
21/07/2025
I was reminded by a great mindset to dog training recently by a trainer I follow : Sean .
In the middle of managing difficult behaviour, it is easy to lose sight of what you are working towards and what success looks like. The setbacks, the repetition, and the slow progress can wear you down. It can be a very hard process. But not doing anything is hard too. The experiences you will miss together, social isolation, feeling like you’re always on edge in your own home, each walk being a chore rather than a pleasure, avoiding life instead of living it, resentment creeping in, no clear path forward. You have to choose your hard. One path keeps you stuck, managing chaos and shrinking your world. The other is uncomfortable too, but it moves you forward.
Keep the end goal at the forefront of your mind to stay motivated. Imagine the day your dog walks calmly by your side, relaxed and trusting you to lead. Picture sitting together in a park, restaurant or café while people and dogs pass by without your dog reacting. Imagine visitors and other dogs coming to your home and your dog stays calm, choosing to settle nearby. These moments are possible through consistent, clear guidance. Every time you help your dog stay calm and show them you are dealing with situations, you affirm to them there is nothing to worry about. Each walk, each decision, is a step closer to that kind of life. Imagine that day. Hold on to that thought. Keep going.