Bridging Hearts and Hooves

28/12/2024

❓️Did You Know❓️

✨️The simplest task—leading your horse, at a comfortable, matching pace—can reveal so much about your relationship. Just by how your horse walks beside you, I can tell where the two of you stand in your connection. It’s not as simple as it seems.

Every second spent with your horse is an opportunity to communicate, and every interaction must be carefully tended to. Over time, this mindful approach becomes the foundation of how you and your horse talk to one another—a language built on trust, respect, and understanding.

Horses feel everything: our energy, our intentions, and even the way we stand in their presence. They notice the smallest details, and they respond in kind. Some will resist and fight; others will retreat, shutting down and submitting to avoid discomfort.

M has adopted a mental escape, a bit of a freeze mode as a way to close off when interactions feel overwhelming or confusing—not because dad is unkind, but because he, like many of us, didn’t realize that love alone isn’t enough. It has to be love in their language.

This is why I will never stop saying: it’s up to us to learn how to communicate in a way our horses understand. (If you need it ofcourse)

To everyone asking why, to everyone who feels that something is missing or lacking in their connection—I applaud you. By seeking a different approach, by stepping onto the path of learning and understanding, you’re opening the door to a relationship that is richer, deeper, and more meaningful.

Let’s remember, every moment we spend with a horse is an opportunity to build a bridge. It’s a chance to connect, to listen, and to speak their language.
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❤️ Nyree and Poppy- beautifully moving forward ✨️ thank you and proud of you.

24/12/2024

🎄✨️ Warm Yule Tidings to my wonderful clients and their amazing horses! 🎄✨️

Thank you for the trust, connection, and shared moments this year. May this season bring warmth, joy, and magic to you and your horses.

23/12/2024

✨️Today's post is a bit different, as I had the pleasure of finally meeting KAJ Equine , I was truly impressed with how my boys reacted to her presence, and hands. ✨️

🐴 The Power of Addressing Both Body and Mind in Your Horse’s Well-Being 🐴

Horses are a blend of body and mind. Focusing on one without the other can miss vital pieces of the puzzle that unlock their calm, confidence, and connection. Addressing both physical discomfort and emotional stress is essential for their overall well-being.

As an equine behaviorist, I help horses feel safe, understood, and balanced emotionally by identifying triggers and building trust. But sometimes, a horse’s emotional state is tied to physical tension they can’t voice but show through behavior.

This is where physiotherapy comes in. A skilled physiotherapist/massage therapist/chiropractor/osteopath. Relieves muscle tension, improves circulation, and supports better movement, allowing the horse to feel more comfortable. This physical relief can have a profound effect on their mind, fostering relaxation and openness to connection.

When body and mind are cared for, the results are transformative. A horse free of pain feels calm, and a horse with emotional support embraces physical treatment.

Consider how addressing both aspects can make a difference. The path to a happy, connected horse starts with seeing the whole picture.

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22/12/2024

✨️Taking Time for Ourselves and Our Horses✨️

Building a relationship with a horse is much like learning a new language. It’s not given that we’ll understand each other right away. Often, we find ourselves overthinking the problems—why they won’t stand still, why they don’t respond the way we hope—and underthinking our own abilities to connect.

The truth is, patience is the bridge between confusion and clarity, for both us and our horses. Taking the time to understand their world and reflect on our approach doesn’t just improve the partnership; it transforms it.

The same applies to ourselves. How often do we rush into self-criticism when things don’t go perfectly? What if we gave ourselves the same patience and grace we strive to give our horses?

Connection grows not through force or speed, but through mindful steps, trust, and time. Some of the most rewarding moments come not when we “solve the problem,” but when we truly listen—both to our horses and to our hearts.

✨️So today, take a breath. Slow down. You don’t have to have all the answers right now. Let patience be your guide, and trust that progress will come when both you and your horse feel understood.

