31/05/2025
Trainers Aren’t Magicians, and Dogs Aren’t Broken.
There’s a deeply rooted belief floating around out there that if you hire a good dog trainer, they can “fix” anything. But here’s the thing dogs aren’t broken. They’re living, feeling beings. They’re not machines that just need a new part or an update to the software. Sometimes, what a dog is experiencing isn’t a “behaviour problem” it’s pain, fear, confusion, or a history of trauma. And no amount of training alone can erase that.
Right now, I’m going through something incredibly hard with my own dog. She’s been struggling with chronic pain, and despite everything I’ve done, from training to vet visits to behavior support, it’s clear she needs something more than what I can give her. That’s why she’s going to a rescue who can dedicate the time, resources, and specialized care to not just mask the symptoms, but get to the root of what’s going on. They’re going to help her find the right answers, and eventually, the right home.
My heart is already shattered into a million pieces but what hurts more is I keep getting messages like, “What’s wrong with her?” and “Why can’t you fix her?”
Let me say this clearly SHE ISN’T BROKEN and neither am I for needing to make this decision.
Unless you’ve spent years studying dogs, I mean really understanding them, not just loving them, you can’t fully grasp how complex they are. Chronic pain changes behaviour. Fear shows up in ways that look like defiance. Stress can masquerade as aggression. Sometimes, what looks like a training issue is really a medical or neurological one.
So no, I can’t “fix” her, because she isn’t a project to be fixed. She’s a soul who deserves comfort, compassion, and a life without suffering. That’s what I’m trying to give her, even if it means letting her go.
This post isn’t about blame. It’s about awareness. If you’re in the dog world as a pet parent, a trainer, a foster, or just someone who cares. I hope you’ll remember this. Dogs don’t need to be “fixed.” Sometimes, they just need to be understood.
All those pet parents out there that have had to go through the same thing. I see you, just know none of this is your fault.