27/11/2025
Many of the behavioral dynamics used to justify pain-based training mirror the exact same dynamics people are taught to escape in human relationships:
1. Fear-based compliance
Victims obey to avoid harm.
Dogs obey to avoid prong pops or lead corrections.
2. Walking on eggshells
Victims become hypervigilant.
Dogs become hyper-aware of lead tension and handler movement.
3. Suppression looks like calm
Victims go quiet to stay safe.
Dogs shut down and appear “well-behaved.”
4. Harm gets rebranded
Abusers minimize (“it wasn’t that bad”).
Pain tools get rebranded as “pressure,” “clarity,” or “communication.”
5. Control is framed as care
“I'm doing this because I love you.”
“This correction makes the dog confident.”
6. Learned helplessness
Victims stop trying.
Dogs stop offering behaviors.
The behavioral mechanisms of fear and control look the same, even if the context and moral weight are completely different.
Dogs deserve learning built on safety and understanding, not on avoiding the next consequence.
ABUSE IS ABUSE!