The Horse Aunty

The Horse Aunty Sympathetic coaching, specialising in confidence building. Advice and practical on the ground help with improving your partnership with your horse.

I am a sympathetic coach and am happy to help riders improve by looking at the whole picture of horse and rider to optimise the combination by identifying goals and helping you to make a plan to achieve. QUALIFICATIONS
BHS Stage 4 SM, Flatwork, Intermediate Teach. First Aid Certificate,and DBS checked. HGV Class 2 and trailer license,
APDT Bronze level Pet Dog Obedience Instructor,
ECDL and Clait

Computer Certificates. BIO
I started out as a Saturday girl in a private hunting and pony club yard at the age of 12 until I left school. I then worked in a large riding school and livery yard gaining qualifications and experience teaching. Working with all types of horses, riders and all levels. I did several part time equestrian college courses at this time. Gaining my BHSAI. Freelance work in dog boarding kennels, show jumping yard, continued teaching including private clients, hunting yard work, pony club camp assistant, grooming and showing up to County level with Mountain and Moorlands and a show cob for private owners. Horse Trailer driving included. Breaking 4 driving cobs, to ride. Training at Denne Park Dog Obedience club and passing my pet dog obedience instructors exam and being made chief instructor. Working in a large Hunting and pony club yard full time including teaching at Pony club camp regularly competing and training with their lovely horses. Gained HGV license driving 2 horseboxes. I had been working in an office to concentrate on my horses which have varied from young to old, rescue to schooled. I have been on the BHS West Sussex Committee for 7 years organising events for everyone such as a bitting lecture by Tricia Nassau-Williams and a Horse Rescue Demo by our Local Firemen. I had been helping with all aspects of running shows and clinics at Sands Farm Warnham as my horses were very happy liveries there. Now at Benbow Livery with my husband Darren's ride and drive mare, Blaen Morlais de Guzman a shared traditional show cob and my new mare Sally a Warmblood x Welsh. I have Kio my agility /obedience Collie and Millie our Romanian Rescue Whippet cross. I currently train and compete regularly at Obedience and Agility. I have been Senior Coach at Wildwoods Riding Centre, coaching everything from RDA to exam students. October 2021 now Freelance coaching in Surrey and West Sussex. I always am looking to expand my knowledge and have been training with Hilary Vernon from Informed Bitting from before lockdown with zoom and practical sessions as a Bitting Consultant. I have had coaching in Classical dressage, Natural Horsemanship, clicker training for horses and dogs, I was a lifetime member of the TTT Trust at Shamley Green (International/Classical coaches in jumping and dressage), I am an avid reader and try to take something from everything and apply what will work for me and to each rider/horse/dog as an individual. I have over 30 years experience and want animals to have the best holistic approach so if I am not able to meet your needs if possible I will recommend another professional from my trusted contacts.

Want to work on some non ridden exercises this winter?For an inspirational session with your horse please message.
28/11/2025

Want to work on some non ridden exercises this winter?
For an inspirational session with your horse please message.

25/11/2025

Equine gastric ulcers are one of the most frequently discussed health issues in horses. Owners and riders often link ulcers to a range of performance and behaviour problems — from irritability and girthiness to weight loss and poor coat condition.

25/11/2025

Riding exercises that involve a change in bend such as serpentines are beneficial to you and your horse.

Changing the bend requires balance, flexibility and accuracy. It also can help release any build-up of tension within the muscles on the inside of the bend. A smooth change of bend can only be achieved if your horse is straight for one or two steps.

Serpentines are good for developing
✔ Rhythm
✔ Accuracy
✔ Fluency
✔ Outline
✔ A smooth, even bend

When ridden correctly serpentines can contribute to symmetrical muscle development and straightness.

Like and follow for more tips and exercises for you and your horse.

Busy day coaching and Bitting.Cheeky Smurf looking handsome, the original member of the Friday Coaching Cob Club!
21/11/2025

Busy day coaching and Bitting.
Cheeky Smurf looking handsome, the original member of the Friday Coaching Cob Club!

