09/12/2023
The Relaxation Story
The second element of the Balance-Relaxation-Impulsion triptych. Clearly these are not stand alone and each depends upon and relates to the other. And, with that caveat we can consider each aspect in isolation to make better sense of it.
Relaxation - probably the most subjective of the 3. It’s primarily understood to be a ‘feeling’, to which we have attached much value. And, confusion and contradiction. One persons ‘relaxation’ is another persons ‘shut down’.
Therefore, it is useful to have some physical markers to provide a more objective ability to recognise what’s going on for a horse. And, to create a broader definition of relaxation. Words such as adaptable, responsive, curious, permeable, interested, connected - may provide more information for us to be guided by.
In the school of Legerete the horses mouth, tongue and jaw are considered to be a useful gauge of how he’s feeling. And a way for a rider to help a horse feel better. Tension in the jaw can tell us a great deal about how a horse is both physically and mentally. Being able to change that situation - by provoking relaxation in the jaw - can also be part of the solution for a worried or braced horse. It can mean a lot to a horse for a person to help them let go of this contraction. You may experience the sensation go the whole way through your horse, releasing tension that you’re sitting on as well as what’s at the end of the reins.
Tension in the jaw and mouth can also be an indication of a loss of balance. If a horse is falling forwards and using the muscles of their thoracic sling and neck to resist this, they cannot have a relaxed jaw. Or a relaxed mind. When we help them with their balance they may show us this has been successful by releasing tension in their jaw. The balance is restored, so they no longer need to scaffold themselves by bracing up their front end.
In addition, the intimate link between a horses tongue, hyoid, TMJ and poll with their pelvis and hindquarters tells a story of relaxation, or lack of. When we constrict a horses front end with tight nosebands, restraining devices, side reins etc then by default we also restrict the hind end. Then, activity in the hind end needs to be reinstated with force and tension. It’s a common sight. A horse cannot relax - be permeable, curious, present - when they’re contained between these two opposing forces.
It’s always interesting to watch a horses tail - is it a relaxed swinging waterfall? A rainbow at the end of spine? Or swishing, clamped, catching between their hind legs, windmilling, held off to one side? When we notice that in our horses it tells a tale of their mind and and should give any thinking rider a reason to pause.
A ‘relaxed’ horse is not worried about learning new things, they feel good about giving things a go. The way they have been educated makes sense to them, respects their true nature and helps them find life as a riding horse easier. They are not expected to deal with harsh aids or mindless drilling so they are interested in the conversation between them and their rider. Movement itself is rewarding and becomes an excellent means of helping a horse to relax. There is nothing more natural to a horse - when we understand what kind of animal they really are.
A relaxed horse is just as able to take guidance from their rider when they’re out on a hack as they are in the confines of the arena. They don’t need to be lead in a chifney or ridden in draw reins. Scrub that, no horse needs that. They are confident that the person on their back has their back; and that whether they’re on the beach, in the forest or cantering a 20 meter circle, they feel sure their human is dependable, adaptable, curious and consistent. They can relax.
There is no doubt that some horses get born with a much more relaxed outlook on life. And for those horses who are wound more tightly, it may be that the very best thing a rider can do is to understand the relationship between relaxation, balance and impulsion.
Photo shows Becky Holden riding her advanced horse Esperito.