Polite Paws - separation anxiety specialist

Polite Paws - separation anxiety specialist Provisional Clinical Animal Behaviourist, Separation anxiety specialist and Dynamic Dog Practitioner (specialising in recognising signs of pain in dogs)

Polite Paws specialises in Separation Anxiety (CSAT) and provides qualified, friendly, professional and effective dog training and behaviour services in Surrey. We use only modern, kind and science based methods.www.politepawsdogtraining.co.uk

I'm really proud to be a Dynamic Dog Practitioner. Since qualifying at the end of last year I've already been able to ma...
14/02/2025

I'm really proud to be a Dynamic Dog Practitioner. Since qualifying at the end of last year I've already been able to make observations during my assessments with multiple dogs, that have been communicated to the referring Vet in a thorough report, and has meant the Vet has been able to have more information in order to focus their investigations. These dogs are all now on treatment.

Before this I would refer a dog back to the vet and say I have suspicions that the dog is in pain, which is so vague....and it would be near impossible for the Vet to get anywhere as it's like looking for the proverbial needle in a haystack. A huge amount of dogs also won't show signs of discomfort unless doing certain activities, and will be so nervous and anxious in the Vets that any pain responses are masked.

A Dynamic Dog assessment is there to HELP the Vet, and indeed I have had several vets thank me for such a comprehensive report. Only a vet can diagnose - we are there to help give the Vet information that can assist them. We do NOT diagnose - that can ONLY be done by a vet!

A Dynamic Dog assessment and report is not something to choose instead of seeing vets and physios at all! It's there to ASSIST those professionals. We are all there to help the dogs!

What is the role of a Dynamic Dog Practitioner?

Dynamic Dog Practitioners are trained to provide detailed observations in a language and manner that can assist professionals, such as vets, in identifying potential issues that may not be immediately obvious. The purpose of the Dynamic Dog process is to speed up the pathway to appropriate care, not delay it.

The Vet should always be the first port of call!

However, In the past, there have been cases where dogs were referred to professionals with vague concerns, such as "I believe there is pain," but with no clear observations to support this. This can result in dogs being sent away without further investigation. Dynamic Dog Practitioners aim to bridge this gap by providing structured observations that can prompt a second look by vets or other professionals who can help.

It is important to emphasise that any dog showing signs of pain or experiencing a change in behaviour should go straight to a vet. The Dynamic Dog process is designed to assist in cases where signs are subtle or not immediately obvious, helping to quantify concerns so that the right professionals can take action. At no point should a Dynamic Dog Practitioner offer any form of diagnosis.

If anyone has experienced delays or inappropriate behaviour from a Dynamic Dog Practitioner, or someone claiming to be one, please let the association know at [email protected]. Maintaining high standards includes holding ourselves accountable. Dynamic Dog Practitioners are not simply trained and sent on their way; we are committed to ongoing learning and improvement.

We also recognise that there are specialist referral centres in the UK that have more time to take detailed histories and provide fantastic care. However, many vets only have 15–30 minutes per consultation. Dynamic Dog Practitioners aim to provide additional observations to support the whole team in these cases.

We actually have vets, physio’s and hydrotherapists on the Dynamic Dog Practitioner Programme 🥰

3 vets have contributed significantly to the syllabus!

If you want to FULLY understand what Dynamic Dog is all about then please do get in touch.

Not exactly dog related but I went to a one day introduction to animal sculpture course at the amazing  in Devon yesterd...
13/02/2025

Not exactly dog related but I went to a one day introduction to animal sculpture course at the amazing in Devon yesterday....I have wonderful friends in North Devon who I'm very lucky to be able to stay with!

The course was amazing! We made little mini fox heads! Having previously tried my hand and knitting (not my thing!), crochet (prefer to knitting but haven't kept it up!), this is definitely more enjoyable!

If you want to learn about sculpture (animal or human or both) this is the place to do it! People come from all over the place to study with them!

I posted about Wallace the Cocker Spaniel last week - one of my lovely separation anxiety clients who, after I conducted...
10/02/2025

I posted about Wallace the Cocker Spaniel last week - one of my lovely separation anxiety clients who, after I conducted a Dynamic Dog assessment as part of my initial assessment process, was discovered to have hip dysplasia.

