21/09/2024
Another gem from wikihow 🤣
Equine Psychologist Specialising in Equine Mental Health Therapy, Language & Behaviour.
Another gem from wikihow 🤣
Behavioural diversity is what keeps animals mentally healthy. It refers to all the species specific natural behaviours they display in the wild.
The problem with domestic and zoo environments is that it massively reduces behavioural diversity. The confined set up restricts available behaviours, leading to no other option but to repeat a limited repertoire.
Horses are designed to roam freely together, engaging in social activities like mutual grooming, sharing space, helping each other with insects, communicating with each other whenever the need arises. They’re designed to explore, forage and graze open areas, seek out new tastes, mineral sources and travel at distance sometimes to a water source. They need to eat small amounts constantly and sleep whenever they feel the need within the safety of their herd.
Domestic environments restrict their ability to do so many of their natural behaviours, forcing them to simply repeat the limited behaviours available to them. Its why so many struggle and adopt maladaptive ‘stable vices’ in order to cope. It’s unnatural for horses (or any animal) to repeat the same limited behaviours over and over. Having a limited repertoire of being confined to a stable or pen and standing still eating from a hay-net only to be exercised is unethical. Sooner rather than later, they suffer mentally and physically.
Its shocking that people genuinely think horses don’t need much turnout, when being in a field is the thing they need the most in life. Its how they should live. Its more important than hard feed, stables, being shod, groomed or training and is the ONLY way to provide them with a life worth living.
Behavioural diversity can only be achieved in a field with friends. If we cannot offer our horses all year round turn out for the majority of the day at the least, we should do right by them and find them a home with someone who can actually meet their needs.
A life of captivity for a horse is hell, it’s no quality of life, and it takes an exceptionally selfish person to keep a horse this way, all in the name of their own enjoyment.
The “problem horse” 🐴
There is such a recurring theme in the clients I’m seeing that I really feel the need to talk about this more. Time and time again I am seeing horses displaying significant signs of pain, who have been to the vet to have some diagnostics and been told there is nothing wrong, the horse definitely isn’t in pain and they need to send the horse to a trainer. It is incredibly frustrating and upsetting as an owner when you really feel something isn’t right but are being told by professionals that the issue is you and you’re overthinking it or being soft.
The idea that a problem is purely behavioural is a fallacy in and of itself. Behaviour is a manifestation of how the horse is experiencing life, whether that be pain/discomfort in the body, the environment, the people, the training, the diet, trauma, past experiences etc. It is unfortunately not packed into two neat little boxes of either pain or behaviour and, even if it was, the idea that we could easily rule out pain with the limited diagnostics available is unrealistic.
When we have a horse that is displaying concerning behaviour, beyond the usual joint, back x-rays and scoping for ulcers, we need to consider hind gut issues, liver issues, hormonal issues, muscle myopathies, congenital defects, old injuries, compensatory patterns, the list goes on. Often we do find pathology, medicate it and declare the horse pain-free and ready to crack on without considering the other factors at play.
I cannot emphasise enough the role of environmental factors. Sometimes we are chasing pathology, buying expensive supplements, paying every professional under the sun to fit our horse’s tack, train them, give them bodywork and hoof care while entirely missing the fact the horse’s basic needs are not being met. If your horse is stressed in his living environment you are setting yourselves up to fail. Horses that are living in a chronic state of stress and have very little ability to down-regulate their nervous system are unable to thrive and develop healthy bodies.
So many horses have poor posture which is causing tension and soreness in their bodies, it is so normalised that it seems to be rarely recognised as an issue as horses can still perform at high levels even when their bodies are compromised, we’re used to seeing horses with poor muscle development. Winning trophies does not necessarily mean the horse is comfortable, it means the horse is compliant. A lot of training views compliance as the main measure of success without really seeing how the horse is feeling both emotionally and physically, with the training itself often contributing to more tension, stress and strain on the body.
All of these things together create the “problem horse”.
I feel really strongly that we need to start looking at things differently if we want to train ethically and also increase longevity for our horses. What if instead of just medicating the horse then sending the horse to the trainer to be “fixed”, we took a step back and really looked at the whole horse and maybe why this happened in the first place.
