06/01/2025
đž Bringing Your Puppy Home: What You Need to Know đž
Bringing a puppy home is exciting, but itâs also a big adjustment for them. Puppies are leaving behind their mum and littermates, so itâs important to support their emotional needs and help them settle in. Hereâs how to set them up for success:
⨠1. Think About Their Emotional Needs
⢠Puppies are experiencing a huge change, so give them time to adjust.
⢠Create a safe, quiet space where they can relax and feel secure, like a pen or crate with comfy bedding (you may have been given a blanket with mums scent on from the breeder, which is great to use) and toys. This becomes their safe haven when they need rest or downtime.
⨠2. Set Realistic Expectations (and Puppy-Proof Your Home)
Puppies donât know the rules yet! Mistakes like chewing or toileting indoors are normal â theyâre not being naughty.
Take some time to puppy-proof your home to prevent accidents and keep them safe:
⢠Use baby gates to block off areas you donât want them exploring yet.
⢠Remove hazards like shoes, wires, or anything chewable from their reach.
⢠Secure bins, cupboards, and anything fragile or valuable.
Management tools like gates, pens, or crates can help keep your puppy out of trouble while theyâre learning the ropes. Redirect them to appropriate behaviours and reward them for getting it right to encourage learning.
⨠3. Reward Positive Behaviours
⢠Instead of focusing on what they shouldnât do, teach them what youâd like them to do.
⢠For example, reward calm behaviours like sitting or lying down, so your puppy learns that good things happen when theyâre calm.
⨠4. Gentle Socialisation
⢠Socialisation doesnât mean overwhelming your puppy. Introduce them to new experiences gradually, at their pace.
⢠Pair sights, sounds, and people with treats to help them build positive associations. This builds their confidence and reduces the chance of fear-based behaviours later.
⨠5. Build a Strong Bond Through Play
⢠Playtime is more than fun â it builds trust and connection! Games like tug or fetch are great for tiring your puppy out mentally and physically, which can help prevent unwanted behaviours caused by boredom.
⢠Sniffing games, like hiding treats around the house or using a snuffle mat, are fantastic for calming your puppy and tapping into their "rest and digest" nervous system. These activities encourage focus and relaxation, making them perfect for winding down after an active session.
⨠6. Sleeping Arrangements
⢠When your puppy first comes home, have them sleep in your room in a crate or pen. This helps them feel safe and secure.
⢠Leaving a puppy to sleep alone straight away can be traumatic and may cause lasting anxiety. Over time, you can gradually move the crate outside your room if thatâs your preference. Remember, dogs are social animals, and they naturally feel safer sleeping near you.
đĄ Think of it this way: Imagine being in a completely new country, surrounded by strangers, different smells, nobody who speaks your language, you don't feel safe and then you're told to sleep alone in the dark. How would you feel? Puppies need comfort and reassurance to build confidence.
⨠7. Gradually Introduce Alone Time
⢠Puppies donât naturally know how to be alone â this is something they need to learn slowly.
⢠Start with the flitting game (please see link in comments) leave the room for a few seconds, return calmly, and gradually increase the time youâre gone. This helps them understand that being alone is safe and temporary.
⢠If youâll need to leave them for longer periods, consider a dog walker or sitter to break up their day.
⨠8. Take Time Off Work If You Can
⢠If possible, plan to take time off when your puppy first comes home. This allows you to establish a routine and focus on settling them in without overwhelming them.
Helping your puppy feel safe, secure, and supported is the best way to support them whilst they are developing emotionally and physically.
What are you most looking forward to when your new puppy comes home? Let me know in the comments â Iâd love to hear! đž