08/11/2025
Perfection is the enemy of good 🐴
Besides the obvious pain, environmental and chronic stress issues many horses are dealing with, the way we train is often actually hindering our horse’s progress, despite the effort we’re putting in. In the pursuit of perfection we are actually potentially stifling our horses.
I have bumbled my way through many different training ideologies over the years. Beginning with the most conventional route of fiddling with my horse’s mouth until they gave to the pressure of the bit and became “round” and “soft”. This I would say is still the way most horses are ridden despite all of the evidence as to how harmful compressing the horse’s neck like this is. At the time I was told this was “working through from behind”, you fiddle the head soft then you ride forward. Deeply unpleasant for the horse and definitely damaging.
I eventually stumbled into the “correct” biomechanics territory and thought I had found “the thing”. I spent my time tapping my horses with sticks, obsessing over where their head, neck and poll were and drilling slow lateral work. My horses were definitely moving in healthier ways than they were before but it wasn’t particularly enjoyable for them. I imagine it mostly felt like I was irritating them and they were relieved when the session ended.
I then thought I had found the holy grail in positive reinforcement training and got really into luring with targets. Did the horses enjoy this? I would definitely say so. But the unskilled way I was training was creating a lot of arousal and frustration. I was focusing on manipulating the horse into different postures or over raised poles not realising they perhaps weren’t appropriate at the time. I was a messy clicker trainer who didn’t understand how to keep horses calm around food.
In all of these explorations I was micro-managing the horse’s body and not giving a huge amount of thought to their emotional state or letting them have the autonomy to explore that movement themselves. Do this, move this shoulder here, no not like that, yes only like that, no stop that’s too far, slow down, no not that much, you’re trailing your hind leg, your neck is an inch too low, no don’t stop, keep walking, no now you’re crooked go straight. Sounds pretty stifling.
Now I’m not suggesting we all just sit on our horses and do nothing, but there is so much more out there than the conventional training of micromanaging the horse’s every move. We cannot get truly functional, healthy movement like this. We will always be causing brace and compensation as we cannot possibly feel the horse’s body as well as they can.
So what am I suggesting? I now think along the lines of how can I get the horse to explore this movement or do it willingly, not do it because I micromanaged and irritated them into it? Of course I also question if the ask is appropriate at all for that horse in that moment.
My favourite way to get horses to start exploring movement is through enrichment activities, just allowing the horse to explore, forage and problem solve has such a positive effect on the body and their emotional state. This is a great base to work from.
We can be so much more creative with our training and can make it really fun for our horses too. Some ideas to get you started:
🐴 Enrichment playgrounds - allowing your horse to explore freely and choose what they’d like to investigate, you can set things up to encourage various movement choices
🐴 Hand walks/hacks - hacking in areas you can safely allow your horse to browse, forage, sniff and perhaps even make choices on the route they take or the terrain they cover
🐴 Good positive reinforcement training - positive reinforcement training is a whole skillset of its own and I encourage you to not get carried away with getting your horse to do all of the things because he is suddenly so willing to do so, we want to focus on training calm around food and then thinking about what is appropriate to ask the horse to do for where his body is at right now
When we stop chasing perfection, and stop worrying about what our training looks like to others, there’s a whole other world out there of training that is not only actually fun for both of you, but really helps to improve their bodies too. 🐴
Pictured is a lovely dressage horse enjoying an enrichment playground with his rider on board. They have started incorporating this kind of training and are seeing improvements in his musculature.