
02/03/2025
Dogs need:
- their doggie and individual needs met
- managing to prevent them being a risk to themselves or others
- consistency and predictability
- fair and consistent boundaries
- a human who they can depend on for these things, and whom they can feel safe with
They do not need:
- a firm hand
- someone to show them who's boss
- putting in their place
- strict and generic rules that don't take account of their and your individuality
I see so many lovely people who come to me with reactive dogs and are worried that they’ve caused their dogs issues as they’ve been told they ‘love their dogs too much’ or they ‘spoil’ them and they are ashamed to admit they let their dog sleep in their bed. NONE of these things cause a dog to become reactive.
Reactive dogs are stressed and anxious dogs and they need to feel safe, they need to feel secure and they need to be loved.
Reactivity issues can be complex and can be due to anxiety, frustration and, in many cases, health issues or pain are a factor too.
Past negative experiences, early life experiences, maternal factors and genetics all play a huge role. It’s often a multitude of factors that have combined to cause reactivity and it’s honestly never as you love them too much or spoil them.
Treating them kindly and making them feel safe will help them to get BETTER and not worse
PS my yorkie sleeps in my bed, often inside my pyjamas, and is treated like some sort of demigod in our house and she has no behavioural issues 😂
Laura McAuliffe, Dog Communication