The Perfect Puppy Company

The Perfect Puppy Company Dog Training & Behaviour in Glasgow & beyond
Aileen Stevenson
KPA CTP, ABTC ATI, FPPE, FDM
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The Perfect Puppy Company offers one to one training & behaviour consultations using simple, kind, effective techniques throughout Glasgow & surrounding areas. I also specialise in supporting families with dogs prepare for life with babies & young children and am the only trainer in Scotland with specific training in this field. Author of "Dogs, Bumps & Babies" available on Amazon now -

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Sometimes what we ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™  is going on isn't what is ๐™–๐™˜๐™ฉ๐™ช๐™–๐™ก๐™ก๐™ฎ going on. Kya is very highly socially motivated and she strug...
22/01/2025

Sometimes what we ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™  is going on isn't what is ๐™–๐™˜๐™ฉ๐™ช๐™–๐™ก๐™ก๐™ฎ going on.

Kya is very highly socially motivated and she struggles a lot with frustration when she's restricted on lead and can't interact with other dogs. One of her owner's challenges is doing the school run with Kya because she's so overaroused and her owner had put that down to her reactivity around other dogs.

But during today's session we noticed a very clear change in her demeanour as we moved from a large, open, grassy area towards the busy Main Street in the village. Her body language became more tense, she sniffed less, she started to bark more and became more aroused the nearer we got. Based on what we saw today at least some of Kya's challenging behaviours seem to be because she feels overwhelmed in proximity to the busy road. So, now that we know that, we'll add it into our training plan.

It can be easy to make assumptions about why our dogs behave as they do. Or to see all their behaviour through the lens of whatever personality traits we've decided they have - stubborn, feisty, friendly, reactive. But that can sometimes lead us down a blind alley so try to ditch the labels & keep an open mind. And if you need a fresh pair of eyes on a problem look for a qualified, ethical, experienced trainer to help you.

๐™‚๐™ก๐™ž๐™ข๐™ข๐™š๐™ง๐™จ โœจMany anxious dogs live in a state of chronic stress...constantly vigilant, rarely relaxed and often overstimul...
21/01/2025

๐™‚๐™ก๐™ž๐™ข๐™ข๐™š๐™ง๐™จ โœจ

Many anxious dogs live in a state of chronic stress...constantly vigilant, rarely relaxed and often overstimulated. Their nervous system is continually triggered and they spend more time in a state of 'fight or flight' than is healthy emotionally, physically or behaviourally.

One way to try to counteract this is to increase their opportunities (and ability) to recognise 'glimmers'. Glimmers are the opposite of triggers....small moments which elicit positive emotions, instead of negative ones. Moments of joy or contentment which soothe and which can move the body out of 'fight or flight' and towards feelings of calm & safety.

What those glimmers are will vary from individual to individual but they could be things like intently sniffing an interesting scent, drinking from a river, hunting for scattered treats, sun surfing, touch, the feeling of no tension on the lead or simply moments of quiet connection with you. Glimmers can help your dog relax, breathe and begin to feel safer.

And for owners of reactive/anxious dogs (in fact, for all of us...the world is an increasingly triggering place) teaching ourselves to notice our own glimmers can bring peace & calm when we feel overwhelmed - the sun coming through the trees, the sound of the birds, that moment of lovely, soft eye contact with your dog, the smell of cut grass. All of these can soothe & calm us.

The more we look for glimmers the more we find them. And I think, with our help, that can be true for our dogs too โœจ

MSPs in Scotland will debate the use of shock collars on Thursday 23 January.If you believe that the deliberate use of a...
20/01/2025

MSPs in Scotland will debate the use of shock collars on Thursday 23 January.

If you believe that the deliberate use of a tool which uses pain & discomfort to teach dogs has no place in an enlightened, progressive society please sign & share.

If you live in Scotland, please sign this petition to be put before the Scottish Government.

Please share this post too.

https://greens.scot/ban-electric-shock-dog-collars

20/01/2025

Why does your dog respond with alacrity to some things you say or do but ignore others?