21/11/2025

Anyone for a new bridle? New delivery of Ecorider Anatomical Bridles in all sizes, styles and colours. Prices from £79.95 plus fitting.

20/11/2025

Does this sound familiar?

19/11/2025

The “Stifle Lameness” That Wasn’t: A Story About Referred Pain

I once had a client who told me about a horse that developed an odd, on-again off-again hind-end lameness that no one could quite pin down. Some days the horse looked off behind, as if his stifle was sore; other days he moved completely normally. Nothing about it followed the usual patterns. Things that should have made a stifle issue worse didn’t seem to, and things that “should have” helped it, didn’t.

We were all very confused.

One day, the vet happened to be on the property with a brand-new scope and offered to scope several horses for gastric ulcers — partly to familiarize themselves with the equipment. When they scoped this particular horse, they found significant stomach ulcers.

The horse was placed on a veterinarian-directed ulcer-care plan, and within a few weeks, something unexpected happened:
the ulcers healed, and the mysterious “stifle lameness” vanished along with them.

It turned out the stifle itself had never been the problem. The horse had been expressing ulcer-related visceral pain as stifle discomfort — a classic example of referred pain.

Why Ulcers Can Look Like Hind-End or Stifle Issues

This situation is a great illustration of how the equine body handles pain. Signals from the internal organs and the limbs travel through overlapping pathways in the spinal cord.

Here’s what science tells us:

1. Visceral nerves and musculoskeletal nerves converge.

The stomach and the hindquarters share overlapping spinal segments, especially through the thoracolumbar region. When the stomach is irritated, the brain can misinterpret those signals as coming from the back, pelvis, or stifle.

2. Fascia connects everything.

The deep fascial membranes link the viscera to the musculoskeletal system. When the gut is irritated, the horse may brace through the abdomen and back, altering pelvic motion and limb loading.

3. Protective guarding changes movement patterns.

A horse in visceral discomfort often holds tension through the core, diaphragm, and back. This can create subtle gait irregularities that look orthopedic but aren’t.

When the gastric discomfort resolved under the veterinarian’s care, the nervous system stopped sending those distress signals — and the hind-end “lameness” disappeared.

✳️ Why This Matters

Not every hind-end irregularity originates in a limb. Sometimes the body is expressing visceral discomfort through movement changes.

This story is a reminder of how important it is to work closely with a wonderful veterinarian, and to consider the whole horse — inside and out.

https://koperequine.com/fascia-the-skeleton-of-the-nerves/

19/11/2025

If I coach you you will know I often say this, very well put by this trainer.

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18/11/2025

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17/11/2025

𝗛𝗼𝗿𝘀𝗲𝘀’ 𝘁𝗲𝗲𝘁𝗵 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗹𝗶𝘃𝗲𝘀 - they are continually growing and continually wearing, as they chew and grind their grazing and forage. This means that regular checks from a suitably qualified Equine Dental Technician or vet are recommended - even when horses are not yet in work, or once they have retired.

As foals, the first teeth begin to erupt from just one to two weeks after birth. By the time they reach 9 months old, most will have a full set of 24 teeth.

Just like people, foals have ‘baby teeth’, as depicted in the illustration. These teeth are replaced by adult teeth usually between the ages of 3 and 5.

When the adult teeth erupt, they dislodge the first teeth, which are also known as caps. Whilst this is happening it can make chewing very uncomfortable, especially long fibre forages (such as hay) and short grazing that is being eaten close to ground level. This is one of the main causes of sudden loss of condition in otherwise healthy youngsters. Offering soaked feeds and hay replacers like HayCare will be far easier for the youngster to manage and so ought to help them maintain or regain condition.

Whilst dental checks are recommended at least once a year, youngsters (and older horses) may require more frequent checks. If you have any concerns about your horse’s body condition or if they are having difficulty chewing, do contact your vet or Equine Dental Technician (EDT). Once the adult teeth have come in at around 5, the teeth continue to change both on the surface and importantly, below it.

