03/12/2025
So you think you're not good enough?
Who even decides that statement? It doesn't matter what jacket you wear, what horsebox you have, even what socks you put on for the day...... I was speaking to some lovely clients yesterday about different experiences in life, simply about opinions, mainly other people's, but how they can affect you in many different ways..... we've all heard it before. Be kind! Sadly, most of the time, people are influenced by the negative and not always the positive as and when it suits them.... People would rather pull someone down than pick them up.... how do we know what someone has done to them.... as I've said in the past, there are three sides to a story...... I've seen this on many occasions. Either you're the best thing since sliced bread, or you will be thrown away in the next breath..... because there's another new fad, oh goodness, they're all trying it...... Mainly because they only hear half the story or they only want to hear half the story...... how about instead of you weren't good enough, to something like it didn't feel right on that day, but we will come back on another day after we've addressed a few issues and we can try again. Why is it there are the string pullers in the background, those approvers, or the disaprovers, "the controllers," or is it the influencer? Well, you will have your own thoughts! .....
Whatever stage you are at with your horse is basically the stage you are at.... irrelevant of age, height, breed, or any issue that you faced previously.
Your horse is your horse. They are of value, whatever level they are at! they turn up every day when you arrive at the yard, they do not let you down......
AA Quote - "they may not perform the tasks you ask them, not because they are being difficult..... " but because they simply find the task you're asking them is difficult "
All horses wear the same jacket day in and day out, and they just get on with it. Do they value your opinion! They couldn't care less what level you're at, what jacket you wear or what car you drive or what boots you have on for the day. Its only if you bring something that's of value to them, that you find that connection is there, sometimes you just have to adjust your approach, its the subtle changes that make the bigger changes. You're more than good enough you turned up!! Axx