The Dotty Behaviourist

The Dotty Behaviourist 1-2-1 dog training & behaviour consultations in Cheltenham and surrounding areas. BSc (Hons) & MRes

Great session with Juice and his owners on Friday 🙌🏻 Juice has been showing some brilliant progress thanks to his owners...
31/03/2025

Great session with Juice and his owners on Friday 🙌🏻 Juice has been showing some brilliant progress thanks to his owners hard work!

A very interesting read!
29/03/2025

A very interesting read!

There is a question I get asked constantly:

“Bart, should I play fetch with my dog every day? He LOVES it!”

And my answer is always the same:
No. Especially not with working breeds like the Malinois, German Shepherd, Dutch Shepherd, or any other high-prey-drive dog, like hunting dogs, Agility dogs, etc.

This answer is often met with surprise, sometimes with resistance. I get it—your dog brings you the ball, eyes bright, body full of energy, practically begging you to throw it. It feels like bonding. It feels like exercise. It feels like the right thing to do.

But from a scientific, behavioral, and neurobiological perspective—it’s not. In fact, it may be one of the most harmful daily habits for your dog’s mental health and nervous system regulation that no one is warning you about.

Let me break it down for you in detail. This will be long, but if you have a working dog, you need to understand this.

Working dogs like the Malinois and German Shepherd were selected over generations for their intensity, persistence, and drive to engage in behaviors tied to the prey sequence: orient, stalk, chase, grab, bite, kill. In their role as police, protection, herding, or military dogs, these genetically encoded motor patterns are partially utilized—but directed toward human-defined tasks.

Fetch is an artificial mimicry of this prey sequence.
• Ball = prey
• Throwing = movement stimulus
• Chase = reinforcement
• Grab and return = closure and Reward - Reinforecment again.

Every time you throw that ball, you’re not just giving your dog “exercise.” You are triggering an evolutionary motor pattern that was designed to result in the death of prey. But here’s the twist:

The "kill bite" never comes.
There’s no closure. No end. No satisfaction, Except when he start chewing on the ball by himself, which lead to even more problems. So the dog is neurologically left in a state of arousal.

When your dog sees that ball, his brain lights up with dopamine. Anticipation, motivation, drive. When you throw it, adrenaline kicks in. It becomes a cocktail of high arousal and primal intensity.

Dopamine is not the reward chemical—it’s the pursuit chemical. It creates the urge to chase, to repeat the behavior. Adrenaline and cortisol, stress hormones, spike during the chase. Even though the dog “gets the ball,” the biological closure never really happens—because the pattern is reset, again and again, with each throw.

Now imagine doing this every single day.
The dog’s brain begins to wire itself for a constant state of high alert, constantly expecting arousal, movement, and stimulation. This is how we create chronic stress.

The autonomic nervous system has two main branches:

• Sympathetic Nervous System – “Fight, flight, chase”

• Parasympathetic Nervous System – “Rest, digest, recover”

Fetch, as a prey-driven game, stimulates the sympathetic system. The problem? Most owners never help the dog come down from that state.
There’s no decompression, no parasympathetic activation, no transition into rest.

Chronic sympathetic dominance leads to:
• Panting, pacing, inability to settle
• Destructive behaviors
• Hypervigilance
• Reactivity to movement
• Obsession with balls, toys, other dogs
• Poor sleep cycles
• Digestive issues
• A weakened immune system over time
• Behavioral burnout

In essence, we’re creating a dog who is neurologically trapped in the primal mind—always hunting, never resting.

Expectation Is a Form of Pressure!!!!!!

When fetch becomes a daily ritual, your dog begins to expect it.This is no longer “fun.” It’s a conditioned need. And when that need is not met?

Stress. Frustration. Obsession.

A dog who expects to chase every day but doesn’t get it may begin redirecting that drive elsewhere—chasing shadows, lights, children, other dogs, cars.
This is how pathological behavior patterns form.

Many people use fetch as a shortcut for physical exercise.

But movement is not the same as regulation.
Throwing a ball 100 times does not tire out a working dog—it wires him tighter.

