Puppy Education with Valerie Vdawg Wilson

Puppy Education with Valerie Vdawg Wilson I am an ethical, kind, force free, DTC certified dog trainer with a special interest in adolescents and puppies.

Yes!
19/09/2025

Yes!

Three little letters form a word with enormous power… WHY.

Whenever I’m observing dogs, or listening to their caregivers describe behaviour, my default thought process is always the same: Why?

Even when I see a video on social media labeled “cute” or “funny,” I pause and wonder: Why would that animal do that? Is it really what it seems?

Take a dog walking happily down the street who occasionally does a little hop. I could normalise it and dismiss it… or I could ask, Why does this dog hop? Yes, maybe they’ve always done it, but dogs aren’t designed to hop. So why is it happening?

Or a dog who refuses kibble but happily eats meat. It’s easy to shrug it off and say, “Oh, they’re just fussy.” Instead, I ask why?

Is it personal preference (something we often deny our dogs)?

As the meat softer, could that point to a dental issue?

Has the dog felt sick after eating kibble and formed an association?

Why, why, why!

It’s easy to read something, watch something, or be told something and accept it at face value. It’s also easy to dismiss the little quirks we see in our own dogs, especially when they seem to just get on with life. “My dog has always done that, they’re fine.” But are they? Why do they sit like that? Why do they climb stairs that way?

Recently, I watched a video of a donkey. At first glance, it looked sweet. But since I don’t know much about donkeys, I asked a friend who does: Why is the donkey doing that? Thankfully, it turned out to be a sign of relaxation. Phew! But I’ve also seen “cute” videos shared where no one asked why, and what was really happening was heartbreaking.

When we share our lives with dogs, I believe we’re signing up to be lifelong students.

Students who should be curious enough to ask one powerful little word:

WHY.

( Pitcure of Derek looking sultry, why, because i was taking his picture and stopped supplying the strokes)

18/09/2025
Why would you want to choke your best friend?
12/08/2025

Why would you want to choke your best friend?

28/07/2025

Breed gives us a blueprint,it offers clues, tendencies, and patterns, but it’s not the full story.

Every dog is an individual, shaped by a mix of genetics, life experience, and personality. To truly meet a dog where they are, we need to look beyond generalisations and listen to them.

Some dogs may show strong breed traits, others barely whisper them. That’s why effective support, whether in training or behaviour support requires us to stay flexible.

It means adapting our toolbox to fit the dog in front of us, not the idea of who they’re "supposed" to be.

Nothing in dog training or behaviour should be assumed. We need to uncover each dog’s unique ingredients in order to find the right recipe. That discovery process is what builds connection, trust, and lasting change.

The only thing I do believe should be a given?

That learning should avoid being taught in a way that is scary or painful. Life already offers enough tough lessons. Our role is to guide, to be a safe space in a world that sometimes isn’t.

Let’s keep asking, adjusting, and listening. Because a dog who feels understood is a dog who can truly thrive.

19/07/2025
Well explained!
17/07/2025

Well explained!

17/07/2025

Totally agree!

13/07/2025

Yet again a balanced trainer has tried to set me a ridiculous challenge (a set up)
Just like this one i had from a local trainer beginning of the year.

"I currently have a particular twitchy dog with me at the moment. I am more than happy for any force free/ positive only trainer to pop along and take him out of my van and walk him through town with lots of other dogs around show me exactly how you'd work him completely force free. No telling him no ect no spacial pressure... it has to be 100% free of any force whatsoever"

Let’s be clear:
That’s not a challenge — it’s a setup.
No ethical trainer, regardless of method, should be throwing a stressed or reactive dog into a situation they’re clearly not ready to handle.

As a force-free trainer, I work with dogs, not against them. I don’t flood them, push them past their thresholds, or risk their welfare to prove a point.
I use science-based methods that build trust, resilience, and long-term behavioural change — and that starts with meeting the dog where they are.

Force-free doesn’t mean passive or permissive. It means strategic, ethical, and kind. It means using smart training instead of shortcuts.

In force-free training, we use thoughtful management, desensitisation, counter-conditioning, and reinforcement-based strategies to build behavioural change gradually. That’s not weakness — that’s ethical, evidence-based practice.

Setting a dog up to fail isnt proof of anything except poor judgement.

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