Four Positive Paws

Four Positive Paws Certified Canine Behaviourist specialising in Fearful, Anxious and Reactive Dog Behaviour.

I am passionate about canine welfare, education and raising awareness about having the best quality of life possible for and with our dogs. My philosophy is based on the teachings of Sheila Harper who taught me how to educate and co-habit with my own and others dogs with the utmost of respect for the individuals that they are. I have had the privilege of working with hundreds of dogs and owners wi

th great success and I continuously see the benefits and rewards of a natural and intelligent approach to consent and relationship based education. Dogs can often be our greatest teachers if we stop, observe, listen, understand and act upon their needs.

Why does my dog lunge, bark and growl at other dogs?This is a great question.The answer depends on the context of the be...
02/04/2025

Why does my dog lunge, bark and growl at other dogs?

This is a great question.

The answer depends on the context of the behaviour and the individual dog.

Where does the behaviour happen?

How intensely does the dog react and how long has this been practised for?

How long has the dog been living in your home?

These are some of the questions I ask before working with new people and their pups.

Is change possible? Absolutely.

When we explore the reasons for our dogs behaviour we open up a world of better understanding and an optimum opportunity to meet our dog where they are at.

This understanding provides us with important information about our dog so that we can take the right steps forward for reducing the lunging and barking and making walks feel more enjoyable and safer.

Has our dog experienced a traumatic event?

How do we know what our dog has experienced in their lives whether we have a Puppy, Adolescent or Adult Dog?

Often we don't know, so, meeting our dog where they are at is a good start for positive progress.

I love keeping up to date with all things dog so that the information, guidance and support clients experience is current.

I recently completed the Canine Principles Trauma and Rescue Course and have successfully been assessed.

Understanding and being trauma and rescue informed means that the dogs needs are front and centre when we start to work on making life better, both ends of the lead.

In addition to having our dogs needs front and centre it is equally important to consider the human needs and the human experience so that we develop an optimum connection and a life best lived.

Whilst I have worked with many dogs that have experienced trauma over the years it is important to have my knowledge, skills and experience assessed and validated externally assessed.

If you are curious about a dog centred approach for help with your dog you can contact me for a complimentary discover call via the link in the comments.

đŸ¶ **Accepting the Dog We Have: A Game Changer for a Happier Life** đŸ¶  Bringing a dog into our home is exciting—we dream ...
01/04/2025

đŸ¶ **Accepting the Dog We Have: A Game Changer for a Happier Life** đŸ¶

Bringing a dog into our home is exciting—we dream of long walks, pub lunches, and fun adventures. But sometimes, reality doesn’t match our expectations.

👉 Maybe your dog pulls on the lead, barks at strangers, or struggles in social settings.
👉 Maybe training isn’t delivering the results you hoped for.
👉 Maybe you’re feeling frustrated and wondering, *"Why isn’t my dog behaving how I expected?"*

Here’s the truth: **Every dog is unique.** Their breed, genetics, skills, and past experiences shape who they are. Instead of forcing change, what if we paused and asked:

đŸŸ *Are my expectations realistic from my dog’s perspective?*
đŸŸ *Can I adjust and meet my dog where they are?*
đŸŸ *How can I support them in a way that strengthens our bond?*

Training and guidance matter, but so does **acceptance**. When we stop trying to "fix" our dogs and start understanding them, everything changes.

💬 **Tell us—what’s one thing you’ve learned by embracing your dog’s true self?**

đŸ¶ The Lead: A True Game Changer for Your Dog’s Walks! 🐕✹Many dogs struggle when off-lead—whether it’s bolting towards ot...
27/03/2025

đŸ¶ The Lead: A True Game Changer for Your Dog’s Walks! 🐕✹

Many dogs struggle when off-lead—whether it’s bolting towards other dogs, ignoring recall, or chasing wildlife. While off-lead freedom works for some, a lead can be a life-changing tool for dogs that lack confidence, social skills, or reliable recall.

