17/05/2025
As I take my dogs on their morning walk, I often indulge in the dangerous pastime of pondering. Watching each of them individually approach the world and process their experiences organically, I found myself thinking about a current buzzword in training: neutrality.
I haven’t attended every neutrality class or walk, so I can’t speak for all of them. But anecdotally, and from my own observations, I wonder—have we replaced trust with neutrality? Are we truly seeing neutrality, or are we witnessing dogs responding to the consequences of not behaving the way we want? Is your dog calm and collected, or are they simply holding it together for the sake of a treat—like a coiled spring? Do they truly feel neutral?
To me, teaching genuine calmness doesn’t start by flooding a dog with overwhelming experiences or environments. It starts at home, in the classroom, and most importantly, by building a real bond. With my own dogs, daycare dogs, and clients’ dogs, I don’t want them to perform neutrality—I want them to show me how they genuinely feel. I want them to feel safe, seen, and understood.
We aim to teach impulse control, boundaries, frustration tolerance, and emotional regulation. We want them to trust that we won’t place them in dangerous or uncomfortable situations.
Some say neutrality brings freedom. But I’d argue that true freedom comes from feeling safe. If your dog is afraid of the consequences of not appearing neutral, are they really free?
I would rather unpick the threads that have woven that fear rather than put a patch over it to tick a box that my dog is ‘fine’ in certain situations. I’d rather respect my dogs boundaries than push them to appear “neutral” in a situation they clearly aren’t comfortable in.
Group walks, training classes, calmness, and manners are all valuable. We often include group walks in our sessions. I’m not saying neutrality classes don’t work—but they must be grounded in respect for each dog as an individual. These tools should never become just another box-ticking exercise. Neutrality is great, but only if it can go hand in hand with trust.