❓️What’s one way you can practice patience with your horse—and yourself—this week?❓️

🎉A big , mahusive, Welcome, to Maria and Angus, to the start of your Bridging journey! After losing their bond and love somewhere along the way, they’ve joined us to heal the rift and reconnect. We’re excited to support them and can’t wait to see their relationship flourish. Proud of you on your 1st session today!
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21/12/2024

✨️Why Do We Say "Fixing Behaviors"?✨️

Let’s take a step back and ask—what are we really “fixing”? A horse’s behavior is what it is. There’s nothing broken.

When we approach behavior as something to be “fixed,” we’re already missing the point. Most unwanted behaviors stem from a lack of mutual language and understanding. Horses don’t speak our language or know our rules; they simply respond to their environment and experiences.

Often, we humans feel threatened or out of control. We react by trying to manipulate situations in ways horses don’t comprehend, leading to conflict, frustration, and even dangerous outcomes. This isn’t dominance—it’s a breakdown in communication.

It’s time for a shift.
Instead of “fixing” behaviors, let’s start building trust, understanding, and a shared language. When we work with the horse’s nature rather than against it, we create harmony, not disagreements.

Change starts here—by seeing behavior as communication, not a problem. Let’s bridge the gap.

Our beautiful girls Nyree and Poppy ❤️✨️
A living proof, that things can be different!

18/12/2024

17/12/2024

It seems like the most basic thing we should all start with, yet it often becomes an achievement that needs explaining: spending time with our horses without any expectations. In a world where we are often focused on results, goals, and tasks, this simple act can feel revolutionary. But when we let go of the need for anything in return, we open the door to a deeper connection. This is when the magic happens – when trust, respect, and true partnership can begin to flourish naturally, without pressure.

We can learn so much by just sitting there. Watching.

16/12/2024

❓️Did you know❓️

Horses have an incredible ability to find comfort and peace in the presence of a human, much like they would with another horse. This happens when we create a safe and trusting environment where they feel seen, understood, and respected.

By offering consistency, patience, and understanding, you can build a bond that allows a horse to relax and truly let their guard down—something they typically reserve for their herd members. It’s a reminder of how deeply they value connection, whether it’s with their own kind or with us.

✨️I can always tell where the trust is with my boys, by the ability to enjoy lazy sunny days with them.
Patch is still a tad hesitant, where's Bilbo, soft and relaxed as he can be (this state only happened last year) after having him with me for over 5 years.

15/12/2024

❓️Did you know?❓️

Horses have bad days too! Just like us, they can feel tired, frustrated, or simply not in the mood to engage. These moments are opportunities to show patience and understanding, meeting them where they are instead of pushing for results.

Sometimes, they might feel overwhelmed by their environment, confused by what’s being asked, or even experiencing physical discomfort. Acknowledging their emotions and allowing space for them to express themselves helps build trust and mutual respect.

By recognizing that horses, just like us, have fluctuating moods, we deepen the partnership. Connection isn’t about perfection—it’s about being present and supportive, even on the tough days.

The key is not to give in to our own emotions when sessions don’t go as planned. Allowing frustration or negativity to take over will only burn the bridge we’ve worked so hard to build. Instead, focus on creating a safe and positive space where growth can happen, even on the challenging days.

09/12/2024

✨️First Remote Session Success! ✨

Today, I couldn’t be prouder of Yulia and her two young horses. They’ve embraced the process beautifully!

I’ll soon share a video explaining the importance of an exercise I call “Doubts Away”. This exercise is more than a simple task—it’s a foundation for our future work. Think of it as a game of intentions, a way for us to become mindful of our own energy and for our horses to develop attentiveness to this subtle communication.

As we refine this connection, something truly magical happens—contactless communication becomes possible. 🌟 When horse and human align in understanding, the picture comes together seamlessly, creating a bond rooted in trust and clarity.

Stay tuned for the video and see how this simple exercise can transform your connection with your horse! 🐎

03/12/2024

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03/12/2024

✨ A New Chapter for Bridging Hearts and Hooves ✨

What an unforgettable adventure these past 13 days have been! Four of those days were dedicated to clinics filled with magnificent horses and incredible people, and my heart is brimming with gratitude.