✅ Security & Peace of Mind
✅ Better Socialization & Training
✅ Safer, Stress-Free Walks

A 5-meter lead provides flexibility, allowing dogs to sniff and roam without restriction—unlike standard or retractable leads, which may pose safety risks.

đŸŸ Not all dogs are ready for off-lead walks, and that’s okay! Responsible walking means ensuring every dog and owner feels safe in public spaces.

💬 What’s your experience with lead vs. off-lead walking? Share below! 👇

**Struggling with Your Dog? You're Not Alone!** đŸ¶đŸ’”Feeling overwhelmed and unsure where to turn? You’ve tried TikTok, You...
25/03/2025

**Struggling with Your Dog? You're Not Alone!** đŸ¶đŸ’”

Feeling overwhelmed and unsure where to turn? You’ve tried TikTok, YouTube, advice from friends, and even your vet—but nothing seems to work. The thought of rehoming your dog is breaking your heart.

Before making that tough decision, ask yourself:
✅ Did I research the breed and its needs?
✅ Do I have time to meet my dog’s physical & emotional needs?
✅ Have I sought expert guidance tailored to my situation?

Living with a reactive dog can feel like a full time job—it takes time, patience, and the right knowledge. 💡 The right support can make all the difference. Need help? Reach out today! 💙

How can I make walks with my dog feel less stressful.I remember the first time my dog had a big reaction to another pers...
25/03/2025

How can I make walks with my dog feel less stressful.

I remember the first time my dog had a big reaction to another person and their dog.

I was shocked when my dog lunged, growled and barked and felt really embarrassed.

I apologised and the person had a go at me which made me feel defensive.

It was really upsetting and took me a while to reset my emotions.

The next time I went for a walk I felt apprehensive and worried about what might happen if we had the same kind of reaction from my dog and other people.

How do you feel when your dog has a big reaction?

Fast forward to my life now, walks are still sometimes challenging although there is very little anxiety or worry.

I help people that have been worried on their walks to feel more in control and less vulnerable. We work in person, one to one so that you have the optimum time and support to work through simple and effective steps towards calmer, more relaxed walks.

To get support right now you can book a no obligation discovery call by contacting me via my website or by emailing me in the link below.

If you would like to join a private group for a community that is all about fearful, anxious and reactive behaviour click on the link in the comments.

Fearful, Anxious, Reactive Dog Behaviour. Positive progress is possible even when it feels impossible.It's human nature ...
18/03/2025

Fearful, Anxious, Reactive Dog Behaviour. Positive progress is possible even when it feels impossible.

It's human nature to focus on the negatives in life. We notice what isn't working or doesn't feel right or what went wrong.

We can easily overlook, dismiss or brush past the positives and the wins.

We can have a walk with our dog that has been almost completely perfect. One lunge, bark, growl or snap and that is what we focus on.

It takes practice to pay attention to what went well.

It is possible to develop our attention so that we can acknowledge and appreciate our progress even when it feels as though it doesn't count or isn't good enough.

How easy it is to shine a light on the negative experiences.

I love observing the progress I see with people that have really struggled with their walks and now enjoy navigating and appreciating the successes and the progress that is possible.

If you are struggling with your walks and would like specific help with reactivity email me - [email protected] for a no obligation call.

Why do I mention walks so much?Walks can make or break our day. If they go well it can feel great, if they go wrong it c...
17/03/2025

Why do I mention walks so much?

Walks can make or break our day. If they go well it can feel great, if they go wrong it can be really upsetting.

Walks for dogs that need space, that have big reactions and can be strong on the lead can be a real struggle both ends of the lead.

Walks that are conscioulsly planned with the purpose of safety and wellbeing can optimise the bond and relationship we have with our dogs.

I consider the strengths and challenges of each individual dog and the environment that can enhance the walk.

Walks in the most appropriate spaces can make a big difference to our dogs emotions and behaviour.

I love observing the progress that is possible when we connect the dots between safe walks and feeling more in control of our situations and cirmcustances.

14/03/2025

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Weekend walks without worry.We change our walks over the weekend, especially if the weather is good.There are too many p...
07/03/2025

Weekend walks without worry.

