31/03/2024
Some more interesting thoughts from Ross, worth a read to start your brain going this Easter 🐣 Sunday. Tea and toast required...
I often have people arrive for training who are disappointed in their performance and who are focused on their 'outcome goal', those of you that have done goal setting with me know why that doesn't help either, and are blaming themselves for being poor riders.
Whilst we, as riders, are the ones that are making the choices about what to do next, and we don't always make the right ones, we can also be riding perfectly OK. It's not that the horse is deliberately having a fence down, it's not that the rider is giving the 'wrong' signals, it's just that the horse has to acquire skills in the same way we do. And this takes a little time, just like it does for us.
So we have to give ourselves and our horses the time and environment to learn. Example - the horse doesn't know how to do a shoulder-in when it comes out the back of it's mother, it learns that, so the rider can be giving perfect aids and it not happen. It's not the horse fault it isn't happening and it's not bad riding either.
Working with a young ROR a couple of weeks back - he was jumping by using his speed and with a flat arch. The rider is experienced but was very much "it's probably because I'm doing XYZ" "it's my fault".
Why was he using speed and jumping with a flatter arch?Because that's what he had been asked to do before and what had worked for him. That was his current skill. Whose fault was that? Was it his fault ? Was It the riders fault? Nobody's, he just didn't know another way.
So, it was our job to set him up so he could learn a different skill. We jumped from trot a few times, to show things could happen at a slow speed, and I set the exercises so It encouraged him to stay lifted in his back, his back leg available, which meant he could keep balanced and level to a fence.
Did I suggest some changes in the riders position and thinking? Yes. That's what I'm here to do, look at the picture from the ground.
It was rewarding to see him understanding that he could be slower, take time to used himself. It was rewarding to see the rider take on the few tiny changes to her position and then stick to the same plan so the horse could understand the task and give him time to learn how to best to coordinate himself.
We can take responsibility for explaining things to our horses, making sure they are physically in good shape with well fitting saddles. But it isn't always your riding that's at fault, the horse is allowed to make a mistake too, "build a bridge and get over it".
WHOSE MISTAKE IS IT?
When a horse does something we don’t want, whose mistake is it?
Most people would say it’s our fault. The standard catch-cry is that the human is to blame for when things go wrong. Let me clarify that I see no point in assigning blame in a way that points the finger and allocates guilt. This essay is not about assigning guilt for mistakes that are made.
But consider, when we ride with a group and our horse wants to pull on the reins to be in the lead, where is the fault ? When a horse is being chased by a swarm of bees and doesn’t stop when we apply the reins, who is to blame? When a horse with a sore back tries to buck, where was the mistake? When a horse lays in the sand then rolls over and gets its feet trapped under a fence, who is at fault?
We could ask dozens of more questions like these and the answer will be that sometimes people are responsible for the errors, sometimes the horse is to blame and sometimes nobody is at fault.
I bring this topic up because I see time and again that everything that goes wrong is the fault of the rider or trainer. that humans are to blame for everything that goes wrong. Trainer after trainer tell us that horses are perfect and it is never the horse’s fault.
What world do these people live in? They must be working with a special breed of horses that I have never met. If horses never do anything wrong how can we explain horses that get into trouble when human is involved? I’ve seen plenty of horses in trouble because they made an error in judgement where no person was involved.
Yes, a lot of the time people are guilty of making mistakes. Sometimes those mistakes are inadvertent errors of judgment, sometimes they are caused by ignorance, sometimes by arrogance, and sometimes by stupidity. People are to blame for a lot that goes wrong with horses.
But horses are not infallible either. Just like people are not perfect, neither are horses. As amazing and brilliant as horses are, they suffer from lapses of judgment and bad decisions. Sometimes a well-educated horse will lose focus through no fault of the rider. Sometimes a very experienced horse will misjudge the height of a fence and crash. Sometimes a highly schooled horse will misinterpret a rider’s cue and make the wrong choice. Sometimes a horse just has a bad day - after all, they are only human.
Making mistakes and screwing up is part of the learning process of any complex brain. It’s called learning by trial and error. But for this to work, the animal has to make errors, even when faced with overwhelming evidence to make a better choice.
At clinics, I often talk about the need for people to try something they never thought to try before and if it is a mistake, learn from it and try again. I don’t believe a person can become a good horse person without making a hell of a lot of mistakes that then form the basis of an encyclopedic knowledge about horses and training. The more mistakes a person learns from, the bigger their database of knowledge.
This is no less true of other species, including horses. Horses have to screw up to learn and understand how the world works. Like us, it’s how their brains operate in the process of learning. It’s called experience.
I’m not saying these things to give people excuses or a free pass for poor outcomes in their horse training. I’m saying these things because I don’t see the point of the trite mindlessness that gets passed for wisdom in the horse world. It’s all very well to quote some horsemanship guru as saying “Horses are never wrong….” (or something similar) to make us feel wise, loving, and sympathetic towards our horses. But the reality is that a statement like that is pure bovine (or should I say equine?) manure. It is detached from reality. Horses do make mistakes and horses do screw up – just like people, dogs, cats, chickens, axolotls, dolphins, and just about any animal with a sophisticated central nervous system that can make choices.
I know humans are smarter than horses and better at problem-solving than any horse I have met. That’s why I am the senior partner in the relationship with my horses. Yet every day I work with them I still make mistakes. So why would I ever suppose that horses don’t make mistakes? If I can make mistakes, so can they. They are not machines.
The important part to keep in mind is to own and correct the mistakes we make and not to blame the horse for something we did wrong. And even if it is the horse’s mistake, our job is to guide them to a better response and not take it out on the horse. We need to accept that the blunder is part of the learning process and embrace it while at the same time offering a correction. Instead of criticizing a horse for making a mistake, guide them to doing better.
It is important people question everything they are told, even when it comes from their favourite horse person. Does anyone believe horses always make perfect choices and the reason something goes wrong is never that the horse made an error?
Many riding students already carry feelings of inadequacy and in my opinion, it is not okay for teachers to add further to a student’s burden of guilt by telling them that every mistake is always their fault.
Horses don’t need us to assign them special abilities they don’t possess (like being infallible) to make them any more special. We do them no favours by not seeing horses for what they are – wonderful, beautiful, honest, and imperfect.