What these dogs need is:
• Cognitive engagement
• Problem solving
• Relationship-based training
• Impulse control and on/off switches
• Scentwork or tracking to satisfy the nose-brain connection
• Regulated physical outlets like structured walks, swimming, tug with rules, or balanced sport work
• Recovery time in a calm environment

But What About Drive Fulfillment? Don’t They Need an Outlet?

Yes, and here’s the nuance:

Drive should be fulfilled strategically, not passively or impulsively. This is where real training philosophy comes in.

Instead of free-for-all ball throwing, I recommend:
• Tug with rules of out, impulse control, and handler engagement

• Controlled prey play with a flirt pole, used sparingly

• Engagement-based drive work with clear start and stop signals

• Training sessions that integrate drive, control, and reward

• Activities like search games, mantrailing, or protection sport with balance

• Working on “down in drive” — the ability to switch from arousal to rest

This builds a thinking dog, not a reactive one. The Bottom Line: Just Because He Loves It Doesn’t Mean It’s Good for Him

Your Malinois, German Shepherd, Dutchie, or other working dog may love the ball. He may bring it to you with joy. But the question is not what he likes—it’s what he needs.

A child may love candy every day, but a good parent knows better. As a trainer, handler, and caretaker, it’s your responsibility to think long term.
You’re not raising a dog for this moment. You’re developing a life companion, a regulated athlete, a resilient thinker.

So no—I don’t recommend playing ball every day.
Because every throw is a reinforcement of the primal mind.

And the primal mind, unchecked, cannot be reasoned with. It cannot self-regulate. It becomes a slave to its own instincts.

Train your dog to engage with you, not just the object. Teach arousal with control, play with purpose, and rest with confidence.

Your dog deserves better than obsession.He deserves balance. He deserves you—not just the ball.


Bart De Gols

Newbie Alert 📣This beautiful girl is Maya. Her owners got in contact to help manage Maya's resource guarding and help re...
27/03/2025

Newbie Alert 📣

This beautiful girl is Maya. Her owners got in contact to help manage Maya's resource guarding and help repair the relationship between her and one of the other dogs in the home. Maya is a typical Ridgeback and can be very shy around new people but give her time and she is super affectionate 🫶🏻

We're looking forward to working with her and her owners over the coming months ❤️

We had our session with Rocco and his owner on Friday. Learning all about loose lead walking and recall. He did so well ...
22/03/2025

We had our session with Rocco and his owner on Friday. Learning all about loose lead walking and recall. He did so well 🫶🏻

Do you need some support with your new puppy? Take a look at our puppy package for plenty of practical support to help you and your pup get off to the best start.

  with the lovely Lilo wearing her .muzzle.movement muzzle 😍 We're looking forward to our next session with Lilo and her...
17/03/2025

with the lovely Lilo wearing her .muzzle.movement muzzle 😍 We're looking forward to our next session with Lilo and her owner this week!

We've been a little quiet on social media this past week, we've been super busy seeing new clients and writing up everyo...
10/03/2025

We've been a little quiet on social media this past week, we've been super busy seeing new clients and writing up everyone's behaviour report and plans!

One of our newest clients is the lovely little Mango 🥭 Her owner got in touch for some help with reactivity around other dogs. They do lots of trick training together and have an amazing bond but just needed some support on how to help Mango feel more confident around dogs. We're looking forward to getting stuck in with their plans!

We met this gorgeous little chap, Rocco today! His owners got in contact to book our puppy package for this little man. ...
07/03/2025

We met this gorgeous little chap, Rocco today! His owners got in contact to book our puppy package for this little man. We cover a range of topics in our puppy package and are always happy to tailor it to your dogs specific needs. They're first time dog owners so we covered a bit of everything today! Now to write up his plans and put together his puppy pack ahead of our session next week 🥰

We met this gorgeous pair over the weekend, Monty and Bo. Their owners got in touch for some help with Monty's behaviour...
04/03/2025

We met this gorgeous pair over the weekend, Monty and Bo. Their owners got in touch for some help with Monty's behaviour and recall around other dogs. Bo (black lab) just wanted in on our little photoshoot 🤭 After their initial consult they've decided to go with our silver behaviour package to work through their plans! We're looking forward to working with them over the coming weeks.