The cues your dog responds to quickly and enthusiastically are the ones which...

โ€ข they understand; and
โ€ข they are motivated to respond to because doing so has consistently resulted in a positive result for the dog

If your dog doesn't respond to a cue it's (generally) because...

โ€ข they don't understand what's being asked of them; or
โ€ข they're not motivated to respond because there's been no consistent reward in the past

Consistency is key. Most dogs are front & centre as soon as they hear their food being prepped because that ALWAYS signals mealtime. Charlie immediately leaps up, even when he's deeply relaxed, when he's asked if he wants to go for a walk because it ALWAYS means we're going out. Consistent, predictable rewards leads to strong behaviours and speedy responses.

If your dog isnt responding to something you ask of him ask yourself two questions - "does he understand?" and "have I consistently made this worth his while?". The answer to one of them is almost certainly, no.

If your dog doesn't want to go out for a walk in the cold/wet/dark they don't need* to. That is all. ___________________...
15/01/2025

If your dog doesn't want to go out for a walk in the cold/wet/dark they don't need* to. That is all.

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*๐˜ข๐˜ด ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ข๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜บ ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜จ๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ค๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ต๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ, ๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ, ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ช๐˜ณ ๐˜ฆ๐˜น๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ค๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ๐˜ด ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต

Just Buddy snoozing his way through his session....๐Ÿ’ค๐Ÿ’คWhich is just what we want because Buddy isn't keen on visitors to ...
14/01/2025

Just Buddy snoozing his way through his session....๐Ÿ’ค๐Ÿ’ค

Which is just what we want because Buddy isn't keen on visitors to his home. So if he feels relaxed enough to relax, settle and chill out then we know we're on the right lines.

What did we do to help Buddy realise that invited guests aren't a cause for concern -

โ€ข created predictable patterns of behaviour (for Buddy & for the humans) so that the same thing happened every single time a visitor arrived. Patterns create predictability, security & clarity. And all of those make us feel safer & more in control
โ€ข managing the way people enter the home and the way Buddy meets then in order to avoid over arousal and over stimulation
โ€ข built on his existing 'go to bed' behaviour to create a space which was in a place and at distance where Buddy felt more comfortable
โ€ข changed human behaviour to ensure that Buddy wasn't being coerced or cajoled into interacting
โ€ข rewarded good choices

Strangers entering their home is a legitimate thing for a dog to be worried by and some dogs, including overseas rescue dogs like Buddy, may be more worried by it than others. But with forethought, consistency, empathy and practice we can make it a less stressful thing for them...and for us.

There are sheep in the field next to the path. Charlie has never chased sheep. Never looked like he might be thinking ab...
13/01/2025

There are sheep in the field next to the path. Charlie has never chased sheep. Never looked like he might be thinking about chasing sheep. Never given sheep more than a passing glance. But he still goes on his lead when we pass. Just in case. Because there's a first time for everything and, although I think the risk is low, the potential consequences, for him & the sheep, are severe. So we don't risk it.

And that's how you keep sheep safe around dogs and keep dogs safe from being shot for worrying. Use a lead. Allowing a pet dog to be off lead around sheep just because you (think you) can is more about our human ego than safety.

There are times for training and there are times for management and close proximity to unknown livestock should ๐™–๐™ก๐™ฌ๐™–๐™ฎ๐™จ include management, regardless of how bulletproof you think your training might be.

There is no reason a pet dog needs to be off lead around livestock. Pop them on a lead or a longline and keep everyone safe.

๐—ช๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ธ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—”๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€I am now fully booked for weekend slots until mid April 2025. If you would like to work with me but ...
13/01/2025

๐—ช๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ธ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—”๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€

I am now fully booked for weekend slots until mid April 2025. If you would like to work with me but need a weekend appointment please drop me a message to be added to my waiting list and I'll be in touch as soon as spaces open up.

If your diary is more flexible I have weekday (Mon -Thurs) availability from mid Feb onwards so drop me a message and I'll be in touch!