I am beyond thrilled to share some monumental news: Bridging Hearts and Hooves is officially expanding abroad! We will be establishing our very own yard and embracing a new way of life for horses—a vision that feels like the culmination of everything we’ve worked for.

This is more than just a step; it’s a leap into a dream that has been quietly burning inside me for years: to create a space where the change we’ve started can truly flourish, where horses and humans alike can find connection, understanding, and growth.

Our big move is planned for spring 2025, and while I can’t fully comprehend what awaits us, one thing is certain—I am ready. Driven by passion, faith, and belief in what we stand for, I know we are stepping into something extraordinary.

To every single person and horse who has been a part of this journey, thank you from the depths of my heart. Your support, trust, and energy have made this possible, and I carry each of you with me as we take this monumental step forward.

Here’s to the next chapter, to dreams taking flight, and to the incredible journey ahead!

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19/11/2024

✨️Horses who shaped me : ✨️

Out of the countless horses I've had the honor of riding throughout my life, there have been a few, just five, that truly shaped me and my path with horses.
Among them was this extraordinary girl. She was one of the most influential horses in my early years, not an easy ride, not a happy attitude with most people , she showed me that things didn’t have to be the way they were, that the 'system' I had accepted as normal wasn’t the only way.

She taught me to question, to search for a different, better way. Her soul was unmatched, and I loved her more than words can say. She gave me so many valuable lessons, and a special place in her stable and heart. That I carry to this day.

Looking back, I wish I had known then what I know now. But even so, I’m endlessly grateful for everything she shared with me. She was special, a horse of a lifetime, and her influence is woven into every step of my journey with horses today.

Here’s to her memory, her lessons, and the connection that started it all.💖

17/11/2024

❤️ Nyree & Poppy: Catch up Visit.

Today’s catch-up session with Nyree and Poppy was a great reminder that progress is a journey, not a destination. Their bond has grown beautifully, and they’ve moved past stages 1, 2, and 3 of our 4-step system.

However, it’s always important to revisit these foundations when needed.

✨️ Awareness
✨ ️ Boundaries

and ✨️connection have laid the groundwork for where they are now.-- ✨️Growth

But horses (and humans) are ever-changing, and going back to strengthen those steps when challenges arise ensures continued growth and understanding.

Nyree and Poppy are a lovely result of- putting in the time and being open to readdressing the basics creates a relationship built on trust and respect.

📸 Love seeing how it looked like, and how it looks like now.... ⬇️⬇️⬇️

16/11/2024

❓️Did You Know❓️

True progress with horses isn’t measured by how quickly we reach a goal, but by how sustainable and meaningful the journey becomes. Each horse is unique, shaped by their environment, abilities, and circumstances. That’s why it’s vital to adapt our approach to meet them where they are.

Our 4-step system—

✨️ Awareness
✨ ️Establish Boundaries
✨️ Foster Connection
✨ ️ Encourage Growth


Take Olive, for example—when her emotions get high, the key wasn’t to push through but to pause and restart. By asking her to return to a familiar spot, she found the clarity to process her feelings. This simple, mindful technique didn’t just calm her in the moment; it helped her build confidence and security about herself.

Before - she couldn't stand still at the far end of the arena, everything was an issue and a trigger for flight.

Sustainable progress is about creating a space where horses can grow at their own pace. That’s where true partnership begins.

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14/11/2024

✨️ Taking BH&H Abroad! ✨️

In just a few days, I’ll be setting off for an incredible two-week journey overseas to lead a clinic focused on deepening the bond between horses and humans. Working with new clients and their horses.

This opportunity allows me to share my approach to connection - I’m beyond excited to bring my work to new places.

Helping others see the magic of true connection is what drives me, and I look forward to sharing this experience with all of you. ✨

Stay tuned for updates on what this adventure brings! I’ll be back soon, bringing with me even more inspiration and stories to enrich the journey we’re on together.

♥️Thank you all for being a part of this path with me! ♥️

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