Welcome to the gang Norman 🙌🏻 We met this beautiful boy today for his initial consultation. His owners got in touch for ...
28/02/2025

Welcome to the gang Norman 🙌🏻 We met this beautiful boy today for his initial consultation. His owners got in touch for help with introducing him to visitors, Norman has barrier frustration and can seem very intimidating to unfamiliar people. Consult done, now to write up his report and plans. We look forward to working with Norman and his owners over the coming weeks 🫶🏻

National Dally Rally with Dottie today! 29 dalmatains in total, A.K.A my idea of heaven 🖤
23/02/2025

National Dally Rally with Dottie today! 29 dalmatains in total, A.K.A my idea of heaven 🖤

We met the gorgeous Lilo today for her initial consultation to help with dog reactivity and loose lead walking. We've gi...
21/02/2025

We met the gorgeous Lilo today for her initial consultation to help with dog reactivity and loose lead walking. We've given her owners a few bits to work on while we write up her behaviour report and plans in the meantime. She did really well and we're looking forward to working with her and her owners!

A super busy Sunday today starting with this lovely newbie, Sidney! His owners got in touch and booked our puppy 1-2-1 p...
16/02/2025

A super busy Sunday today starting with this lovely newbie, Sidney! His owners got in touch and booked our puppy 1-2-1 package to help with loose lead walking, rushing through doorways and jumping up at visitors. Sidney smashed his first session and is such a bright boy! We look forward to working with him over the next few weeks!

A lovely review from Finn's owners. We're so passionate about helping owners and their dogs 🫶🏻
15/02/2025

A lovely review from Finn's owners. We're so passionate about helping owners and their dogs 🫶🏻

It's so much more than just "bribery" or just "chucking a couple treats". Force free trainers genuinely care about their...
14/02/2025

It's so much more than just "bribery" or just "chucking a couple treats". Force free trainers genuinely care about their clients and we want to help get the best out of you and your dog 🫶🏻

If you start your training journey with reward based training you might suck at first, and that's pretty normal for most new skills we learn. It doesn't mean it doesn't work, it just means you suck at it......but with practise you will get better and you may even become a reinforcement based ninja 🥷

Your dog will love you for it. ❤️

If you use positive reinforcement to train your dog you will become skilled at using positive reinforcement and when you come across that dog that it doesn't seem to be working with you don't resort to punishment. You talk to your other reward based trainers and someone will have a solution or you work through finding one yourself and in turn you get better and more skilled at it

It's absolutely not just about treats and harnesses. That's what it appears to be to the untrained eye of those who don't use it or understand it fully.

It goes way beyond operant conditioning because when we are working with a dog with big emotions operant conditioning often doesn't happen.

We use neuroscience, we look at emotions and conditioning. We use intrinsic reinforcement and neurochemistry as reinforcement, we use premack. Our tool box of rewards contains much more than cheese 🧀 and a harness 🦮

My goal in training is to use as little aversives as possible and I absolutely love finding better ways to train dogs with reward based training 🐾🐾

11/02/2025
We had our final session with Finn recently, we're going to miss seeing his handsome face but pleased to say he's doing ...
10/02/2025

We had our final session with Finn recently, we're going to miss seeing his handsome face but pleased to say he's doing great and his owners have promised to keep in touch with updates!

Are you having problems with your dogs behaviour? We're experienced, qualified and only use scientific based positive reinforcement training so you can rest assured you're in safe hands! All of our sessions are carried out in the comfort of your own home or in a location of your choice. When booking an initial consultation or any of our behaviour packages you'll receive a bespoke behaviour report and behaviour modification programme to work through.

Want to hear more about our services? WhatsApp us on 07895963682



Nyah's post practical training session snooze on the weekend. Safe to say all that mental stimulation is hard work. Nyah...
05/02/2025

Nyah's post practical training session snooze on the weekend. Safe to say all that mental stimulation is hard work. Nyah is a sensitive girl who finds many things in life overwhelming, it's been lovely watching her progress over the last month or so. Slowly but surely she's gaining confidence out and about!

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