Q1. Does your dog know what you want them to do?  Q2. And, more importantly, have you taught them how to do what you wan...
09/01/2025

Q1. Does your dog know what you want them to do?
Q2. And, more importantly, have you taught them how to do what you want them to do?

It gets really wearing when we keep having to deal with the same annoying behaviours over and over again but before we get frustrated or angry with our dogs it's always worth asking the questions above. Because if your dog doesn't know what you want, or how to do it, then it's more than a little unfair to get frustrated when they don't do it!

Parker (& his equally handsome brother Pippin) have a young human sibling and it's very tempting for them to hang out under the high chair or follow her when she's in her walker in the hopes of a dropped piece of food. We could just chase them off every time they approach but that is going to get old really quickly so instead we're proactively teaching them what we want them to do when it's feeding time at the zoo...go to their beds & stay there.

You can spend your precious time and energy continually firefighting and yelling 'no' or you can spend your time teaching your dog what you want them TO do. One is a waste and one is an investment...

Not everything is fixable. Sometimes it doesn't matter what we do. Or how much we do. Sometimes it will never be enough....
06/01/2025

Not everything is fixable.

Sometimes it doesn't matter what we do. Or how much we do. Sometimes it will never be enough. Sometimes there are factors in play which are insurmountable and nothing we can do, no changes we can make, can alter that.

A few weeks ago we reached that point with a lovely young dog. Their behaviour was becoming increasingly aggressive and unpredictable. They had a number of health issues which were being managed but the more investigations were done, the more obvious the extent of those health issues became. No ethical training can overcome chronic, unmanageable pain. No dog deserves to live with chronic, unmanageable pain. There was no training solution to their behaviour problems and so their wonderful, kind, heartbroken owner made the brave decision to set them free from their pain.

We all want a happy ending and the temptation can be to keep trying new things, to keep plugging away, but you can't train away a dog's pain.

It's a trainer's job to support and guide their clients through the training process but it's also our job to help owners know when it might be time to stop; to help them understand that not everything is fixable; to advocate for the dog if we run out of road and above all to be honest with them about the limitations of training. It's the hardest part of the job but we do our clients, human & canine, a disservice if we don't.

Trackers!I wrote a post the other day about the benefits of GPS trackers and in it I mentioned that I'd tested a couple ...
28/12/2024

Trackers!

I wrote a post the other day about the benefits of GPS trackers and in it I mentioned that I'd tested a couple of the most popular trackers in the UK - Pit Pat & Tractive. Here are my thoughts. Please note these are only my own experiences and performance will vary based on your location and the GPS/cellular coverage in your area.

๐™‹๐™„๐™ ๐™‹๐˜ผ๐™
โœ… ๐™‹๐™ง๐™ค๐™จ - one off cost with no ongoing subscription; easy, intuitive app; excellent customer service; very simple to set up; attachment to collar felt very secure although we didn't test it over a long period; no bells & whistles but simple to use

โŽ ๐˜พ๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™จ - we struggled with poor connectivity which meant that live tracking was very patchy. The tracker was slow to connect to satellites and often couldn't connect at all in wooded areas where the connection to satellite was poorer. Since most of our walks are in these areas unfortunately this tracker wasn't the one for us. However, if you live in an area with better GPS/cellular coverage then there are lots of good points about this tracker so definitely worth testing it out. Pit Pat offers a 42 day 'no questions asked' return policy.

ยฃ ๐˜พ๐™ค๐™จ๐™ฉ - ยฃ159 (currently on sale at ยฃ129) one off cost.

๐™๐™๐˜ผ๐˜พ๐™๐™„๐™‘๐™€
โœ… ๐™‹๐™ง๐™ค๐™จ - easy set up; easy to use app; excellent live tracking; has the option to illuminate a light on the tracker from the app...useful for helping to locate your dog in the dark (there is also a sound option but it's so quiet that I can't hear it even when I'm right next to Charlie so that gets nil points from us!). Excellent battery life...we've been using the tractive since mid Nov and (after its initial charge) it's only needed charged once in that time. Has the ability to set up geofences which alert you if your dog strays outwith your predetermined 'safe areas'.