Wallace has had a short break for a few days after the veterinary investigations and we started back up again with our live reassessment - and wow what a difference already!

I have updated the post accordingly!

Wallace has been on pain medication for 5 days (today being the 5th) and there was such a noticeable difference in his behaviour and body language during our live reassessment!

Dogs do not show pain in the way we might expect them to do so, but that does not mean there is not pain, and pain has such a HUGE impact on behaviour.

Have a little read!

Meet the lovely Wallace! Wallace is an approximately 2.5 year old English Show Cocker Spaniel who I have, at the time of writing, been working with for 3

As a Dynamic Dog Practitioner, I assess every dog I work with for potential signs of pain/discomfort as I know how much ...
07/02/2025

As a Dynamic Dog Practitioner, I assess every dog I work with for potential signs of pain/discomfort as I know how much pain impacts a dog's behaviour, and also that pain is not usually blindingly obvious with dogs.

Pain shows in ways we might not expect.

This is a little case study of a dog I have recently started working with for separation anxiety - Wallace the Show Cocker Spaniel (who incidentally is absolutely gorgeous!). It shows how even though Wallace was happy, bouncing around and not limping along, he ended up having underlying pain which was resulting in significant behaviours including separation anxiety

Have a little read!

Meet the lovely Wallace! Wallace is an approximately 2.5 year old English Show Cocker Spaniel who I have, at the time of writing, been working with for 3

PAIN & BEHAVIOURYep...this again! I speak a lot about this, because so so many dogs I work with end up having an underly...
27/01/2025

PAIN & BEHAVIOUR

Yep...this again! I speak a lot about this, because so so many dogs I work with end up having an underlying medical conditions/joint pain diagnosed which is either the main factor contributing towards their separation anxiety (or other unwanted behaviour) or is playing a big role in preventing them being able to work through it.

Pain has a HUGE impact on behaviour.

I write this lying in bed because of my back. I've had herniated and bulging discs twice previously and the pain is excruciating. Since Friday my lower back has started to "not feel good". It's not yet at the point I can't sit, but it is feeling like it's on that trajectory. So it's more comfortable to lie flat than sit up most of the time ...so I'm doing that right now (watching Tell Me Lies on Disney Plus...if you haven't seen it I recommend by the way!).

This got me thinking about dogs. Bear with me....I will get onto dogs shortly 🤣

I went to meet a friend for coffee earlier on between Zoom separation anxiety clients. My back was uncomfortable, but I'd taken painkillers & it was bearable. If I moved or sat in a certain way there was a sharp pain but I don't think anyone would have realised from looking at me. However I am also feeling low, with a shorter fuse and definitely less sociable because of the pain. So...how can we possibly tell if a dog is in pain JUST by looking at them? We cannot!

Now I also live with chronic knee pain which is there to some extent every single day, but for the extra pain due to my back has affected my mood, and my behaviour. My knee pain also varies from day to day...some days it's a strong ache, other days it's much more painful....and I can assure you my mood fluctuates with it.

Dogs are the same. The difference is, they can't tell us AND tend to hide pain until it's roughly an 8 out of 10 or so. They also don't show pain how we would often expect them to. And pain has such a massive impact on behaviour. This is exactly why I choose to do a functional assessment to check for any signs of potential discomfort in all dogs when I start working with them....because just because your dog isn't limping or yelping, it doesn't mean pain isn't impacting their behaviour...and until that is managed, your dog will simply not be able to make any progress.

If there are regular inconsistencies in your dog's behaviour or separation anxiety protocol that you can't account for, and you haven't already considered medical conditions or pain, this is vital to do so.

As a Dynamic Dog Practitioner I can help with this ...if you would like to discuss this further please get in touch.

Photo of me (rare because I hate being on social media) in my current position!

A friend sent me this today.....and this was Dylan for me...plus much more. Thought a lot of you could probably relate s...
27/01/2025

A friend sent me this today.....and this was Dylan for me...plus much more. Thought a lot of you could probably relate so decided to share it.

This!SO many dogs I work with end up being diagnosed with underlying conditions which cause pain/discomfort. This is why...
27/01/2025

This!