I genuinely think we’d have much more long term success if we took the pressure off, made sure their living environment was the best we could get it, learned to help our horses down-regulate their nervous system and train at the horse’s pace in an environment they’re comfortable in. In doing so we can really help their bodies and support them as best we can with their issues.
Watching horses find relaxation in their bodies, find peace around people and start to find joy in movement through slow, low-pressure training doesn’t make very exciting videos but it does transform horse’s (and people’s) lives.
If you take anything away from this just know that you absolutely CAN train pain, people are doing it every day and getting 100k views on their reels, so don’t disregard your horse’s voice just because he is somewhat compliant or someone told you to. Behaviour is communication, not something to be fixed. There are people out here who will help you and your horse and not dismiss your concerns. 🐴
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That moment the animal your sat on is orienting and you pray their reaction is going to be a rational one 😜🤣
Love this guy.
CONNECTION VERSUS PROXIMITY
Something I hear from people a lot when they are asking about their horses is "We have a good connection, he's kind of a pocket horse, he follows me everywhere, but..." and they then go on to describe a problem that usually is a result from a lack of connection.
Proximity is not connection.
Clinginess is not connection.
Try not to get connection and physical closeness confused.
Connection is rooted in attunement, which is (as Sarah Schlote of Equusoma: Horse-Human Trauma Recovery puts it) 'the sense of being seen, being heard, feeling felt and getting gotten". It's about them trusting you, trusting you have their best interest at heart, and the feeling of safety you give them when you have proven that you are as aware as the rest of their heard members.
Clinginess is a juvenile behaviour that the mother (and other herd members) allows up until the age of weaning, then they start to work on collision avoidance (a term I picked up reading the works of British ethologist Lucy Rees). Installing collision avoidance is what allows a herd of horses to move safely together at speed like a school of fish or a flock of birds. It's also part of the mental maturation process, and if that process doesn't happen horses tend to retain a that and a lot of other juvenile behaviours.
So beware of the trap of thinking that you have connection because you have constant proximity. It may just be a juvenile behaviour in disguise.
‘He’s fine with it’
‘He happy’
‘He enjoys it’
I hear statements like this a lot from ‘horse people’ and it now falls on deaf ears because the truth is usually the opposite.
Anthropomorphism in the horse world is rife. This term means to attribute human behaviours and responses to non human animals. For example, a horse that’s animated or forward going is referred to as ‘excited’. A horse that tries to bite us is ‘nasty’, or a horse that stands still for bathing is ‘happy’. None of these are likely the case. When horses display behaviours that resemble one of ours, people jump to the conclusion that the horse is behaving that way for the same reason we do and that’s where it all goes wrong.
When it comes to a completely different species, especially a prey animal, their behaviour and body language WILL be different to ours. They will have completely different reasons to us for behaving in ways that resemble ours.
Being anthropomorphic actually stems from a good place, it shows we have some ability to empathise, but more often than not it causes us to behave inappropriately in response to their behaviours, because we read it wrongly, we punish fear responses, and believe they are happy when they are in fact stressed.
We should absolutely be using empathy in our training, but we can only get it right when we are more ‘theriomorphic’ and apply ANIMAL species specific reasons to their behaviours. This is only possible however if we actually learn about the species. Simply assigning human characteristics to them means we don’t actually know the species at all.
Believing that our horses are ok with what we are ‘doing’ to them is just that, a belief, it is not a fact. For example, tying a prey animal up so that they can’t escape and them standing still whilst being bathed by predators doesn’t in any way mean they enjoy it. They merely tolerate it, most likely having learnt that if they fidget or show concern, the situation only gets worse for them, hence why they now stand still. The simple fact they stand still for it now means the human genuinely believes that the horse is ‘fine’ with it. If the horse was genuinely ok with it, we wouldn’t need to tie them up to do it, they would happily stand there of their own accord.
If we genuinely believe our horse is just fine with having something ‘done’ to them, then we can prove it, just don’t tie them up.
Even when we have a background in animal behaviour science and a deep understanding for the species, observable behaviour does not always reflect let alone guarantee their internal emotional state. Do we ‘look’ afraid when we are in the dentist’s chair?
Most horses have a learning history of realising they have no choice, which often looks like ‘happiness’ or cooperation to the untrained eye, when it is in fact compliance… doing something they don’t like to simply avoid more unpleasantness.