โŽ ๐˜พ๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™จ - needs an ongoing subscription; a more complex pricing structure with varying subscription levels which can be paid monthly, annually, every 2 years or every 5 years. We went for the Premium Plan (which allows multiple family members to track your pet) at ยฃ120 every two years, equivalent to ยฃ5/m). Attachment to collar doesn't feel quite as secure as the Pit Pat but, having said that, it's still firmly attached to the collar so is doing its job

ยฃ ๐˜พ๐™ค๐™จ๐™ฉ - ยฃ59 for the tracker (there's currently a 20% discount reducing the cost to ยฃ47.20) and an ongoing subscription ranging from (equivalent to) ยฃ4/m to ยฃ13.50/m. There are a range of different subscription levels & durations.

Which tracker will be right for you will depend to a huge extent on your location, the GPS/cellular coverage in that area (and, based on our experience, tree coverage). It's also worth pointing out that some remote areas may have no coverage so trackers aren't infallible. For us Tractive was the clear winner due to the reliable, accurate live tracking which, ultimately, is the point of a tracker! I've been very impressed with both the speed & accuracy with which it's been able to locate Charlie once switched on.

For clarity this is not a sponsored post and I purchased both trackers. These are just my own views and experiences based on using the devices in my local area. Both companies have helpful return/refund policies so try both and see which one works best for you in your area!

Hope this helps x

What we teach is important. But how we apply what we teach is even more so.Take โ€˜middleโ€™โ€ฆwhere your dog positions themse...
27/12/2024

What we teach is important. But how we apply what we teach is even more so.

Take โ€˜middleโ€™โ€ฆwhere your dog positions themselves between your legs. Itโ€™s often described as a useful behaviour for anxious dogs because it gives them a โ€˜safe spaceโ€™ to be. But just because "they" say that doesnโ€™t make it so!

Some dogs might find close proximity reassuring but, equally, some might feel trapped and cornered and their inability to display normal social signalling may hinder, rather than help.

Simply asking for a behaviour doesnโ€™t automatically change a dogโ€™s emotional response to things around themโ€ฆwe need to look at the bigger picture to determine whether itโ€™s truly helping them or not.

Personally, I never use โ€˜middleโ€™ as an emotional safe space. I think there are usually better, safer options if a dog is struggling. But I ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ find it useful to tuck Charlie safely out of the way when cyclists go past on the narrow paths we often walk on.

You can teach a dog to heel but is it fair to ask them to do that all the time? You can teach a dog to go into 'middle' but will that really make them feel safe? You can teach a dog to 'watch me' but is asking them to not look at something which worries them reasonable?

What we teach is only half the story...how we ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ what we teach is the other half.

24/12/2024

๐™†๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™™๐™ฃ๐™š๐™จ๐™จ ๐™ž๐™จ ๐™ก๐™ž๐™ ๐™š ๐™จ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฌ...๐™ž๐™ฉ ๐™—๐™š๐™–๐™ช๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™›๐™ž๐™š๐™จ ๐™š๐™ซ๐™š๐™ง๐™ฎ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ž๐™ฉ ๐™˜๐™ค๐™ซ๐™š๐™ง๐™จ ~ ๐˜’๐˜ข๐˜ฉ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ญ ๐˜Ž๐˜ช๐˜ฃ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ

Wishing you and your wonderful dogs a happy, peaceful & contented Christmas.

And an enormous thank you for the gift of your amazing support & engagement over the past year. It's appreciated more than I can say.

With love & thanks,
Aileen x

Wellโ€ฆ.Iโ€™m just back from the supermarket and what a lesson in trigger stacking (๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ค๐˜ถ๐˜ฎ๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ง๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ต ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ฎ๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด...
23/12/2024

Wellโ€ฆ.Iโ€™m just back from the supermarket and what a lesson in trigger stacking (๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ค๐˜ถ๐˜ฎ๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ง๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ต ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ฎ๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ด ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฑ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฒ๐˜ถ๐˜ช๐˜ค๐˜ฌ ๐˜ด๐˜ถ๐˜ค๐˜ค๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ข ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ฑ๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฆ๐˜น๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ) it was!