SO many dogs I work with end up being diagnosed with underlying conditions which cause pain/discomfort. This is why I do a full Dynamic Dog functional assessment as part of my assessment process, and while I know it's not easy collecting certain videos and photos of your dog for me to assess, it really is a vital part of the process.

Please remember that dogs don't show pain in the ways we would expect them too.....dogs who have broken their leg have been known to still run around!

This!SO many dogs I work with end up being diagnosed with underlying conditions which cause pain/discomfort. This is why...
27/01/2025

This!

SO many dogs I work with end up being diagnosed with underlying conditions which cause pain/discomfort. This is why I do a full Dynamic Dog functional assessment as part of my assessment process, and while I know it's not easy collecting certain videos and photos of your dog for me to assess, it really is a vital part of the process.

Please remember that dogs don't show pain in the ways we would expect them too.....dogs who have broken their leg have been known to still run around!

We’re giving our beloved Blunt Mondays a fresh new twist— say hello to Myth Mondays! 🎉

Every Monday, we’ll tackle common myths about canine arthritis and pain, replacing misconceptions with facts that can help your furry friends live their best lives 🐾

This Week’s Myth:
“My dog can’t be in pain because they’re still running around.”

Fact: Dogs are incredible at hiding pain, and adrenaline from activities like running or playing can temporarily mask their discomfort. Just because your dog is active doesn’t mean they’re pain-free. Look out for subtle signs like stiffness, limping, or hesitation—they could be telling you more than you think.

Let’s bust these myths together and make life better for our pups! 🐕✨

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23/01/2025

I have a couple of items for sale if anyone is interested before I pop them on eBay:

🐶 Ruff and Tumble Design Collection Harbour drying mitts Brand New. £25

🐶K9 Connectable Medium Starter kit £20

Collect from Dorking

After a break of several months as I needed my weekends back following my house fire, I am pleased to announce that I wi...
08/01/2025

After a break of several months as I needed my weekends back following my house fire, I am pleased to announce that I will be starting puppy classes and follow on classes up again!

These will only run on Saturday mornings, and will be held in the usual location in East Horsley (outdoors and on 33 acres of private woodland).

Spaces will be limited and I will be having a weekend or 2 gap between courses...so if you would like to join, I'd recommend getting in touch and putting yourself on the list so you don't miss out!

A start date is not yet confirmed but I imagine it will be February sometime

So if you would like to join a puppy class OR you have already attended puppy class and would now like to attend the Puppy Post-Grad and/or Intermediate classes, please get in touch!

[email protected]

I'm now on Holiday until Tuesday 7th January (apart from I will still be setting my lovely separation anxiety clients th...
20/12/2024

I'm now on Holiday until Tuesday 7th January (apart from I will still be setting my lovely separation anxiety clients their plans over the weekend until Monday).

Have a great Christmas and New year break everyone!

I got this wonderful gift in the post today from Jo ...who was one of my case studies for my   assessment process. As a ...
10/12/2024

I got this wonderful gift in the post today from Jo ...who was one of my case studies for my assessment process. As a gin lover I am very much looking forward to trying this!

Thank you SO much Jo ...so so kind of you ❤️

It should come as no surprise to anyone following me that I'm extremely against aversive training methods and tools...an...
08/12/2024

It should come as no surprise to anyone following me that I'm extremely against aversive training methods and tools...anything that serves to change/lessen behaviour by inflicting pain or intimidation.

Trainers who use such tools and methods (despite the fact that there is a plethora of research out there highlighting the immense damage these can cause, how they inhibit learning and affect welfare) have tended to say that trainers and behaviourists like myself who use reward based methods backed in science "lack knowledge or skills", and that these kind yet effective methods are "fluffy" or "don't work for certain breeds"

That's total rubbish....I don't agree with aversive methods or tools BECAUSE I have experience and knowledge....because of my 12 years in the industry where I am constantly bettering my knowledge and keeping it up to date so I can help more dogs.

Aversives can appear to work....but....I know HOW and WHY they work! Theyre not magic.....trainers who use them need no skill at all....and the reason they appear to change behaviour is because they suppress behaviour, intimidated the dog, cause pain meaning the dog is trying to avoid that pain.

