30/03/2025
If you're a dog trainer, you understand the pressure of having the perfect dog. After all, if we can't train our own dog, how can we possibly train other people's dogs right?
The problem is, no dog is perfect and each and every one is unique. Their environment, genetics, experiences and personality influence the dog they are going to be. No dog is a blank canvas. While training can accomplish amazing things, dogs may still have a predisposition to be anxious or reactive.
Just like people, dogs have both strengths and weaknesses. They may be excellent in the home but reactive on walks. They may be amazing at recall but terrible at lead work. When we observe someone dog training, we can't possibly ascertain if their dog is obedient in all areas of his/her life, and there's a good chance they aren't.
Likewise, when someone observes our dog displaying negative behaviour, onlookers can't possibly see all the good behaviour and training that's been achieved. Dogs that seem absolutely perfect in dog training videos are often victims of aversive training, which effectively suppresses unwanted behaviours, whilst gradually damaging the dogs emotional welfare.
Reward based dog trainers do train their dogs to the best of their ability, however most prioritise happiness over compliance. They believe the relationship comes first and they accept that their dog may have life long struggles. Our dogs adore us, regardless of our many imperfections and failings, therefore they deserve the same.
I'm a dog trainer and my dog is far from perfect, but then so am I. He struggles with some dogs and he hates the Amazon van, but his strengths far outweigh those issues. He won't behave perfectly in public but I'm proud that I allow him agency to be his true self. He's fantastic in so many other ways that most don't get to see, and this was accomplished without intimidating him or removing all choices.
I pick my battles and focus on training that improves his confidence and emotional welfare. The most important thing in our relationship with dogs, is that we value their happiness far above our expectations of them and that any training we do is to improve their life rather than control it.
So, most reward based trainers don't have perfect dogs, but that's because we prioritise their welfare over compliance and we want them to enjoy the freedom of being their wonderful imperfect selves.-Holly Leake, Paw Chores
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