13/08/2024
Not my words but well worth sharing.
I want my dog to be Sociable!
This is a phrase that I often hear from clients and indeed from many other dog owners. Perhaps it is worthwhile investigating exactly what “Being sociable” really means.
Do we really want our dogs to interact with everyone that they see? Is that a good thing? I think not.
If we encourage our dogs to interact with everyone that they see, then we are teaching them that the correct thing to do is make every effort to approach all and sundry regardless of the circumstances. The result then is the dog that may run off in the park to greet a perfect stranger or when on the lead may pull determinedly towards any passerby.
Surely the correct way of encouraging sociability in our dogs is to set the rules as to who they can and cannot interact with and indeed, how that interaction should take place.
There is no way that I would allow a stranger to interact with my dog by fussing, petting, making encouraging noises or even giving tit-bits. The only persons allowed that privilege are myself and my inner circle of family and friends.
There are many people who feel that they have a God given right to interact with every dog that they see. They do not! At the very least permission should be sought from the owner before interacting with any dog. If the wish of the owner is that their dog does not interact with strangers then that wish should be respected.
Whilst it is everyone’s choice what they want their dog to do with regards to “Being sociable” I do feel that that choice should be made having full regards to the possible outcomes. Surely our dogs should tolerate people but do they have to be their best friend?