26/09/2025
Horses whisper before they shout.
The obvious signs of pain—bucking, spooking, rearing—come after the quieter cues have been missed.
Pay attention to the subtle signals: tension in the face, a triangle eye, pinned ears, resistance to tack, reluctance to move forward, or hesitance at the mounting block.
Once you allow yourself to truly look, the signs become unmistakable. 🤍
Imagine going about your day but not being able to talk. How would you communicate your wants, needs, successes, pain…? 🤐
Your only way of communicating is really through your actions.
But you can only communicate with trusted people, if you make a misjudgment and choose the wrong person you will be [at best] ignored.
Horses can only communicate in this way; through their actions, expressions and behaviours. If they have no trusted people (ie. no one that listens OR someone who misinterprets), their actions will get louder and louder.
There are then 3️⃣ paths;
💛 You realise and you listen to your horse, responding as needed.
🖤 Your horses communication efforts are ignored, they get more in dramatic with their actions & behaviour, becoming difficult and dangerous. Pain memory territory.
💔 Your horses communication efforts are not only ignored, but negatively reinforced in ways that mean your horse must get on with it. So they shut down and learn to not communicate.
Listen to each and every communication your horse makes with you, open up for a two way conversation. Imagine the relief you would feel to have someone that would listen to you?
Pain and dysfunction can manifest in so many forms;
🔸 Twisting to the right? Poll tension, jaw pain, dental problems, tack fit, compensation patterns…
🔸 Fine on right rein but struggling left combined with sensitive right flank? Hindgut/digestive issues…
🔸 Fidgety to saddle? Ulcers, preempting discomfort when ridden, poor saddle fit (yes, even if you’ve just had it checked), incorrect girth design
🔸 Unhappy in the field/stable? Freedom, friends, forage - are these needs being met?
🔸 Stiffness? Pain, lack of movement (no, not always ridden)
Just because they can’t vocally say “my pain/struggle/discomfort is HERE”, doesn’t mean it’s not there.
I’m constantly working to refine my understanding of his communication, and also dissolving other opinions along the way that are not helpful.
If you have ever for even a moment put a ❓over something about your horse, listen… zoom in… see what makes it better, what makes it worse… & if you’re not sure, ask a trusted professional 🤍
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