Bridging Hearts and Hooves

22/08/2024

I think He is trying to tell me something, but not sure what....🤣

16/08/2024

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12/08/2024

Working through anxiety with our horses is an ongoing journey of understanding and patience.

It’s crucial to keep them under threshold, striving for experiences that are as stress-free as muchly possible. We can work on building a positive attitude and deeper connection with our equines.

Today, I planned to work on Patch’s forward movement under saddle. He’s been progressing well, so I was confident. But as I had my foot in stirrup, he tensed up—something I thought we had already resolved. Instead of pushing forward, I took the time to help him relax, spending 30 minutes getting him comfortable with me getting in and out of the saddle.

Afterward, we went for a walk. It was windy, and we were on unfamiliar ground, so I expected Patch to be on edge. He was calm, alert but relaxed, responding lightly to my voice. It was a moment of clarity for me. In the past, I might not have fully addressed the buildup of stress before taking him out, leading to more tense experiences.

This reminded me of the importance of giving our horses the tools to regulate their emotions. By understanding their needs and responding with patience, we create safer, more harmonious experiences for both them and us.

12/08/2024

Thank you, 😊 🙏

10/08/2024

09/08/2024

🌼 Building Confidence in Everyday Interactions with Your Horse 🌼

Daily tasks like feeding, grooming, and leading your horse should be enjoyable, stress-free experiences. However, it's not uncommon to feel overwhelmed when faced with challenging behaviors, whether it’s catching your horse in the field or managing obstacles on the way to the stable.

Our mission is to equip you with the tools and techniques to handle these challenges confidently. By establishing trust, respect, and clear communication, you can provide the security and leadership your horse needs.

🐴 🩷 Here is our beautiful Poppy and her wonderful mama. Like all relationships, there are ups and downs, but each small victory is a step toward a deeper connection. It's important to celebrate these small wins and keep perspective, knowing that even on tough days, progress is being made.

We're here to guide you through every step, ensuring you and your horse continue building a strong, trusting relationship, one day at a time.

Drop us a DM if you would like to book a session 📗✏️!

03/08/2024

✨️Exploring Alternative Ways to Improve Communication

I'm always on the lookout for ways to enhance our communication, especially when it seems like we're experiencing a slight regression after a period of good progress. Recently, Patch and I faced some issues with leg aids. We were making significant strides, but once we resumed working on leg aids, he started to regress.

Today, I decided to try a different approach. I went back to using voice communication, which is a beautiful aid. I was delighted to see how responsive and calm Patch was. He was attentive and light.

Always remember to find what works best for you and your horse. Your relationship is as unique as the communication you build together.

02/08/2024

✨️If We Ask, We Need to Give✨️

Lately, I’ve been finding myself reading a few articles about horse biomechanics and physiology, especially under saddle. One thought repeatedly stands out: we ask a lot from our horses and often don’t give enough in return.

Mentally and physically, horses endure a significant amount of pressure from us, and we often don’t realize the extent of it. When we decide to ride, we tack up and go, but around 70% of riders will experience some form of “naughty” behavior from their horse, from the moment the headcollar is on until they’re in the saddle.

Riding requires horses to do things that aren't natural to their daily lives, like jumping. While horses can jump, it’s not something they do regularly unless necessary. The same goes for schooling—they can perform, but not at the level we often demand.

When our horses don’t perform perfectly, our instinct is to push harder instead of stepping back. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with riding on a loose rein or accepting a bit of stiffness in that tricky corner. There’s nothing wrong with a horse that isn’t in the mood for our plans on any given day. We need to ask our horses more often rather than constantly tell.

I’m not suggesting that if your horse doesn’t respond, you should just give up and go home. My point is to be mindful of how and what you’re asking. To achieve a balanced communication, we need to establish a mutual understanding first. Let’s be more considerate and patient, recognizing that our horses deserve to be heard and understood.

Pictures as example:

1.Patch stood for 10 minutes at my tack room , before coming up to the mounting block. He does that occasionally, he is showing me that he isn't ready, he isn't walking away to eat, or keeps occupied, he is genuinely, standing there and processing... once he is OK he comes and parks...

2. Him having a good easy time walking around, he still has limits to how long , but every day is a progress from 7 steps away from comfort zone, to 16 steps .. to a whole walk around the field....

3. On one of my posts I showed you how he grabs stirrups and sinks teeth into them, look at his face now...

30/07/2024

Help my horse drifts towards other horses while schooling how do I stop it?

A quick tip=

With another horse in the arena walk your horse on a loose rein, allowing them to choose where they want to go.

If they navigate towards the other horse, push them forward and circle.

By keeping the horse moving, they learn to stop being as interested and dependant in the other horse.