We change our walks over the weekend, especially if the weather is good.

There are too many people and dogs plus other triggers to enjoy a safe walk for us.

Instead we have our quieter places and we can experience a good quality walk with less worry.

Do you have a favourite weekend walk for your dogs that need space?

How many times have you experienced a big reaction from your Dog in the last week?Where did it happen and how did you fe...
06/03/2025

How many times have you experienced a big reaction from your Dog in the last week?

Where did it happen and how did you feel about it?

Winning walks.They feel so fulfilling and satisfying,Experiencing progress with a dog that used to lunge and vocalise li...
05/03/2025

Winning walks.

They feel so fulfilling and satisfying,

Experiencing progress with a dog that used to lunge and vocalise like a banshee and can now cope with a food delivery truck pulling up beside us feels pretty good.

A jogger that appears and runs up from behind us just a few feet away with no reaction other than some natural interest is wonderful.

An unfamiliar large dog appears and we naturally distance ourselves and the only reaction is a short grumble and a little whine.

This has been achieved with patience, compassion, support and time.

The way I work is quite different to what many may consider the traditional way of training a dog to perform a task and look okay on the outside.

Instead, I support people that are struggling to better understand their dog, to develop a relationship of trust and confidence and to build skills together in a safe and relaxed way.

When we have a foundation to work from we can build positive progress.

Social media is flooded with images of quick fixes and there is a strong influence on using tools that are justified 'when used correctly'.

This simply isn't me. It isn't how I work or portray myself, as a quick fixer, a sort the dog out now or 'making' a dog fit in with what a person wants and the dog cannot cope with.

Time, patience, understanding, compassion and feeling safe. These are the foundations we start with.

I get it that we want the quick fix. I have lived experience of how it can feel when our walks are full of worry or frustration.

I have experienced the challenges and the overwhelm that a dog with certain needs has on a life that was previously different.

I love seeing the progress that is possible when we are able to slow things down.

I love seeing the progress that can be achieved with commitment and consistency.

I love seeing the changes that happen when our dogs feel more comfortable, calm and relaxed.

I love experiencing how, what felt in the beginning like things would never change or get better now become manageable and enjoyable.

We don't have to feel as though we are lacking or failing because our dogs need more time to adjust to lifes challenges.

If this resonates with you I have a free, private group for Fearful Anxious Reactive Dog Behaviour and I will pop the link in the comment below.

Struggling with our dogs behaviours.I have walked this walk and understand the stresses and strains this can put on us, ...
25/02/2025

Struggling with our dogs behaviours.

I have walked this walk and understand the stresses and strains this can put on us, our family and our friends.

We didn't sign up for the experiences our dog may bring with them when things don't go at all as expected.

The journey to find solutions, to stop problem behaviours, exploring potential health issues and navigating a life with a dog that is behaving in worrying ways can be full of wrong turns, diversions and stop signs.

I can relate to the emotional experience and know that there is support available that works on the basis of safety, relationship and trust building.

This is one of the reasons I set up Four Positive Paws. Finding the right match for us and our dogs to support, teach, coach and listen when we are feeling overwhelmed is what can make a big difference.

In a nutshell, I help people living with fearful, anxious and reactive dogs to feel safer and more confident.

Change and progress is absolutely possible and we can do this in a way that supports us too.

I started Four Positive Paws in 2011 and it has been so heart warming to see so many transitions and transformations in behaviour, skills, knowldege and understanding for the dogs and their people.

Dogs that have stayed out of the rescue system, dogs that have been able to feel more confident and guardians that feel safer are what makes a difference and inspires me.

I am starting to plan something special for the future that can enable more people to benefit from what is possible for you and your dogs.

Watch this space for more information as things take shape.

If you enjoy reading my posts drop a like, a heart or a smiley face below.

Thank you to all my wonderful clients, followers and supporters

Dawn Allen - Four Positive Paws

Square peg round hole.Is your dog the dog you expected to share your life with?Have you been able to enjoy thhe walks yo...
21/02/2025

Square peg round hole.

