16/03/2022
Brilliant post from the excellent Dog Training Advice and Support
In traditional dog training you may often hear that ‘a dog must show respect for now I am the master!’
Well… I don’t personally take such a Darth Vader view on things.
As humans we generally learn to trust, using our knowledge and experience of someone, their behaviour, whether they act consistently and the depth of the emotional connection we have. But we have all had experiences of just how difficult (if possible at all) it is for someone to regain our trust once it’s lost.
Why should this be any different for how we treat our companion animals?
We want to show or dogs consistency, that if they behave in a certain way good things *always* happen. We don’t set unrealistic or unchanging goals, we set them up for success. We support them when scary things do happen, and we never punish them for feeling worried, that is how we can maintain their trust in us.
Think of your relationship with your dog as a bank account, every positive interaction is a deposit - every time you punish you make a withdrawal. As soon as your account goes overdrawn then things will just go from bad to worse , keep a nice healthy bank balance and you and your dog will soon end up as millionaires in the relationship stakes.