Carly and Michael run a farm sanctuary from their home in Retford, Nottinghamshire and are owned by 18 dogs plus hundreds of other small pets, horses and farm animals! Carly has been training rescue dogs for 16 years and has worked at a vets and local animal rescue shelters as kennel manager and kennel senior. She ran lots of very successful classes, 1-2-1 training sessions and home consultations.
When Carly and Michael relocated to Retford some of their clients from Northampton were so happy with how much the pair had helped their dogs and their family that they wanted to stay in touch as they didn't trust anyone else! Carly has attended regular IMDT courses and seminars as well as being ICOES accredited in canine behaviour and psychology. Most of their dogs are rescues who had nowhere else to go having being given up multiple times and doomed to either stay in a rescue centre their entire lives or worse. From Romanian rescues to reactive ex working dogs, they have lived with and trained some of the toughest cases and managed to help those when others said it just wasn't possible.
18/12/2023
This beautiful boy still needs a second chance. He's going to be spending his second Christmas in kennels 😞
18/12/2023
04/12/2023
There must be someone out there who can give this beautiful boy a home? He's an absolute sweetheart and just needs a home with someone who has Staffy/Bull breed experience 💙
He's been living in kennels in Worksop and is spending his 2nd Christmas in kennels this year 😞
☃️🎅🎄FESTIVE APPEAL. BRUNO STILL WAITING.....Christmas is coming and this handsome lad is still homeless. Eighteen months in waiting and a second Christmas in kennels. Bruno is playful and a character and looking for comforts. He loves toys. Possibly not for the faint of heart but definitely for the bull breed lovers hearts.❤️ Always, always overlooked. Bruno has so much to give. Calls are welcome everyday.
WHAT’S IN A NAME ?
Changing a rescued dogs name can be a good thing.
If a dog has come from an unpleasant or abusive background, or even an unknown background, they may associate their name with negative experiences.
A previous owner may have shouted their name just before doing something unpleasant to them.
Changing a dog’s name can be a fresh, new beginning and can provide an opportunity to rebuild broken trust and build new bonds.
There may be concern that changing a dog’s name will confuse them or may cause some form of emotional distress, but dogs really don’t see their names in the same way that we do.
Dogs really don’t care what we call them, as long as that name is associated with positive experiences it will be a good name.
A dog’s name is more important to us than it is to a dog. A name is really just a cue to get your dog’s attention so they respond.
The way a new name is introduced and taught is important. Care should be taken not to attach any negative associations with the new name.
The new name should always be paired with something positive whenever your dog hears the sound. Call the new name and every time your dog reacts, responds or looks at you, reward this with a treat, lots of praise, a game or a toy.
Keep repeating this and dogs will quickly begin to associate their new name with something good about to happen and will start responding to the new sound in a positive way.
“It ain't what they call you, it's what you answer to.” - W.C. Fields. This quote sums up the importance of pairing a name with something positive so that it will always be what a dog wants to answer to.
A previous name may always be linked to a traumatic past, but a new name can be the beginning of a happy ever after and forever home.
02/12/2023
Ethical dog training focuses on understanding and kindness towards dogs. It's about respecting their feelings and intelligence, using positive methods like rewards for good behaviour instead of punishment for bad. This approach builds trust and a loving bond between the dog and trainer. Empathy is key; it's about seeing things from the dog's perspective and avoiding harsh methods that can scare or hurt them. Ethical training is about patience, consistency, and really caring for the dog's overall well-being, both physically and emotionally. It's a humane way to help dogs learn and thrive in a loving environment.
25/11/2023
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23/11/2023
15/11/2023
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14/11/2023
You can now apply for a certificate of exemption if you own an XL Bully by following the link below:
Use this service to apply for a Certificate of Exemption to keep XL Bully dogs.
13/11/2023
In dog training, there are three commonly used methods: teaching through understanding, positive reinforcement, and kindness; discouraging unwanted behaviours through punishment; and an approach labelled 'balanced' that combines elements of both positive reinforcement and punishment.
However, it is crucial to recognise that the ethical and welfare concerns associated with aversive techniques make the skilful application of positive reinforcement the most effective and compassionate approach.