Is your dog the dog you expected to share your life with?

Have you been able to enjoy thhe walks you hoped for?

Were your plans and hopes different to how life is now?

Unlike a human relationship, where we get to know each other over a period of time before we decide whether or not to marry or move in together, when we bring a dog into our home they are untested so to speak.

They arrive and they are in our lives immediately.

The journey can be joyful, enjoyable and wonderful. It can also be fraught, worrying and stressful.

If we are unprepared it can be unnerving.

What we experience in the beginning may not be how we hoped our lives would be with our dogs.

If things feel like a stretch and a worry, we can take a breath, pause, gather trusted and appropriate information and learn how to navigate the challenges.

So many dogs are relinquished when the puppy is biting with sharp teeth, toileting in the home and destroying our belongings.

Adolescence is another peak development stage when dogs are relinquished because the behaviours are unxpected and the puppy phase was managed.

Now we have a bigger, stronger dog that seems to have regressed or gone off the rails.

We may feel as though we don't have the resources to go through another potentially challenging phase with our dogs.

People are not queuing up to take on our dogs that we can no longer cope with.

It isn't always possible or appropriate for a dog to stay in a home forever. It is possible to reduce the risk of relinquishment by planning and preparing for the best and the worst.

I cannot cope with my dog!I don’t know what to do or who to ask for the right help.I’ve watched videos on Tik Tok and Yo...
20/02/2025

I cannot cope with my dog!

I don’t know what to do or who to ask for the right help.

I’ve watched videos on Tik Tok and YouTube, I have had lots of information from other people with dogs, I have spoken to my Vet and I am in lots of dog groups on social media.

Nothing is working. I am going to have to rehome my dog.

Relinquishment can include a rescue place, a private re-home, euthanasia or abandonment.

How do we change the narrative and interrupt the purchase, adopt, relinquish cycle?

1. Research
Why do you want a dog in your life and are they the right reasons for the dog? Consider the breed, the rescue organisation, the breeder, health, welfare and are your expectations realistic?

2. How much time do you have to tend to your dogs needs? This includes education for you and the dog, settling in time, feeding, walking, picking up p**p, washing bedding, cleaning up after accidents, care during illness or accidents, grooming, visits to the vet. Introducing a dog into our homes can add up to the equivalent of a part time job. Do you have the time and support structure for the extra hours needed?

3. How much do you know about dogs? How much experience do you have of dog behaviour, communication, welfare and well being, health and is it up to date and the best match for you and your dog.

4. Have you researched insurance costs and cover? Vet fees and complimentary support?

5. Do you have a support network? Trusted friends or family that can help if you need it.

6. Do you have financial means to cover illness and injury if your insurance doesn't cover the full cost or doesn't pay out at all?

7. Have you got the space and time in your life and home to meet all of the dogs needs?

8. Have you considered the potential challenges and stress that can happen when things don't go according to plan?

These are just a few considerations to take into account before bringing a dog into a new life and home.

Thoroughly enjoyed this webinar.With rescues bursting at the seems and so many dogs needing support this webinar unpicks...
19/02/2025

Thoroughly enjoyed this webinar.

With rescues bursting at the seems and so many dogs needing support this webinar unpicks and unpacks so much information about helping our Rescue Dogs Unpack Their Bags.

If you would like to watch it you can, for free, by signing up for a free 14 day trial with Canine Principles

Learn how to support dogs who are being rehomed to unpack their bags and feel at home as soon as possible.

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I am passionate about canine welfare, education and raising awareness about having the best quality of life possible for and with our dogs. My philosophy is based on the teachings of Sheila Harper who taught me how to teach my own and others dogs with the utmost of respect and treat them all as individuals. I have had the privilege of working with many people and dogs over the years and I am continuously seeing the benefits and rewards of a natural and intelligent approach to teaching and learning. Dogs can often be our greatest teachers if we stop, observe, listen, understand and act upon their needs. Dog behaviour, communication and wellbeing are what I have studied and qualified in. My learning will be lifelong.