What does a ‘happy’ horse even look like when escape isn’t an option? A happy horse is when they’re in the field grazing with friends, enjoying their freedom and forage, not being our conduits for pleasure. A happy horse is one that has a choice.
When our horses are tied up, restrained, or wearing ridiculous equipment so that a human can feel in control, stating that they are ‘fine with it’ is garbage, it’s denial, we are simply seeing what we want to see to justify getting our own way.
The ONLY way we can accurately state whether our horses are genuinely ‘fine’ with something, is to take away the restraints, take away the equipment, and see if they still behave in the same way, otherwise, we are simply kidding ourselves from a serious lack of understanding for the animal we profess to ‘know’, just because we’ve mastered forcing them to bend to our will during our 30 odd years of ‘experience’.
Just wow 😮
When a horse behaves in a way that’s ‘undesirable’ to us, it’s almost always because they feel that OUR behaviour is ‘undesirable’ or fearful to them…
Mares simply speak the truth, their only flaw is not being able to say the words “YOU are the problem”.
If Olympic riders are supposedly the ‘best of the best’, why do they need harsh equipment to achieve it? If they really were the best, they wouldn’t need it in the first place.
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Stimuli appropriate response.
Does your horse seemingly over react to negative stimuli? Violent spooking with no good reason, hyper-vigilance, over sensitive to noise or disturbances? What is a stimuli appropriate response?
To understand the world as our horses see it, we need to think about where they came from and how they evolved and compare it to the individual circumstances of your horse today.
Stimuli appropriate response is just what it says. It means the horse notices something and reacts in manner appropriate to the level of threat of the stimuli. So when your horse has a complete breakdown because someone sneezes in the gallery during your dressage test, that is absolutely not an appropriate response.
In a natural environment, a hyper-vigilant horse would not be tolerated by the herd. If a horse was constantly jumping and spooking at shadows, the rest of the herd would reject that energy as it’s dangerous. If a prey animal wastes energy jumping at shadows, when a real threat appears, they may have used up too much energy to be able to get away effectively. A wild horse can’t afford to waste energy in that way. This is a basic survival trait that should still exist in the domestic horse.
For a horse to be excessively “sharp”, “hot”, “spooky”, is not a natural state. It’s not a breed trait, it is stress, tension, anxiety. Yes, some horses have been bred to have a higher flight response but they still shouldn’t “waste” energy, it doesn’t make sense from the most primitive level of simple survival.
What happens in our domestic horses is the same that happens to people. Stresses of life build up. Some human therapists talk of “stress buckets”. These are your safety net. As soon as they overflow, you are in trouble. People who are struggling in life, for whatever reason, tend to have their stress buckets filled close to the top just to get through day to day life. It doesn’t take much added stimulation to tip them over the edge.
Our horses are no different. Many horses are highly stressed due to living environment, training methods, inappropriate feed, various levels of pain or injury or any number of underlying reasons. Their stress buckets are close to full so when an added stress situation occurs, they “over react”.
If you have a very sharp, spooky, hyper-vigilant, over reactive horse, you may want to stop, step back and take a good, long look at why the horse is behaving this way. It’s goes against rational survival concerns, in fact it increases the risk of accidents or injuries so it’s not “normal” behaviour.
We need to stop ignoring behaviours that serve no healthy purpose to the horse. We have ignored so many of our horses cries for help, preferring to think “it’s just the way he/she is”. We are conditioned to think that the horse is behaving poorly “just because”. If a horses behaviour makes no sense, we owe it to the horse to figure out what it is trying to communicate rather than brush it off as “normal”.
U.S competitor eliminated due to blood on rear fetlock, which occurred when the horse was freaking out moments before competing.
Two things about this utterly ridiculous statement from the apparent professional…
SHES NOT WONDERING ANYTHING! she’s relieved to be left alone again! Horses are NEVER disappointed to get out of work, even if they actually enjoy it.
Its physiologically impossible for any mammalian species to enjoy something that causes such immense stress that it puts them OVER THRESHOLD in a job. If Jane genuinely enjoyed her job, she would have felt safe and wouldnt have been so stressed that she had a freak out even before doing it, leading to her kicking herself causing bleeding in the first place. This is the opposite of LOVING a job. A horse that genuinely loves its job and is trained properly is relaxed and takes it in their stride.
