
30/06/2025
My dog’s recall is fine until…it meets another dog!
Dogs have a need and powerful desire to play with their own kind. The potential in opportunity to play is a strong enough drive in itself that endorphins are released and dogs elevate their mood and excitement in anticipation of play.
Play also taps into the predatory instincts of dogs which reveal themselves in chasing, lunging, pouncing, barging, and a host of other play drills that bring total joy to a hunter.
The dogs use each other to satisfy those drives. If play is consensual it can provide much pleasure for both dogs.
As owners we can help with providing outlets for that but it doesn’t come close to most dogs’ preferences to play with their own kind.
That’s why we struggle to get their attention when another dog comes on the scene. If we take steps to try and prevent it all of the time we exert a level of control that is a joy killer to a dog’s desire to play.
If we do that constantly we can find some dogs difficult to control through the frustration of never being able to play and get access to other dogs.
Just as play helps in developing social skills, a lack of it can contribute to crude social skills and high arousal to the point where we avoid it altogether.
Training is definitely easier if opportunities to play and have social meetings are met, but it is a work in process throughout a young dog’s development as the social part of the brain is stacking up experiences while learning.
Their brains are wired for it, some more than others, and there are differences in breed types in how they play and interact with each other.
That is why we struggle more with recalls during a dog’s first two years of life then we do later. The need to satisfy social and play drive is naturally more powerful and this is affected by where we live and how many dogs are around on our daily walks.
Play activity with our dogs is great, it is part of our process of bonding and teaching, but knowing the need to be with their own kind, mix, play, and learn to relax together is vital.
Give them that and as time ticks by and your dog heads towards maturity your bond will become better and training much easier.