When trainers become highly skilled in the use of positive reinforcement, they can minimise or eliminate the need for punishment in their training methods. By creating a training environment based on trust, cooperation, and clear communication, trainers can shape and reinforce desired behaviours without relying on aversive measures. The strategic use of rewards, such as treats, praise, and play, establishes positive associations and motivates dogs to willingly repeat these behaviours.
Moreover, positive reinforcement promotes a positive emotional state in dogs, reducing stress, anxiety, and fear during training. By focusing on rewards rather than punishment, trainers create an enjoyable and engaging learning experience, increasing the dog's receptiveness to learning and their motivation to participate actively.
By understanding the dog's individual needs and motivations, skilled trainers can address underlying causes of unwanted behaviours and promote alternative, more desirable behaviours without resorting to punishment. This approach builds a strong bond, enhances cooperation, and fosters a harmonious training relationship between the dog and the trainer.
It is important to note that all aversive approaches, including punishment-based techniques, carry inherent welfare and ethical concerns. The use of punishment can induce fear, anxiety, and distress in dogs, potentially compromising their overall well-being. By prioritising positive reinforcement and avoiding punitive measures, trainers demonstrate their commitment to promoting the welfare and ethical treatment of dogs.
By emphasising the skilful application of positive reinforcement, trainers can achieve effective results while maintaining a compassionate and respectful approach to training. This approach creates a positive and enriching training experience that prioritises the well-being and happiness of the dog, while fostering a strong bond and cooperative partnership between the dog and the trainer.
Skilled positive dog trainers go beyond blindly training a dog and question the necessity of the training itself for every dog they help. They are educated in recognising signs of pain, stress, anxiety, and environmental triggers, understanding that it would be unfair to solely focus on changing a dog's responses without addressing their underlying needs.
Unfortunately, dog trainers with less education and skill are more likely to rely on forceful methods and be less capable of recognising and addressing the dog's needs in an ethical manner.
NICE exists to be a safe space for people who want to be excellent , ethical dog professionals, talk to us about joining today.
Unfortunately due to personal reasons and a change in circumstances, my walks/play & stay availability is going to reduce over the next few weeks. I'm not going to stop my current walks that are already booked in so don't worry. But if you haven't already agreed a set slot with me each week then moving forward I won't be as flexible as I have been previously. Please feel free to message me if you have any questions about this. Thank you
12/11/2023
Lest we forget.
I was pulled from my field, from my work, from my play,
Ne'er again to see England, in lands far away,
Through death and destruction, through blood sweat and tears,
I carried my master, along with my peers,
So I ask you to remember a while,
Along with the soldiers, in smart rank and file,
Remember our beauty, the strength of our kind,
As we galloped through danger, without care to mind,
For we were the horses thrust into war,
And we gave up our lives for your peace evermore.
The War Horse, 1914 - 1918
11/11/2023
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10/11/2023
Few more pics from this week 🐾 including my girl Kali the Mali and my little lad Zeke 💚
08/11/2023
Lots of pics from this week, so far! 🐾🐕
05/11/2023
This👇
No dog needs corrections.
There is never a reason to correct a dog.
When corrections "work" they do so by scaring, startling or otherwise interrupting behavior. They do not teach the dog anything other than potentially to be afraid of us.
So what do we do instead? We as guardians need to do a better job at understanding the motivation behind why dogs do what they do and we need to do a much better job at reading body language, managing their environments and teaching them alternate behaviors when they do something we would prefer them not to.
All of these things are on US, not the dog.
04/11/2023
Some dogs might not have the same level of sociability as others, and that's perfectly acceptable.
Each dog has a unique personality, and much like people, they have their own preferences for social interaction. It's important to recognise and respect these differences.
A dog who seems more reserved or less inclined to engage with strangers isn't necessarily unfriendly or ill-tempered; they may simply prefer a more solitary environment or choose to interact primarily with their familiar companions.
When you encounter a dog whose interest in socialising isn't immediately evident, it's courteous to give them space.
Forcing interaction can be overwhelming and uncomfortable for them. By respecting their preference to keep to themselves, you demonstrate understanding and kindness towards their individual temperament.
Recognising and honouring each dog's personality not only contributes to their sense of security but also fosters a more respectful and trusting relationship between humans and dogs.