This works for gates, people etc too.

For a more in depth explanation, to book a call or to schedule an in person session where we can work through this problem just drop me a message!

26/07/2024

✨️Finding Each Other: Nyree and Poppy's Journey✨️

Late night session ,last night , I had the privilege of working with the beautiful Nyree and her horse, Poppy, in a session aptly named "Finding Each Other."
Witnessing their transformation from a pushy, nervous, and bossy mare and a worried, struggling owner to a duo finding comfort in each other's presence was nothing short of magical.

When we started, Poppy was anxious and dominant, while Nyree was overwhelmed and uncertain. But as the session progressed with patience, understanding , and gentle guidance, Nyree and Poppy began to tune into each other's needs and signals.

The breakthrough moments were profound. Poppy, a whirlwind of dominant energy, started to relax, her trust in Nyree becoming more evident. Nyree, in turn, grew more confident and calm, learning to communicate with Poppy in a way that resonated deeply with her.

By the end of the session, it was clear that a new bond had formed. Nyree and Poppy were no longer just owner and horse but partners on a shared journey of trust and companionship. It was a joy to be part of this beautiful transformation.

Welcome to your journey, girls. I am so happy to be a part of it.🎉✨️🙌

25/07/2024

Horses have nearly a 360-degree field of vision!

However, they do have two blind spots—one right in front of their nose and one directly behind them.

Understanding this can help us better comprehend their reactions and behavior and also tells us why they spotted that pesky pheasant or odd shaped leaf before us!

23/07/2024

Did you know
following the end of physical sessions I provide you with ‘homework’ to ensure your positive partnership continues to develop and also give you the access to constant 1-1 support if required.

Would you like to book a session? Just get in touch below or in messenger!

21/07/2024

❤️Quieting the Noise: Self-Care for You and Your Horse❤️

✨️Taking time for yourself and your horse after a fall or any other horse life - balance-shaking experience is crucial for both physical and mental recovery. It's essential to block out external noises and the pressures others may impose on you. Peer pressure can be overwhelming, pushing you to rush your recovery or to compare your progress with others. However, everyone is different—what works for one person or horse might not work for another.

Each of us must find our own pace and approach, guided by self-love and an understanding of our unique needs. There's no shame in taking small, incremental steps forward. Even if it's just a step and a half further on a hack than you managed yesterday, it's progress. We often go to great lengths to ensure our horses are comfortable and progressing at their own pace, yet we frequently neglect to offer ourselves the same compassion and patience.

✨️Remember, recovery and growth are personal journeys. Taking your time to heal and build confidence not only benefits you but also strengthens the bond with your horse. Embrace the journey, and trust that moving at your own pace is the right path for you and your horse.

I know I did , and still am....

20/07/2024

Today's visit was truly special. I had the profound pleasure of meeting incredible people who are doing beautiful work with both horses and individuals. I am beyond honored to be welcomed into your family and to join forces with you in making a meaningful difference. This experience has touched my heart, and I am filled with gratitude and excitement for the journey ahead.
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Essential Equine Therapies

18/07/2024

Connecting with horses is an honour, I adore spending my time in their presence.

Being able to share my passion with owners wanting to develop their understanding and partnership with their horses is the greatest job to have.

16/07/2024

I love seeing my clients enjoy their time with their horses again.

It’s normal to feel nervous or stressed when trying something new but ending sessions with relaxed horses and owners is the best feeling!

If you are looking to reconnect with your horse, improve your partnership or have any behaviour problems we need to address just get in touch!

16/07/2024

I live my job... I really do.
✨️Supporting a Concerned Rider: Finding Comfort and Understanding Our Aids"✨️

Beautiful team, those two truly are, today's session of
"Know your horse, let your horse know you."

15/07/2024

✨️KEEP SHOWING UP✨️

Day 7 of sitting on Patch every day.
Day 1-3 doing nothing, 4-7 asking for rein engagement.

Today was 1st time he walked up to M-block, parked up , let me on with his head hanging down. And only needed 3 releases and not even one bite or grab of the stirrup.
From angry faces , resistance to rein aids, backing up and being frozen , to this. Proud of my boy.

*Bilbo got a cleg bite and he was no happy. * 😅🙆‍♀️

Transcend Bitless Bridle.

14/07/2024

Our new Flyer has landed 🚀, how exciting 🎉!

13/07/2024

Every day is an opportunity to bond with your horse. They ask for little in return—just your calm presence and peaceful companionship. Come and experience the tranquility of a perfect partnership.

11/07/2024

"Ask Us Anything About Equine Behavior!"

Do you have a burning questions about equine behavior or partnership development?

Drop them in the comments or DM and I will answer them for you!

08/07/2024

Another gorgeous day with my baby

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