By the time the horse has reached the age of 15 to 16, dental issues are very common. Some can be minimised with regular dental care in earlier life, and appropriate feeding also has a part to play. Peripheral caries (or cavities in human terms) for example, are deemed less likely to occur when horses have low sugar, low starch diets.

On the surface, two frequently seen issues are wear of the crown (grinding surface) and diastema (gaps between the teeth).

Diastema are problematic as food can become compacted and trapped, causing painful inflammation of the gums and periodontal tissue - even leading to infection in some cases. Your EDT or vet will advise of any treatment required, which may range from flushing and washing to widening the gaps themselves. From a feeding perspective, we suggest avoiding chops or chaffs in the diet as these can cause irritation. Instead, opt for soaked forages.

When the horse has reached their early 20’s it is likely that the rate of wear on the crown is more than the rate of eruption. Their teeth are wearing out. This can make chewing forage difficult and you may notice that they are quidding hay. This suggests it is time to offer an alternative forage to replace hay - HayCare being the obvious choice as it is nutritionally likened to good quality high fibre hay, yet it is in an easier to manage format when fed soaked.

Finally, the (quite literal) root cause of weight loss in many older horses comes from beneath the gums. As horses age, the roots of their teeth become more shallow in the jaw - a result of the continual growth (eruptions) of the teeth during their lifetime. This can lead to the teeth themselves being less stable, making chewing uncomfortable. Again, offering an easier to eat soaked hay replacer is recommended.

When introducing a hay replacer, as with all dietary changes, do so gradually over a week or so. It is important to note that an insufficient intake of forage can increase the risk of digestive issues, including colic.

Hay replacers need to be fed in hay-replacing quantities. For example, if you wish to replace 6kg of hay, you will need to use 6kg dry weight of hay replacer.

𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗿𝗲𝗾𝘂𝗶𝗿𝗲 𝗱𝗶𝗲𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘆 𝗮𝗱𝘃𝗶𝗰𝗲 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗵𝗼𝗿𝘀𝗲, 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗰𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗦𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗦𝘆𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗺 𝗙𝗲𝗲𝗱 𝗟𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗼𝗻 𝟬𝟭𝟳𝟮𝟴 𝟲𝟬𝟰 𝟬𝟬𝟴, 𝗼𝗿 𝗲𝗺𝗮𝗶𝗹 𝗶𝗻𝗳𝗼@𝘀𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘆𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗺.𝗰𝗼.𝘂𝗸.

17/11/2025

This is a bit long, but important to share ❤️ 15 Fascinating Facts About Horses’ Emotional Memory and Empathy

1. Horses hold one of the most powerful long-term memories among domestic animals — recalling people, voices, and events for decades.

2. They read human intent through facial expressions, distinguishing friend from threat long before a hand is raised.

3. A single act of kindness can echo for years — a horse may seek out the same person even after a long separation.

4. Trauma carves deep grooves — a horse may forever avoid a place, object, or person tied to fear.

5. They sense human emotion through voice tone, breath rhythm, and body tension — even from across a field.

6. They respond not just to fear, but to sadness, joy, or confusion — silently, instinctively.

7. Mirror neurons in their brains allow them to feel what others feel — true empathy in motion.

8. When tears fall nearby, a horse may approach softly, lower its head, and offer a gentle touch — comfort without words.

9. A wounded horse can form the deepest bonds with a patient human — shared pain becomes shared trust.

10. Horses are proven emotional therapists for PTSD, depression, and anxiety — healing hearts, not just bodies.

11. They grieve deeply — lingering by a lost companion or withdrawing in quiet mourning.

12. Once bonded, they memorize your personal rhythms — footsteps, breath, even the silence between.

13. Their memory isn’t just survival — it’s the foundation for profound connection with those who earn their trust.

14. With gentle consistency, fear can be rewritten into safety — even shattered trust can be rebuilt.

15. Horse empathy is biological fact, not folklore — their brains and hearts sync with human emotion in real time.

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