
05/04/2023
It would be a rare client visit that there isn't some type of mixed messages given....and often.
We often don't realise just how many mixed messages and signals we can actually give.....and how often we give them.
Mixed messages will work against everything you want to achieve.
Let's look at this from your dogs or puppies point of view....
They may be given an old shoe to chew.....so shoes are now ok to chew?
You may tell your dog "down" over and over when you want them out of the car....but they ARE down (lying down).
They are not allowed on the furniture.....but occasionally when a movie is on...they are allowed ?
If you can start to become aware of mixed messages you give.....you may just start to see how many times signals are just unclear.
A muddle of different words by everyone... yet an expectation that they are understood and that your dog is just ignoring what you asked.
Are they ignoring or have we just asked them something that has a totally different meaning to the last time you said those words?
Yet we expect a different result?
Have a talk with the family and work out the SAME words and clear "rules" going forward.
Your dog will thank you and they WILL start to show you more wanted behaviour and less unwanted behaviour simply because they now understand exactly what you are trying to communicate.
Different rules.
Different words.
Different expectations
They will always give you far different results than you may want.