20/04/2024
I echo every single thing Vicki says here ☺️
🐶 TRAINING V’S BEHAVIOUR 🐶
Do you ever feel judged about the way your dog behaves?
I have done, many times.
Sam finds lots of things challenging. He particularly finds people he doesn’t know really difficult. This can sometimes be hard when we’re out on walks. We do what we can to keep him feeling safe, but there are times when we get it wrong, or there’s not enough space to give him the distance that he needs.
He reacts by barking, lunging and trying to make the ‘scary’ person go away. He’s a big dog and when he behaves like this, regardless of the reason why, he looks intimidating and ‘aggressive’.
I’m a dog trainer. Surely I should have a well trained, well behaved dog?
Here’s the thing. I’m a dog TRAINER. And Sam is well trained. He can sit, stay, walk on a loose lead, come when called… he even knows a few tricks.
Sam being scared and reacting the way he does has nothing to do with TRAINING. It’s about BEHAVIOUR. It’s about how he feels. It’s about past experiences. It’s about what displaying that behaviour does for him. It’s about how his brain works.
If we were to compare the roles of ‘dog’ professionals to ‘people’ professionals, it look something (loosely) like…
Dog Trainer = Teacher - teaching new skills and providing an education to help a dog / person successfully navigate life. As learning new skills and behaviour do co-exist, an experienced trainer / teacher will also have some knowledge of behaviour.
Dog Behaviourist = Psychologist / Counsellor - understanding how a dog / person interrupts and makes sense of the world around them and gives them ways to cope in situations that they find difficult. Does not prescribe medication.
Vet = GP - diagnoses medical conditions and treats with medications where necessary. Refers onto specialists if out of their area of expertise whether that’s medically or psychologically.
Vet Behaviourist = Psychiatrist - deep understanding of how the brain and behaviour works from a medical perspective. Can prescribe medication as part of the treatment.
Each of these roles exist to support you and your dog, and whilst there is often an overlap in an individual’s skill sets, experience and qualifications it good to have an understanding of what each can offer you.
Sam has been really well supported over his lifetime by our vet, a behaviourist & a vet behaviourist and with their help he copes with the world around him better than he would otherwise be able to.
Why is all of this important? What’s the point of the post?
It’s this.
I will NEVER judge you on your dog’s behaviour. I’ve been there. I know and understand what it is like to have people stare at you, tut at you, approach your terrified dog making the situation worse, tell you to ‘put your dangerous dog to sleep’ and worse.
If I can help you I will. But please remember that I am a dog TRAINER.
Which means that I may not be the right person to help you and if I’m not I’ll be honest and tell you. We’re lucky here, there are a number of brilliant behaviourists that I will happily refer you to if I feel that they can help you.
Don’t dread walks with your dog. Don’t worry about being judged. There’s lots of support out there. Just ask!