02/11/2023
This and beyond, look out for signs that your dog could be stressed so you can keep your pooch and other people happy and safe 💛
Image description: Signs a dog could be stressed. Lowered body posture, tail tucked. Ears back, tail lowered, paw lifted. Yawning, leaning away. These are just some of the signs to look for when reading your dog's body language. Go to dogstrust.org.uk for more advice.
27/10/2023
25/10/2023
Prong collars are not ethical, kind or nice to put on dogs. There is absolutely nothing that can be taught using a prong collar that can't be taught using ethical dog training. Don't let anyone ever convince you that any dog ever needs a prong collar on. Dogs deserve our kindness and understanding, not people who want to stick metal spikes on their beautiful tender necks and throats.
22/10/2023
Just to let everyone know, our house and land has flooded so until our land dries up I can't offer our own fields for "Stay & Play". I can still offer dog walks in the countryside for anyone who would like me to do this but if you could give me a couple days to get my dogs, cats, horses and farm animals properly sorted first please.
Thank you
Carly x
17/10/2023
With firework season fast approaching, here are a few tips from Dogs Trust. 🎆 If your dog gets extremely nervous we suggest asking your vet for advice as they may be able to prescribe medication if they feel it will help. 🏥 Plug in diffusers and collars such as Adaptil and Pet Remedy are worth trying too.
If you have a young pup that you'd like to prepare for firework season, it's best to very slowly desensitise them to the loud bangs by playing them on your phone daily. Start off by playing firework sounds very quietly and gradually increase the volume over time, at a level your pet is comfortable with. For more tips feel free to send us a message.
Stay safe everyone! 🐾
16/10/2023
Adorable little Jack Russells Sammy and Ella 💙🩷
15/10/2023
Just a post to say thank you to all of my clients, friends and followers on here! I wasn't sure whether to get back into training after such a tough start to the year losing my mum. But I found a lovely job as Kennel Senior at a small rescue and made it my own - rehabilitating and rehoming so many beautiful dogs who would've otherwise not been given a second chance. It was actually whilst working here that it reignited my passion for training & behaviour and having met other fellow behaviourists and being able to deal with some very challenging cases where others had failed, it brought my confidence back too.
I honestly didn't expect to become this busy so quickly again and it's all thanks to those of you who regularly recommend me to your friends & family! I cannot thank you enough for your support this year. I still have many clients from Northampton who are now good friends too, even though I left Northampton 5 years ago! ☺️
I am fully booked in regards to 1-2-1 training until next year now which is absolutely amazing! But of course I still have my walking, dog sitting, stay & plays and classes but these are also booking up fast!
So thank you, to everyone for your support and encouragement. It means the world to me.
Carly 🐾
12/10/2023
A few pics from this week 🐶🧡
12/10/2023
Not an easy read but very interesting if you're a Mali geek like me ⬇️
Background The Belgian Malinois dog breed (MAL) is frequently used in law enforcement and military environments. Owners have reported seizures and unpredictable behavioral changes including dogs’ eyes “glazing over,” dogs’ lack of response to environmental stimuli, and loss of behavioral inh...
09/10/2023
This!👇🏽
Can we please stop expecting that EVERY dog wants to go to dog parks, daycares, patio parties and have birthday parties with other dogs! Nobody loves dogs more than me, but I’m here to tell you that dogs aren’t human children. They don’t want to do everything a human child does. Breed can matter when deciding what is fun for your best friend. Your Husky may have the energy to run, your Retriever may want to retrieve and your terrier may want to chase and grab. So yes, raising them with kindness is paramount, but paying attention to their needs is too. I said it.
This mentality that every dog has to be “social” with other people and dogs is keeping my shelter full, my days long and my heart broken, because I see the best dogs passed over, because they wouldn’t do well at a dog park or daycare. Not every dog needs to like your friends. I keep my dog in his room when people come over, because he isn’t comfortable around everyone, and I don’t want to set him up for failure. Love your dog enough to respect her boundaries.
Your dog doesn’t want to meet every dog. The reality show you watched about dog training and dog adoption is fake, I’ve worked in television, it’s edited to create a good story, not necessarily a real story. Let’s stop these narratives on dog ownership that are SOLD to us and based on making money. Dogs aren’t a business they are our best friends. Remember that.
