12/09/2021
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I am going to close this page in a few weeks time, for several reasons. I write this, so people can just take a step back and think of the bigger picture when you deal with "rabbit breeders" as there's a person behind the page.
95% of the people I've dealt with have been amazing, and the rabbits have gone on to truly wonderful homes. I want to start with that. As I've met some lovely people. π
Unfortunately the 5% have not been so wonderful to deal with, and this was always a hobby. β
Now, I work in excess of 32 hours a week, in the emergency services sector, and have a family of 3 boys and horses too - I. E. a very demanding lifestyle.
πFor that reason, I can't always reply quickly.
πI can't be expected to hold rabbits for weeks on end with no deposit, as I've done this many times, and been let down last minute. I'm keeping them when I'm holding them, so it does have a financial aspect.
πThe rabbits are in most part, my 12 year old son's rabbitsπ©βπ¦, and he has the overall say on who stays and who goes. He is a child, so if we hold a rabbit for weeks, with zero deposit (the rabbit we only asked twenty pounds as a token gesture, didn't cover her vaccine, and my son decided her didn't want to let her go) . We weren't even sure if said person would come as there was no urgency to collect.
Unfortunately you wouldn't go to a pet shop and ask them to hold a rabbit for a fortnight on just your word. People do have high expectations, that far surpass what they'd expect from a shop, and it's not really fair on us. A shop isn't emotionally attached, so it cannot work both ways that we are expected to be understanding of your home commitments and hold a rabbit, and then not understand ours if we change our mind. A shop wouldn't change their mind, but they wouldn't hold either. I don't understand double standards. Fair is fair.
πI get messages at ALL times of day and night, and people expect me to reply too. I get WhatsApp messages directly to my phone, as some sites give out my number. Quite often I'm at work, or trying to sleep at home, when these messages come through in abundance asking for videos and pictures, and mostly these people never reply again. I think they're just bored! There's no boundaries with social etiquette on WhatsApp, it would seem.
I get people demand to pick rabbits up there and then, and if they can't, they find another if you don't let them. These people I always ignore, as if its such a whim, then it's not a thought out commitment.
I've rearranged days off and had people not turn up, and just block me, after I have come home especially.
I've had people take rabbits without any payment, and I've been trusting about this. And they've paid at their leisure, without even making sure this is OK. If there's an issue with affordability, that's fine if you discuss as I'll hold until you're happy so long as I know. I don't understand taking something as you want it, but not paying because they do cost me. I worm them, treat them for mites and feed them until they leave. Or if you're unsure, just don't collect until you are sure. I can't offer free trials on rabbits. π€·ββοΈ
I get people ask to bring entire families round my garden and "have a look". I run a closed rabbitry. That's to prevent the risk of rhvd.
It's been a very draining hobby, and with hot weather, rabbits failing to wean (which I discovered is surprisingly common) I have completely lost heart as I lose them. It's been quite harrowing at times.
Getting a pet is a luxury, and a real first world issue, so when people get so irate with me and basically have an adult tantrum that I cannot adhere to their demands, it does make me feel exasperated. I literally work a life and death role in my day job. Its puts it in perspective. So yes, I probably do come across as direct at times. I put the needs of the rabbit first, which can offend some people, but I won't apologise for this.
Now unfortunately my partner accidentally let willow out with Nugget so she's likely due a litter. They will be gorgeous, but it definitely wasn't planned as it will coincide with us moving house. But it will be the last litter. I am hoping we found them before anything happened, but rabbits are true to their reputation and it happens so quickly, and easily!
I have two babies ready to go. The blue buck and the chocolate split and that's it. The rabbit boom is well and truly over, which is why u don't wish to add to a saturated market.
Now I know there are lots of people that are incredibly good, loving families, as they message me a lot, and send me updates. So this is only aimed at a small minority.