The lack of understanding on a ‘professional’ level is astounding!! People simply see what they want to see. Not one horse actually wants to be there, they simply have no choice.
Just more proof on the subject of my post a few weeks back, how professional riders and trainers, even at the Olympic level do not have adequate knowledge to be in this industry. This level of cruelty is simply a shortcut for talentless, inadequate training. EVERY horse is capable of performing in just a snaffle if the the trainers actually knew what they were doing. This is just abuse. Seems the revolution is starting to take hold though. Who knows, maybe one day we’ll be thanking Charlotte for her grotesque behaviour because its the shock factor this industry needed to get the ball rolling.
The FEI also needs investigating for allowing this.
Is there justification to tighten flashes to this extent just so we can compete horses at an international level?
Is it fair to them to disable their ability to relieve pressure in the mouth, particularly with a gag bit?
Where do we draw the line in terms of how much discomfort is acceptable to cause horses just in the name of competition?
Do horse sports deserve to remain in the Olympics if it often results in causing our equine companions much discomfort in order to have them perform at that level?
Wow, I completely agree 😞
Some further context on the Charlotte Dujardin situation to further illustrate power dynamics and why people wait to report.
Quoted from The Guardian:
“One of Team GB’s biggest stars, Charlotte Dujardin, has been banned from the Paris Olympics over allegations that she whipped a horse “24 times … like an elephant in a circus”.
[Charlotte] has been suspended after a video emerged of the incident that occurred when she conducted a coaching session to a young rider in a private stable several years ago.
The Dutch lawyer Stephan Wensing is representing the 19-year-old who filed the official complaint against Dujardin.”
I’m sure you can all do math but if the person who filed the complaint is 19 years old, it means they were 15 at the time of the incident.
FIFTEEN.
A minor.
Please go and look at how many people are deflecting from what Dujardin is accused of on the basis that it’s vindictive and not about welfare to wait 4 years to report.
The person who reported was a CHILD during the incident.
A child within the presence of an Olympian who was likely their idol.
Now, horse industry, please pause for a moment and reflect on how quick our industry is to victim blame and try to deflect accountability away from powerful and well known top riders.
At the expense of minors, oftentimes.
If they are 19 now at the time of reporting, it means they have only been a legal adult for a year. With far less life experience than Dujardin, who was 35 years old when this all would’ve happened.
A whole 20 years older than the FIFTEEN YEAR OLD who witnessed and documented this.
Every single person who went to blame the person who reported while entirely ignoring or glossing over Charlotte’s behaviour has contributed to the type of mentality that makes people less likely to report.
They often aren’t taken seriously when they report right away, are exposed to heavy criticism and risk losing a lot of what they’ve worked to earn.
But, if they wait, people discredit them as well.
We protect abusers by fixating on the victims and why they might hesitate to report.
If a 15 year old is expected to have the foresight to report an incident relating to one of the most highly regarded dressage riders in the world and do so without fear of repercussion, we certainly should be holding the mid-to-late-thirties Olympian, who was a role model and teacher in that moment, to a higher standard.
This is why people hesitate to report.
Our industry is toxic and has a lot of dynamics at play that silence those who speak out against abuse of all types.
It doesn’t stop at just horses, I watched this same thing happen with Rich Fellers years ago and people still attacked the minor-aged victim despite the fact that Fellers was a sexual predator.
‘Out of character’ my a**. Im not surprised as im very aware of what happens on GB olympic yards, let alone all the others. When we have the right mindset, we NEVER resort to actions that lead to situations like this in the first place. It doesnt matter whats going on with us, it will never be ok to take our temper out on a horse.
Team GB's joint-most decorated female Olympian Charlotte Dujardin has pulled out of Paris 2024 amid the emergence of a video showing an "error of judgement" that has seen her placed under investigation by competition organisers.
