23/10/2025
More cracking wisdom from Shakespeare. And although he wasn’t specifically referring to our relationships with dogs in this line from Hamlet, it does fit incredibly well.
We humans are all too eager to ascribe morality to our canine friends, but a dog who is taking food from the kitchen counters, who is chewing up your furniture, who is digging holes in your garden, and running off with your shoes - none of this is bad behaviour.
Similarly, a dog lying quietly when the post drops through your front door, a dog travelling calmly in your car, a dog not running off as soon as he catches the scent of a rabbit, a dog being uninterested in your food when you are having dinner - none of that is good behaviour either.
It is all just behaviour.
It is we humans who are so keen to decide what is good and what is bad. Dogs are less concerned about morality and more concerned about being safe and meeting their own needs.
So by all means tell them what good pups they are when they’re doing things that make you happy, but when they’re doing things that make you less than happy, then work out what YOU need to be doing differently in order to ensure that they are able to offer a behaviour that you would find more agreeable. Because, in the end, dogs are just trying to get by as best as they can in a world which must be really puzzling for them at times. The least we can do is to help them on that journey.