Your dog can be perfectly safe and happy without overstimulating daycare or doggy birthday parties. Those things are fun for some dogs, but not for all. I want to take my dog everywhere, I want to give my dog the things I would want, but for the love of dogs in shelters everywhere, let’s ask dogs what do they REALLY want?
Dogs want more sniffs, waterlogged sticks, a quiet place to decompress, a space to stretch their legs and you to respect their body language and boundaries. They are talking to you…listen.
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Carly’s Canines is run by dog trainer and sanctuary owner Carly with the help of her partner Michael. They are owned by 122 animals which includes 20 dogs as well as horses, rescued farm animals and small pets.🐾
We never intended on becoming a sanctuary but I just couldn’t say no to the animals that needed our help and a second chance. It got to the point where we needed more space for all our dogs so we bought a farm in Nottinghamshire and took in horses and other farm animals too. We are self-funded and stay private as we both also have full time jobs working from home.
I started Carly’s Canines in 2015 when Michael and I bought our first home together in Northampton. We started off just offering a dog walking service and running the odd puppy class but quickly grew thanks to our wonderful clients and great success stories. We ran classes back-to-back, offered numerous home consultations, 1-1 training sessions and group social walks. We also supported a local Rescue Kennels by offering new owners a free 1-1 session to help their new rescue dog settle.
Before Carly’s Canines I worked at an Animal Rescue as a kennel assistant & farm/equine hand and attended several dog training, behaviour & psychology seminars, workshops and courses. These include multiple IMDT courses, APDT and accreditation with ICOES. I am now Customer Services & Content Manager for an online pet supplies store - Get Set Pet.
In 2018 we moved to our farm which meant leaving Carly’s Canines and our lovely Northampton clients. They were so supportive and appreciative of us that many have stayed in touch and support our sanctuary work now too! We focused on caring for all the animals plus our full time jobs but I still couldn’t put my training days behind me as I miss it greatly. This is why I’ve now re-opened Carly’s Canines but decided to do things a little differently this time.
Due to the fact that we are both very busy with our paid jobs plus the farm, I can’t offer the 1-1 sessions and classes like I used to in Northampton but I can still offer help and support to whoever needs it. A close friend of ours adopted a rescue dog from Spain recently but as they live quite a distance from us we helped them through messages and calls. They said how much help we had been and suggested we offer this type of service as a business, which is where this new idea sprang from, thanks to Alex and Jo!
I can offer help and advice to anyone who needs it through emails, texts, Facebook messenger or phone calls. Whether you have a new puppy and have no idea where/how to get off on the right foot or have adopted a rescue dog and are experiencing a few problems, I’m happy to help. Whilst working at the local Animal Rescue in Northampton I discovered that almost half of the dogs adopted were returned due to small behaviour problems which could have been resolved if the new owners were given the right advice and support from the start. This is why I feel passionately about offering this service to people as I appreciate that many of you, like us, just don’t have the time to attend classes and 1-1 sessions as frequently as you’d like to.
16 out of 20 of our dogs are rescues and are with us for life, as are the rest of our animals. I feel that living with, training and working with such a huge range of dogs from all walks of life as well as all the theoretical knowledge has really given me the confidence and empathy needed to help support other dog owners as best I can. I am always learning and I’m extremely passionate about offering the most up-to-date, kindest training methods available and will never use or suggest force.
So, to finish off, the service I can offer you all at this moment in time is advice, tips and support through the channels previously mentioned. There is no limit to how many questions or messages you send as owning a dog isn’t as black and white as that! For just £25 a month you get my support, it really is as simple as that. Every penny made from Carly’s Canines goes straight into feeding and caring for all our animals so the fee is more of a donation.
**Of course serious behaviour problems will require an actual face-to-face consultation as it wouldn’t be responsible to offer serious behavioural advice over a message or phone call, as all dogs are unique, but if you’re unsure just send me a message. If I feel your dog needs to be seen then I will either refer you to a recommended local dog trainer/behaviourist or we can potentially arrange a visit from myself depending on where you’re based and the problems you’re experiencing.**
Thank you for taking the time to read our story and I hope to speak to you soon!