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‘Undoing’ trauma. Ellie was terrified of anything touching her ears due to ear papillomas. Most sources say this condition ‘doesn’t affect them’ but if that was the case she wouldn’t have had such a complex, they were quite obviously uncomfortable for her at times. It was likely made worse by people in her past who felt the need to try and remove them like scabs. Previously she would be cornered, her head held down and the bridle forced on ‘quickly’ in the traditional way which simply hurt and made everything worse. At 5ft to her 16.3hh it was physically impossible for me to do that even if i wanted to, which i didn’t. This was the very slow process of helping her through it. Just approaching with the bridle would send her to the back of the stable where she would hold her head up as high as possible and nod violently in an attempt to stop it happening. When it comes to fear, we must break it down into tiny increments, this process is called ‘successive approximation’. In the second section of this vid, even though its just the head piece, im still going too fast, communicated by her reaction to it going on and then her having a moment of panic on the next try. The only way through was to build her confidence by listening to her, letting her control the progress, and making it as rewarding as possible for her. Watch as her confidence grows, she becomes more willing and offers her head down. This took about a month of working with it almost daily. A year later after four months off due to feet issues, we had to go through this all over again. We call it ‘spontaneous recovery’, but this time it only took a few weeks.
When it comes to riding, If our horses regularly… Try to bite when we tack up. Don’t stand still at the mounting block. Walk off the second we get on. Speed up if we give them their head/hold the buckle. Consistently speed up in trot or canter with a ‘contact’. Don’t stand still when we do ask them to stop. Shake or nod their heads either when stood still or moving. Put their tongue over the bit. Repeatedly snatch at the reins. Jog on a regular basis Constantly swish their tails. (These are just some of the more common examples) Then the horse is either in pain, or is suffering some form of anxiety about being ridden. None of these issues have anything to do with their ‘personality’ or breed, its simply them trying to communicate that they do not feel safe and are afraid or it hurts. EVERY single behaviour our horses exhibit stems from their emotional state, its done for A VALID reason and has a function/it serves a purpose. The same applies to humans. Its why different people react differently to the same stimulus. If we were to sneak up and startle someone (genuinely in the name of ‘fun’) their reaction would depend on their emotional state. If they were having a bad time, they’d likely get angry because they want it to stop/its added stress. Normally when my husband does it to me, its because were both in a happy place so i end up laughing A LOT at the involuntary noise my body just made, so it was in fact, enjoyable 🙈 You’re likely reading this because you want to learn and be the best person for your horse out of love….. Everything boils down to our emotions. A mentally happy, relaxed horse that isn’t in pain will have no need to display any of the behaviours above. The ONLY way to tell for sure if our horses are genuinely ok with being ridden is to see if we can walk, trot, and canter on the buckle in a relaxed state without them speeding up. If we cannot do this then we have much work to do. Most horses are never gi
Im seeing a lot of posts lately about licking, chewing and yawning and how it’s considered a ‘bad’ thing and if we see this in our horses then we are doing wrong. I feel this outlook is extremely unfair. When a horse licks and chews or yawns it is a stress release. It’s the result of the nervous system bringing the horse back down to a more relaxed state. When a horse is concerned about something, their sympathetic nervous system (the ‘go’ side) takes over, and part of this process involves redirecting blood away from the extremities and reduces the production of saliva. When the nervous system decides the threat is over, the parasympathetic system (the ‘whoa’ side) takes back over which means blood flows back into the muzzle and saliva production resumes resulting in the horse licking and chewing. Horses go through this process many times a day whether they are with us or not, because a prey animal is always vigilant and there will always be things in the environment that concern them. A horse can go through this entire process in under a minute and It really doesn’t take much for it to kick in. Horse catches movement in the distance, raises his head from grazing to get a better look at it, decides it’s not a threat, licks n chews and goes back to grazing. I can understand why some are going over to the extreme side and stating that our horses should never ‘lick n chew’ because it implies we are causing them great stress, but unless you have owned the horse for years using only R+, and the horse has learnt what to expect in every single possible life situation, its unrealistic and still not possible to avoid 100% of the time. It will happen from time to time because they are hard wired to fear new situations and stating that we are to blame for stressing them just because we see this ‘release’ is not OK. Now, I am in no way stating that its ok to cause our horses any ‘stress’ whatsoever. We must always use positive reinforce
We cannot claim to have a good relationship or bond with our horse if it’s one sided. This doesnt exist in the human world, not does it with our animals. Any relationship that benefits one individual considerably more than the other on a consistent basis isn’t a relationship, it’s being ‘used’. If we only ever turn up to see our horse when we want to ride then they will simply associate us with work, not a friend with whom they want to spend time with. Many people lack the ability to empathise with horses. They’re too busy looking for judgements like ‘stubborn’ ‘mareish’ ‘spicy’ to justify not getting what they want out of the horse, rather than putting themselves in the horses shoes and asking ‘how would i feel in this scenario?’ A relationship with a horse begins and ends with empathy, not an agenda. Horses that pair bond spend time just sharing space together, looking out for each other, mutually grooming when both are in the mood for it, grazing together, checking out interesting things or potentially scary things together, and sometimes just sleeping in each other’s company. We touch horses way too much (i know, it is so hard to keep our hands to ourselves, but this is for us, not them). Most horses don’t actually enjoy being touched unless they come to us for scratchies. The more we can just be there as company and share space with them having no agenda, and asking ourselves what can i do for my horse? The deeper our bond becomes and the more they become a willing partner under saddle that doesn’t simply see us turn up and think ‘oh no, not this one again’.