There was heavy traffic, no parking spaces, rubbish weather, items out of stock, too many people, long queues, temperamental self checkouts not to mention all the general stress that a fixed deadline and the pressure for things to be โ€˜perfectโ€™ bring. Andโ€ฆjust to add to the mixโ€ฆ a fairly spectacular crash in the car park causing traffic chaos! Peace & joy were thin on the groundโ€ฆ.๐Ÿ˜‰

We can generally cope with one or two stressors at any given moment but too many of them happening at once andโ€ฆ.kaboom!๐Ÿ’ฅ๐Ÿคฌ

And there was a lot of ๐Ÿ’ฅ๐Ÿคฌ๐Ÿ˜ค going on in that supermarket this afternoon!

Soโ€ฆif ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ lose our cool when things get too much then shouldnโ€™t we cut our dogs some slack when the same thing happens to them? Because holding our dogs to standards we canโ€™t meet is less than fairโ€ฆ

Merry Christmas! ๐ŸŽ„

23/12/2024

Trackers. A no brainer?

If your Facebook feed is anything like mine youโ€™ll often see posts about lost dogs. There are two simple things you can do to maximise the chances of getting your dog back safely if the worst happens and you become separated from them -

โ€ข ensure they have a tag with your contact details (this is a legal requirement in the UK so every dog should have one); and
โ€ข use a GPS tracker

Thoughts?

Ethics are complex. Are they objective? Or subjective? Or both? I think most people would agree that it is wrong to deli...
20/12/2024

Ethics are complex. Are they objective? Or subjective? Or both?

I think most people would agree that it is wrong to deliberately cause unnecessary pain & suffering to animals. And yet most people (in the UK) eat meat and many (most?) people are willing to use pain to teach their dogs. So our objective truth (that it is wrong to cause unnecessary pain & suffering to animals) is subjectively interpreted based on our biases & experiences.

And this is why we have different approaches to dog training. I don't think most 'balanced' trainers believe that deliberately causing discomfort/pain/fear is, objectively, a "good thing". However their subjective interpretation allows them to do so under certain circumstances.

And this subjectivity is why there's such huge debate about what is ethical and what isn't. And why discussions couched in those terms are usually less than productive and simply serve to entrench positions (hint...no-one likes being called unethical).

If we truly want to improve things for dogs then, instead of only focusing on how far down the road of using force/fear it's ethical to go*, perhaps we'd achieve more by also trying to reach a more objective consensus on where we should start? Isn't a default position that we should ๐™–๐™ก๐™ฌ๐™–๐™ฎ๐™จ try to use the least aversive/forceful approach possible a harder thing to objectively argue against?

Which means that even a trainer whose ethics allow them to use aversive tools like slip leads, prong collars or shock collars should ๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™ก๐™ฎ escalate to these if they already tried & failed** to achieve effective change using a less aversive approach.

We may have different views about how far we are prepared to go, but there seems no valid argument for not all setting off from the same place - the most benign place possible.

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* I'm not for a minute saying we shouldn't continue having these discussions...just that we might achieve more by not making them our only focus
**if (and this can be a big if) they have the requisite skill in applying these methods

19/12/2024

Having a dog off lead is a privilege, not a right. If we want to maintain that privilege then we, as dog owners, need to be responsible and ensure our dogs don't cause a nuisance, or harm, to others around us. We are very lucky in the UK that we aren't (yet) subject to very restrictive leash laws but incidents like the one shown in this video lead, understandably, to calls for more restrictions.

