29/02/2024
Hi all,
I just wanted to share a recent success story with you that stands out as a beacon of hope for anyone facing similar challenges. It's about a family who reached out to me in a state of despair, with their stress levels through the roof after their Border Collie, Max, had bitten another dog. This incident marked a turning point for them, realising the need for professional help to address Max's reactivity issues.
From our first meeting, it was clear that Max's family was committed to doing whatever it took to help him. Their dedication for Max was unwavering despite the difficulties his behaviour presented. I explained the process of what they needed to do and mentioned it required patience, understanding, and a tailored approach to Max's specific needs.
Our strategy focused on building trust and confidence, between Max and his family. We started with clear communication in the home to establish a foundation of who protects whom. Gradually, we introduced controlled exposure to the situations that triggered Max's reactivity, always ensuring he felt safe and supported.
Progress was slow and, at times, it felt like two steps forward, one step back. However, the family's perseverance never waned. They celebrated the small victories with joy and tackled setbacks with renewed determination.
Yesterday they reached a milestone that once seemed impossible. During a walk, a situation arose that would have previously resulted in a reactive outburst from Max. But this time, Max looked to his family for guidance, calmed by their reassurance and went to play with the dog. His owner called me in tears of joy.
The transformation in Max and his family's lives has been profound. The tears of despair have turned into tears of joy, a testament to the incredible journey they've all been on.
I share this story with you for two reasons: Firstly, to remind you never to give up—the journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step, and as long as you continue moving forward, you will see results. Secondly, to illustrate the rewarding nature of this work. If you've ever considered a career in dog behaviour, I have some very exciting news on the horizon.
Stay tuned, and remember, the path to change, though challenging, is immensely rewarding.
Best wishes,
Nigel