18/12/2023
๐It's time for this annual "COPING WITH CHRISTMAS" post๐
Christmas brings its own set of challenges: parties, house guests, gifts, food, games and travel, and pets who are normally relaxed and placid can sometimes struggle at this time. Just as for us, being excited or overtired can lead to an โoverreactionโ so here are some points to consider, where the aim is always to keep stress and excitement reasonably low:
๐ The images below (from Vet Behaviour Team) show some of the stress signals in dogs which may indicate your dog needs a break - note that "overarousal" (apparent hyperactivity) is an indicator that your dog is stressed.
Cats are often more subtle in their signalling, but are also good at avoiding problems. If your cat seems restless or unsettled she may be worried - make sure she has escape routes and hiding places, and if she is making herself scarce, let her hide away!
๐ Make sure your pet has a secure, quiet place to go to for down-time away from the activity: even if they are normally very friendly they may find all the excitement a bit too much! Give them something to do there (a chew toy or puzzle feeder) so they don't feel left out (chances are they will take the opportunity for a nap!).
๐ Separate them from very exciting times such as meals, gift unwrapping and party games โ these are the times when pets are most likely to be confused by human behaviour, or become over excited. If games are being played, avoid situations where your dog or cat might be trodden on, tripped over or tempted to chase or nip moving targets! Avoid subjecting pets to noisy or scary toys, masks, party poppers etc., and if you have a โchewerโ, avoid stress all round by not involving them in gift unwrapping!
๐ When food is involved there may be a risk of stealing and guarding behaviour, and bites often happen when someone tries to take something away from a dog, so it can be best to keep pets out of the kitchen / dining room while food is around. Try to feed your pets normally (from a bowl, at the normal sort of time) and if they are having some extra treats that might be worth guarding, give them privacy from people and other pets while they are eating.
๐ If you are staying away from home with your pet, take some "security blankets" with you: their normal bed or crate, favourite toy, a chew for a dog to help him relax, so they have some familiarity around them.
๐ If you are having visitors or parties, consider keeping your dog or cat out of the way for the duration of the party, especially if they are unused to large groups of people. A quiet bedroom might do, or consider sending them to a pet sitter.
๐ Always supervise dogs with children, and keep an eye out for signs of stress in your pet, and take steps to help them escape when they need space.
๐ If you have a shy dog or cat, try to minimise stress by asking your visitors not to interact with them, especially if your pet is keeping their distance.
๐ If you have a pet who can be aggressive towards people, take stringent measures to keep your visitors, particularly children, safe by using baby gates / pens / crates and make sure everyone knows the rules about leaving the pet alone โ donโt allow any teasing!
๐ If a dog poses a bite risk to people or other dogs, a muzzle should be used if there is any chance of contact. However, it is far better for your dog if you can avoid putting him into situations where a bite might be provoked. If you are going to use a muzzle, you should first work on introducing it positively to your dog so it isn't an added cause of stress. Here's some more info including a great video showing how to do this: https://www.bluecross.org.uk/advice/dog/behaviour-and-training/dogs-and-muzzle-training
๐ Much as with a human Christmas ๐ tensions between your pets can rise and conflict can occur, perhaps over resources such as food or a new toy, or just because they become sick of the sight of each other and need some time to themselves now and then! Itโs a good idea to offer regular breaks and down-time away from other pets, especially if they donโt normally live together, and to separate them for feeding and when they have new toys that they might not wish to share.
If your dog or cat already has some anxiety or reacts strongly to certain triggers, you should โ as ever โ try to avoid exposure to these triggers as best you can while you are waiting for behavioural help from a professional. This may mean:
โข not leaving them if they are anxious when alone
โข avoiding exposure to visitors to your home if they are afraid of new people (minimise visitors or have a plan in place for keeping pets and people separate)
โข avoiding triggers outside the home (dogs, people, traffic... whatever upsets your dog) by walking at quiet times, avoiding narrow paths so you can move to distance, or even taking a break from walks altogether and just playing lots of active and "brainy" games at home for a few days.
I hope these recommendations and points are helpful, and that you and your dogs and cats can all have a very happy and stress-free Christmas!