It doesn’t matter what other people think of our methods, all that matters is that the horse approves. This was the end of a very gentle, groundwork session, i let her off and went to switch the camera off and she decided to come with me. If they choose to stay with us after we have ‘worked’ them and set them free, then we know that we are doing it right as its a good indication that they approve of our methods, 😜 (although she was not happy at the sound of the flag being retracted which we can clearly see by that head shake). This is where videoing ourselves can help us. I later worked on that too! 😊
The only way to find out how a horse truly feels about us/being groomed/bathed/tacked up etc, is to take the head collar off… Horses will stand and tolerate most things we do to them once that head collar is on because they have learnt they have no choice but to put up with it. They’re tied up and there’s no escape. It does NOT necessarily mean they are okay with what we are doing. Ive never tied my horses up to be groomed, tacked up, carry out minor first aid, etc when in the stable or play pen because the only way for them to truly realise they can trust us is if we give them the option to leave if they feel worried. A worried horse will walk away. By giving them this option and not following/putting any pressure on them, together with ensuring our interactions are pleasant for them too, they will very likely choose to come back knowing they wont be ‘trapped’ if it does get overwhelming for them. What more it is always good practice to ensure they have a hay net at these times because it simply keeps their minds happier. This method also gives them the ability and confidence to communicate with us when we are causing them concern such as brushing too hard in general or in certain sensitive spots, or whether they have a negative association with the saddle/girth/bridle, particular grooming tool, etc. They may walk away a lot in the early days of this process, but eventually, IF we listen, they realise they can begin to communicate with us instead by nodding their heads for example when they aren’t comfortable with what we are doing. Once we get the recipe right, and learn their language, they will willingly stand without a head collar, knowing they are safe in our hands. If you always tie your horse up and genuinely believe the horse is ok with what you do to them, move the process to a place where you can take the head collar off and see what happens, it will be very valuable information. Giving our horses a choice when possible and allowing
Tips to deepen your bond and earn your horses trust.. Whenever you’re with them, give them your undivided attention. (No one likes that person who doesn’t even bother to look up at you to reply when you talk, because they’re on their phone.) EVERY time your horse turns their head towards you, acknowledge their request for connection or comfort, by offering your hand to their mouth/muzzle, this makes them feel ‘seen’. Whenever you’re grooming or doing first aid, let them sniff whats in your hand first before putting it on their body. With repetition it helps put their mind at ease as to whats about to happen. (If a doctor approached you with an object you didn’t recognise, wouldn’t you feel much more comfortable knowing what it was first?) Horses are curious. Let them investigate and explore things in their surroundings (or even non horsey things in your hands when you walk past) if they show an interest, it engages their mind and helps them learn that things wont eat them at a later date 🤣
Let’s talk pressure… Many people are turning to methods that are based purely on positive reinforcement with horses and although this is fantastic from a general welfare point of view, the truth of the matter is we cannot avoid all pressure in life no matter what the species. Pressure must occur in order for learning to take place, its factual science, but this refers to small amounts of pressure or information if you will. When we receive information, our brains must respond to it/the stimulus by absorbing the information, understanding it and subsequently carrying out the required response. This technically means that it’s simply impossible to remove ALL pressure from our horses’ lives. What more when we attempt to protect or shelter our animals and loved ones from every aversive in the world, we are simply removing their ability to deal with even the tinies of situations that arise in every day life, and we cannot control the environment all the time so we are not doing them any favours. Now, I also want to make it clear that I’m in no way stating that we should expose our horses to unnecessary or strong pressure, but let’s have a quick look into what ‘pressure’ really is.. When it comes