13/09/2023
Our precious baby boy Teddy, Teddikins, Billy Bubba, Snowby, Bon Bon, the little boy who, someone in the park just two days earlier, thought was a puppy, died on the 11th.
His anti-nausea medication had run out and I had to go to the vet to get it. It was our local clinic. I was walking down to the vet, as my car isn't ULEZ compliant. The baby boy wanted to come with me. I didn't have the heart to refuse him. But it's a long walk and I knew he couldn't walk that far anymore, so I took the buggy we had bought for him. It was only after we left that I remembered like an idiot I am, that without the nausea medication, he suffered from motion sickness. So he vomited up his dinner from the previous night. I cleaned it up and slowed down, trying to walk as steadily as I could. He hopped off the buggy soon after though and started walking again, with me and the three other babies I'd taken with me, Spritie, Angel, and our little Sparky.
We walked slowly, but he became tired and hopped back onto the buggy, but started feeling nauseous again, so hopped off again. He wanted to sit and rest on the pavement, but it was taking such a long time, to get there, I kept picking him up and putting him back in his buggy thinking the sooner we got there the sooner I could give him his medicine and the sooner he'd feel better and we could go to the park in the buggy. But by the time we got there, he was exhausted. His prescription was ready for me, so I collected it from reception, Teddy was sitting right there, just as I got ready to leave, and was picking him up to put him back in his buggy, he just collapsed.
The vet clinic we went to is a 24-hour vet, with emergency facilities, and one of the vets came straight out, and rushed him into the back and put him into intensive care. I'd taken Teddy there just a few days earlier when he had started vomiting and wasn't drinking. The vet, a highly experienced and very kind vet called Allan, who is the night vet there had put him on a long-term antinausea medicine, as the one Lia at Eco Vets has prescribed for him is for short-term use only. But he gave me only a few tablets. I went back there a few days later and asked for more, but again I was only given a short supply. I asked the nurse whom I spoke to, for more, And she said "Oh, okay, let me ask for more for you." The vet on duty at that time, hadn't seen Teddy as it's a very big clinic, and we've only been going there regularly for a few days so again I was given just a short supply. But I assumed I had enough for a while. We'd been so stressed out I didn't check inside the paper packet at home either. And then the night of the 10th I suddenly I realised I didn't have anymore. I phoned up immediately and asked for more but was told it would take 24 hours. And so he hadn't had his morning dose. The clinic issued it extremely fast, but there's hadn't been any for the morning. Otherwise, he would have just sat in his buggy and we would have had a nice long walk, he would have hopped on and off without feeling stressed... But it was all too late, the damage had been done.
I waited there for him and then the vet came out and asked me to come into one of the consulting rooms. She is a lovely lady called Laura, with a very kind manner, so like our much, much missed retired vet Ellie. She told me that he was going, and I could either have him admitted into intensive care for the next 24-hours again, or let him go to sleep forever. She said she didn't think he'd recover now, and she didn't think he'd probably last even 12 hours. She told me his body was just too stressed. She said with dogs, their bodies keep compensating, masking their illnesses until they can't compensate any longer, and Teddy's body has reached that point. His heart was pounding, she said he was struggling to breathe, he was not responding to her and her team at all, and there's no way she would allow me to take him home.
I knew I'd made a terrible, terrible mistake taking him along with me. The walk had been too much for him. The vet told me he had collapsed from stress. I wanted to tell her that I know Teddy, within a few hours he'd be okay again. But I knew he wasn't okay anymore - even before he collapsed. He needed medicines to make him feel hungry, medicines to make him overcome the nausea, medicine to help him p**p... Yes he perked up in the park, but the Teddy, who had boundless energy and leaped about like a buckaroo at the thought of going out (hence his name Billy Bubba, from Buckaroo Bill), now struggled to walk, sometimes he didn't even want to go out and I'd have to coax him out. He had even stopped sniffing and jumping up to peep over garden walls, incredibly inquisitive little pup that he had been... All he did was stop frequently to catch his breath, and when he lowed his head, it wasn't to sniff, it was to eat grass and the leaves of the common w**d called Green Elnet that helps with nausea. Often he'd just stand looking around him, whenever there was a view; we live in a very hilly part of London so there are often lovely views, especially in the park, he'd sometimes just stand there for an age, looking around with that far away look on his face, that sad, wistful far away look that they all get when they are between the two worlds, this one and the next, when they know their time is very close to an end, and they want to see all that they had loved and enjoyed in this life, to take it all in for the last time...
I knew this is not the life that that gorgeous, fluffy pup wanted to live... I told her I would wait for my family to come. I called my sister, she told Peter to come over.
She brought him out, her staff placed a lovely white fluffy rug onto the table and she laid him there. He instantly sat up and looked at me. I told the vet he's responding now. She said it was because he knew I was there. I bent over him and stood there holding him, and kissing him, telling him how much I loved him. When I stood upright, he sat up again, but his eyes were no longer bright. His huge, big gorgeous dark brown eyes with dark 'eyeliner', that made me nickname him "Billyses" (we gave all our babies mock classical or Egyptian names for fun with 'official titles' to go with them, and Teddy was given the title Billyses - Royal Messenger to the Canine Court because he was so outgoing and loved everyone, and everyone loved him back).
I held his beautiful face in my hands and asked him "Baby boy do you want to go now?" He lay down and shut his eyes and I knew that's what he wanted.
I asked Laura to give him a sedative first, I didn't want him to feel anything. She did, I held him tight and he slipped away...
She wrapped him up a nice blue sheet, I carried my baby out to my brother-in-laws car and placed him gently into the boot, I put his buggy in, and walked home with Spritie and Sparky. Angel went into the car with him. I wished that Wolfy had come on the walk - Teddy's last walk as Wolfy had been one of his friends, and then he would have had all his best friends, Spritie, Wolfy and Angel, with him, Sparky wasn't one of his friends, but I guess, as it turned out. I needed him for my comfort, Sparky was our first.
My big, beautiful, gorgeous fluffy arctic pup, no longer has to struggle to walk, no longer feels nauseous, no longer has to strain and strain trying to poo, he no longer has to feel ill. My gorgeous, big fluffy puppy is now in Paradise, he's gone back home to where all Angels go.
RIP my beloved, cherished, happy, bouncy Baby Boy, you brought so much happiness and love to all who met you - especially me, your Auntie JoJo, your Mum Mum, and your first Mummy, Mummy Linda, and her family.
Bye bye Baby Boy, we will always love you forever and ever and beyond. Until we meet again my lovely big Bon Bon.
D.x 💔💔💔💔💔🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Here's one of the last pictures of Teddy I took before he became ill... (The last picture my camera ever took before it packed up was of Teddy smiling, the same camera that I used from the very first day these babies came into our lives...)