I assure you....no matter what these aversive (sorry - " balanced") trainers tell you, if they weren't painful or very uncomfortable, they would NOT work! Thats the crux of why tools like shock and prong collars work.....they hurt so the dog tries to avoid the pain. That dog is not being taught to feel more comfortable and safe around potential triggers.....they're not being taught what we DO want them to do, just that something they are doing instinctively causes pain.

Reward based methods work with ALL breeds! These methods recognise how dogs learn and WHY they are behaving in a certain way.

So please, when you're looking for advice and help with your dog.....please please please look at what methods any potential trainers use. Ask what qualifications they have (yes experience is also important but would you employ an electrician who had taught themselves by a few You Tube videos? I wouldn't!), and don't just go with people who are good at doing flashy videos on social media! Choose professionals who truly understand why your dog is behaving in a certain way, and will address it in an effective yet kind way that will not potentially cause additional long term issues and affect your dog's welfare. No bullying is needed!

Angela Doyle
Polite Paws 2024

OFFER!!Have you noticed your dog is behaving differently to normal? Have you noticed something "off" about how they move...
22/11/2024

OFFER!!

Have you noticed your dog is behaving differently to normal?

Have you noticed something "off" about how they move, or sit, or lie down?

Do they hesitate to jump in or out of the car?

Do they constantly and regularly change positions and sleeping spots when resting?

Why wait until your dog is limping and subdued before wondering if they may be in chronic pain?

As a pre-christmas offer I am offering the next 5 people to book a Dynamic Dog Assessment a £50 discount!

First come first served, and when these spots have gone, price will revert back to the full price again.

Highly recommend LM Photography . I have so many beautiful photos of my beloved Dylan that I absolutely treasure and am ...
19/11/2024

Highly recommend LM Photography . I have so many beautiful photos of my beloved Dylan that I absolutely treasure and am so grateful for them. This would make a perfect Christmas present!

*CHRISTMAS VOUCHERS* Come for a magical walk in our quiet private 33 acre stock fenced woodland in East Horsley whilst I capture your dogs enjoying themselves. Relax without the worry of bumping into other dogs or people. I’m used to working with nervous dogs too, the aim is that you and your dog have fun and enjoy it. The perfect personal special Christmas present. I look forward to hearing from you, Lara. 🐕😊 https://www.facebook.com/laramaskellphotography/

Could not be prouder to announce I am now a qualified Dynamic Dog Practitioner.....awarded a Distinction!I have loved ev...
14/11/2024

Could not be prouder to announce I am now a qualified Dynamic Dog Practitioner.....awarded a Distinction!

I have loved every minute of this very intense course over the past 5 months....I have learnt so much and it has already helped so many of my client's dogs

What is a Dynamic Dog Practitioner?

Well it means I am able to confidently assess a dog's posture, gait and the way they perform daily activities to spot signs of pain and discomfort, so that I can send a report to the vet to assist them in investigations.

Pain has SUCH a profound impact on behaviour, and I have lost track of the number of dogs I have worked with where underlying medical conditions or pain has been discovered. The sooner any pain is identified, the quicker it can be managed/treated, and until pain is under control it is impossible (and unethical) to work on changing unwanted behaviours.

I will be getting this added to my website soon....but I will be now including a Dynamic Dog assessment to all separation anxiety client assessments.

Remember ....dogs show pain in different ways to how we would expect...just because a dog isn't limping, it doesn't mean there is no pain.

05/11/2024

This is one of the reasons why, when I run classes, I run them outside!

Slippery floors are awful for dogs of all ages. If one thing makes me cringe it's seeing puppies and dogs unable to gain traction and slipping on tiled, laminate or wooden floors.

Near the end of the time I was running classes indoors, I would put very heavy non slip carpets down, which were not easy with a bad back and knees! I personally won't ever have dogs indoors on a slippery surface.

If theres one thing I'd like all dog owners to be aware of, it's the damaging impacts of slippery floors. One lovely lady recently said to me she hadn't actually realised how much her dogs slipped on her flooring until I raised it, and immediately bought a load of runners and rugs to address it 💙 it's very easy to get runners and rugs nowadays, a lot of which looks really nice and can add to the aesthetic of your home :)

How many of you have added runners and rugs to help your dog?

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