to horses, many people think of the word ‘pressure’ and instantly jump to the traditional training methods that involve using as much pressure as it takes to force the individual to comply, but that isn’t ‘pressure’, that’s actual FORCE and quite simply cruelty. If we think as ‘pressure’ as basically any stimulus that causes a response, which happens on a daily basis. For example… The alarm goes off in the morning which puts pressure on us to put it off When we have to be somewhere at 3pm, that’s pressure on us to be there at that time When we are hungry there’s pressure on us to eat. Even standing up is more pressure than sitting down, but it isn’t something we would consider as cruel if we were asked to. We deal with small level
How much REM sleep does your horse get on a daily basis? Sleep deprevation is an issue for some horses. We all know they doze standing up, but they also need at least 20-40 mins of REM sleep in a 24 hour cycle to be psychologically healthy. This gets a little difficult for some horses because it involves lying down, which they will only do when they feel safe enough, and so largely depends on their lifestyle and the way they are handled by their owners. Many cases of sleep depravation are the result of illness or injury that physically stop the horse from being able to lie down. Such horses become so exhausted they can no longer adequately engage the stay apparatus that allows them to lock their legs, and they can be seen effectively collapsing to their knees. Anxiety can also result in a horse that doesn’t feel safe enough to lie down, resulting in sleep deprivation. Chronic anxiety means the horse can become ‘stuck’ in low level flight mode which only becomes progressively worse from the lack of sleep, but luckily there is a remedy for this. 😊 Knowing how much REM sleep your horse gets is important, because it affects their mental health. What more, having a horse that trusts you implicitly so that they will happily drop to the floor and start twitching, snoring and dreaming away in your company (not out of exhaustion) is all the proof you need that you are trusted 😍
What If horses aren’t being ‘naughty’, they’re in pain or reacting out of fear.. What if a horse isn’t being disrespectful but is curious and wants to investigate us.. What if when a horse resists he’s not being stubborn or lazy, he’s worried about what we’re are asking.. What if a horse isn’t trying to bite us, he just feels insecure and is looking for connection but his muzzle is his ‘hands’.. What if a horse isn’t grumpy or ‘mareish’, they just don’t feel comfortable with us.. What if implementing occasional rewards in our training isn’t spoiling the horse and encouraging bad manners but is an incentive for them to work for us.. What if correcting every little behaviour that annoys us (for no logical reason), is unnecessary because the horse is just trying to cope and we just allow the horse to be a horse… What if a horse has likes and dislikes that don’t align with ours, and thats simply ok.. What if a horse has bad days where it’s not in the right mindset to be ridden and we accept it.. What if when horses don’t show us the love we want from them, it’s not personal.. What if a horse isn’t a tool for our entertainment, but an individual with feelings.. What if a horse doesn’t plan to piss you off but simply lives in the moment.. What if we started to respect the horse for the magnificent individual being that it is instead of creating stories in our heads about every little behaviour that ‘insults’ our ego.. What if we got over ourselves and started to earn their respect instead of demanding something we dont yet deserve? Changing the way we view our horses is the first step to a magical transformation. When WE change, our horses change 😊
When horses rub their heads on us, Its a gesture of friendship to let them. Friends help each other out when they have an itch they cant reach on their own 🤣 We just need to make sure we adjust our stance so that the horse doesn’t move our feet 😊
We need to be aware of every tiny change in our horses’ body language, and learn to perfect our timing. This mare was so terrified of the whip when she came to me that even very slow movement with it towards her body caused her so much fear that she would lash out at it with any leg. Once i worked out how to get around the initial trigger, it still took 6 months to get to this point. Movement still has to be slow to ensure we stay under threshold, and although shes somewhat comfortable with the process on the top half of her body, notice how her concern kicks in when i place it on her shoulder. It may not look much but its very valuable information that if i ignored/missed, would undo all the hard work so far and damage her trust in me.