* Premack Principal
* Toy Play
* Dog Body Language
* Emergency Stop
* Eye Contact

Think this is plenty for the session... but if there is something you are desperate to see or have explained let me know!

31/08/2024

For those already signed up for the Show and Tell... Please let me know WHAT you would like me to demo!

Happening on Monday 2nd September at Weeton Village Hall 7pm £11 to come along (2x for £20) and watch some demonstration...
31/08/2024

Happening on Monday 2nd September at Weeton Village Hall 7pm £11 to come along (2x for £20) and watch some demonstrations based on your questions!

Fireworks from top of tower 9pm/9:15pm Friday 30th August Play this to your pets to help
30/08/2024

Fireworks from top of tower 9pm/9:15pm Friday 30th August

Play this to your pets to help

Kagemusha Taiko have toured Japan and represented European taiko at the first World Taiko Concert in Los Angeles. This energetic performance will show you wh...

30/08/2024

Why weekly classes are important.

2x spaces in 7:40pm - Weeton on a Monday
1x space 8:30pm - Weeton on a Monday

All other classes are now full 🐾🐾

The Three D's of Dog Training ... Duration, Distraction and Distance The Idea behind this is that you train with only 1 ...
30/08/2024

The Three D's of Dog Training ...

Duration, Distraction and Distance

The Idea behind this is that you train with only 1 D at once, but this poor wee dude got two out of three in his first recall session outside!

The original meeting place was no longer an option so we had to go to the local park... well you can image... cute puppy, school holidays, suns out etc...

So he really had it tough - so many dogs and people, even when we tried to tuck ourselves away in a corner!

Anyway, as he settled into the session he did remarkably well for the level of distraction he was facing... scooters, mobility scooters, football... honestly it was a so hard for him!!

I would NEVER EVER suggest a busy park for your pups first recall session, but sometimes things are out of our control; however the wee lad surprised us and was interested in all the things go on around him of course, but when he saw his folks moving off he was keen to follow and engage for a cuddle, treat or play with his favourite toy!

So homework now is to practice in somewhere much quieter with toy engagement and then slowly build up distractions!

Few clients today, one where we talked about enrichment for the whole session! Here is how my dogs had their breakfast (...
29/08/2024

Few clients today, one where we talked about enrichment for the whole session!

Here is how my dogs had their breakfast (&tea) today.

Revolving puzzle feeder, and muffin tray with balls to cover food.

Enrichment isnt a fad, nor should it be a one off for your dog. My dogs always have their food in something or on something, or simply scattered on the lawn.

It is so rewarding for the dog to sniff for their food and DO something to release a reward :)

Promotes
* Confidence, resilience, increased tolerance to frustration, calmness, independence, flexibility, reduces sensitivity to noise and movement and great little thinkers!

Just one golden rule - make the puzzle EASY and slowly build difficulty as your dog becomes more competent. It is a method to boost confidence, not deflate and defeat your pooch.

I love supporting people with specific struggles in 121s sessions - it’s amazing how much you can cover in 90 minutes!  ...
28/08/2024

I love supporting people with specific struggles in 121s sessions - it’s amazing how much you can cover in 90 minutes!

Thank you for the nice comment- and yes, looking forward to classes beginning again on the 9th - 10th September at Weeton and Norbreck venues.

Sometimes training is a family affaire! Really enjoyed meeting mum and daughter for the first time. Watching interaction...
28/08/2024

Sometimes training is a family affaire!

Really enjoyed meeting mum and daughter for the first time. Watching interactions with each other and how they interacted with their human guardian too.

We’ve begun some impulse control work by increasing toy play with their human rather than each other and building some listening skills into these games.

Also eye contact work and position rewards for loose lead walking.

😎🐾😎🐾😎

There are a few spaces remaining for these afternoon classes
26/08/2024

There are a few spaces remaining for these afternoon classes

3x spaces remaining at Weeton 2x at Norbreck
26/08/2024

3x spaces remaining at Weeton 2x at Norbreck

Please do register your interested as there is a reserve list :)
26/08/2024

Please do register your interested as there is a reserve list :)

Few spaces remaining for these afternoon classes
25/08/2024

Few spaces remaining for these afternoon classes

There is a reserve list; so still register your interest with me :)
25/08/2024

There is a reserve list; so still register your interest with me :)

3 spaces remaining!
25/08/2024

3 spaces remaining!

A great opportunity to watch demonstrations without worrying about your own dog. A must for those beginning classes in S...
25/08/2024

A great opportunity to watch demonstrations without worrying about your own dog. A must for those beginning classes in September and anyone else wanting to ask some questions on training

A Bit wild and windy down on the beach today! But this changing of the seasons means CLASSES are back for September runn...
25/08/2024

A Bit wild and windy down on the beach today!

But this changing of the seasons means CLASSES are back for September running through until Christmas with mypawfectk9

A few spaces remaining so please don’t forget to let me know you want a spot for the 7 week courses!

Weeton - Show and Tell - Monday 2nd September 7-8:30pm

Classes - Monday 9th September 6pm onwards

Loose lead and recall master class - Thursday a through October and November

NORBRECK - classes Tuesdays 1pm onwards

Keeva was really happy to see Tilly from Lancashire Vet Physio! Mist and Keeva really enjoy their treatment to keep them...
23/08/2024

Keeva was really happy to see Tilly from Lancashire Vet Physio!

Mist and Keeva really enjoy their treatment to keep them tip-top so we can carry on playing and running 🐾🐾

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Huge congratulations to Susan and Freya who achieved a first and second place at the Welsh KC Show! She really is a beau...
22/08/2024

Huge congratulations to Susan and Freya who achieved a first and second place at the Welsh KC Show!

She really is a beautiful dog - looking forward to welcoming you both back in September too

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