14/08/2024
It isnāt as profitable to tell people what they donāt want to hear.
Thereās a reason why so many trainers, to the detriment of the horses, maintain outdated viewpoints and double down to defend all aspects of competition.
Thereās a reason why people donāt want to admit to themselves, or others, that common welfare concerns in the horse industry hold scientific merit.
Clients might fire you if you tell them their horse is showing signs of discomfort.
Particularly if they donāt want to deal with veterinary expenses and if any signs of lameness are mild.
They might opt to find a new trainer if you tell them you wonāt ride their horse without a fitted saddle.
Or that their horse needs months of ground work to build top line before they can be in active ridden work.
Or that their horse shouldnāt be jumping yet, that they need to focus on flatwork.
Many people donāt want to hear it if you tell them their horsesā behavioural issues are largely related to their boarding barn.
The lack of turnout.
The lack of socialization with other horses.
Going hours at a time without hay.
If they donāt want to leave that barn ā you, as the trainer suggesting the need to, will be the villain in the equation.
Especially when they can find crowds of people who WILL tell them what they want to hear.
So, what do you do?
Do you standby your morals, maintain integrity and lose the client?
Or, do you fold and do what you know they want? What you know you need to do to keep them.
Or, perhaps, youāll try to find a compromise, something less impactful to horse welfare, but still something you know isnāt the best decision.
You need to pay rent. You need to make a living.
And this is the challenge so many trainers are met with.
In order to make a good living, especially while youāre becoming established as a trainer, there is so much pressure to sell out.
And many, I would argue most, do.
Even if itās just temporarily before they assert their boundaries.
What does it say about our industry if, in order to be successful, you need to abandon yourself? If you need to abandon horse welfare, to some extent?
I think this is an āopen secret.ā Something many are aware of but that few honestly talk about.
Itās a āright of passageā for those whoāve dreamed of being a trainer since childhood.
I was one of them.
And I lost myself for quite sometime before I found myself again.
It took a while to get my head right and realize that abandoning my integrity, my morals, was what was causing me so much internal distress.
And I had to step wayyyyy back from training to the extent I used to in order to actually put my beliefs into practice.
Because the pressure to abandon them was too much.
I think I speak for a lot of trainers, whether theyāre established or up and coming, when I say the pressure of the industry corrupts.
Even if you donāt want it to.
The environment that makes it so needs to be healed.
Try not to lose yourself in the process of chasing that dream of āmaking itā in the horse world.
It isnāt worth it.
And if you do get lost, try your damnedst to find your way back.