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Advocating for your dog, are we just too British to do it??
It might sound simple enough, you know your dog best and obviously want to make sure others respect them, right?
In reality this can be really challenging for a lot of people, including me (though I am getting better at it).
Advocating for your dog might look like saying "No" when someone asks to stroke them, it might be asking someone to call their dog away from yours in the park, it could be finding a groomer who will prioritise how your dog feels about the process and take their time (over several visits if needed) rather than a quick and pretty finish achieved by restraining a shut down dog (let's be fair here, it is just as often dog owners who push for this as it is the groomers), or communicating with your Vet and their team about how you want your dog handled and when you need to be involved for your dog's wellbeing and everyone's safety during a visit.
That last example was me and our wonderful veterinary team yesterday when Jack had to go in for a dental to remove a broken tooth (ouch!).
It has taken me many, many years of living and working with dogs as well as having several close friends in the vet care world who I can discuss things with, to become even vaguely comfortable advocating for my dog at the vets and it still stresses me out!
I am naturally submissive around authority figures, especially professionals with extensive knowledge and skills that I do not have (Veterinarians, human doctors, teachers, law enforcement etc.) and I often freeze up when having to think on the spot (the more important the question, the more likely I am to freeze - helpful huh?) so going in to see the vet when my dog is stressed and I am trying not to look like an idiot, while advocating for my dog and remembering the relevant information to give for the Vet to be able to do their job, is quite a lot for me.
I'm only human.
On this occasion, we had been seen by one of the lovely Vets at our practice, Ha
I had a lovely private outing* with Stringer today. He really enjoys a ball and using his nose to find it is a great alternative to repetitive throwing.
I am able to offer 121 dog excursions* to a select few clients whose dogs really benefit from me keeping them feeling safe (as well as actually being safe).
If you think your dog might enjoy personally tailoured adventures* with me, please get in touch.
Most of the dogs I see regularly come out with me just one or two days a week, others, like Stringer are more Ad Hoc. For some guardians, this gives them a day of respite, as although they love their dogs, going out in the world together can be hard. It's ok to give yourself permission to take some "me time" so that you can show up as your best self for your canine family member β€οΈ
*Despite having been a professional dog walker for 18yrs, I don't like calling them "walks" any more (I can't decide what to call them instead though!). I feel "walk" frames the whole experience as being primarily about exercise, or simply getting from A to B, and on an individual level, it should be so much more than that. When we take our dogs out, it is their time and I like to find out how each dog chooses to spend it.