16/03/2023
I agree with this entirely.
My younger self would never have knowingly wanted to engage in harsh training practices or stabling practices that result in poor welfare.
But, I was taught that much of what I now know to be wrong was actually right.
That hitting my horse for nibbling at my jacket or kneeing him in the stomach when he bloated for the girth was showing him boundaries and doing what was necessary to keep him and the humans around him safe.
I believed that horses who weaved were merely dancing. That horses who cribbed were just playing. That horses loved their cozy little stalls and that it was normal for them to live alone.
I trusted the information because it came for professionals and I was just so young and impressionable.
Sometimes, I mourn the young rider that I could have been had I been taught a different path.
I think of how beautiful it would’ve been to get an introduction to horses that taught me a gentler approach.
Nowadays, I see a lot of young riders who serve to be mirror images of my younger self.
Taught to take their frustration out on their horses with physical punishment. To view any misbehaviour on the part of the horse as naughtiness and punish accordingly.
Like my younger self, they never really had any say in the path they went down as a rider, it’s all a stroke of luck with who your beginning role models are.
It’s such a sad situation.
Generations of riders made sour and far more aggressive to horses than they’d naturally be, simply because they think it’s necessary.
It’s a vicious cycle that is painful and difficult to break out of. It lifts a veil on what you viewed to be the reality of horse behaviour and can send your world crashing down.
If only we could prevent it from happening in the first place.
If only we could give young riders the introduction to horses that they deserve.