โ€ข If you know you can't recall your dog from distractions keep them on lead (or on a long line) in areas where those distractions exist
โ€ข If you're unsure whether you can recall your dog away from distractions then don't chance it...err on the side of caution and keep them on a long line while you test the water
โ€ข If they've never previously been exposed to a specific distraction (like a horse...) then be proactive & put them on lead...don't wait to see how they'll react because by then it might be too late

And being responsible not only protects our ability to have our dogs off lead but it also protects our dogs. This horse was a total star. On another day, with another horse, this could have ended very badly for the dog (not to mention the horse & rider).

I've shared these words before but I'm sharing them again after seeing the aftermath of a dog bite to a child because it...
18/12/2024

I've shared these words before but I'm sharing them again after seeing the aftermath of a dog bite to a child because it's so important if you live with kids & dogs that you think about this stuff. No one ever thinks it'll happen to them til it does...

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โ€œ๐™ƒ๐™šโ€™๐™จ ๐™จ๐™ค ๐™ฉ๐™ค๐™ก๐™š๐™ง๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ฉ ๐™ค๐™› ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™ ๐™ž๐™™๐™จโ€ฆโ€
โ€œ๐™Ž๐™๐™š ๐™ฅ๐™ช๐™ฉ๐™จ ๐™ช๐™ฅ ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ ๐™– ๐™ก๐™ค๐™ฉ ๐™›๐™ง๐™ค๐™ข ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™ ๐™ž๐™™๐™จโ€ฆโ€

We often praise our dogs for their tolerance of the behaviour of children, but tolerance is a subjective wordโ€ฆ.

๐™๐™ค๐™ก๐™š๐™ง๐™–๐™ฃ๐™˜๐™š
1. ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ฃ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜บ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฆ๐˜น๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ค๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ด ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ท๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ข๐˜จ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ
2. ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ฃ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜บ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ญ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ ๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ถ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜บ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ
3. ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜บ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฅ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฑ

To tolerate something is to put up with something youโ€™d really rather not. We tolerate queues, TV adverts and dental check upsโ€ฆ.but, given a choice, weโ€™d probably passโ€ฆ

So when we praise our dog for being tolerant arenโ€™t we really acknowledging that heโ€™s putting up with things heโ€™d choose to avoid if he could? He tolerates the children sitting on him, hugging him, pulling his ears or squeezing in beside him on the sofaโ€ฆbut heโ€™s often not enjoying it and may actively dislike it.

Relying on our dogsโ€™ tolerance of things they find uncomfortable in order to keep our children safe is a risky strategyโ€ฆ.even the most bomb proof dog has his limits. One day he might be sore or feel unwell or simply have had enough of being manhandled and what then? What happens if he reaches a tipping point and reacts? No one ever thinks it will happen to them until it does.

Instead of tolerance perhaps a better word to keep in mind when thinking about dog/child interactions is respect?

๐™๐™š๐™จ๐™ฅ๐™š๐™˜๐™ฉ
1. ๐˜ฅ๐˜ถ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜จ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ๐˜ด, ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜จ๐˜ฉ๐˜ต๐˜ด ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ด. ๐˜Š๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ, ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜จ๐˜ฉ๐˜ต๐˜ง๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด, ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜บ

Respect for the dogโ€™s space and his right to choose what interactions heโ€™s comfortable with. Respect for a dogโ€™s right to say no. Respect for a dog to be left in peace. Actively teaching our children how to behave safely around dogs; how to treat them with consideration and thoughtfulness and not as playthings.

Safe, happy relationships are built on trust, communication and respectโ€ฆnot tolerance & forbearance.

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The Perfect Puppy Company specialises in family dog training and helping people understand their dogs, and their behaviour, better.

Founded by professional dog trainer, Aileen Stevenson, it offers effective, ethical, practical training and advice to help families and their dogs live happy and stress free lives together. The Perfect Puppy Company offers a range of services from puppy training to behavioural consultations. Aileen has particular interest in working with families with children to build safe and harmonious relationships.

Aileen is a Certified Training Partner of the Karen Pryor Academy, a full member of the Institute of Modern Dog Trainers and Scotlandโ€™s first and currently only, Family Paws licensed trainer.