30/08/2024
However, there’s more to this . Not in terms of where my ethics lie. That’s very clear. I’m 100% force free and believe that there is no need for methods which cause dogs fear, pain or purposeful discomfort.
However, as a school teacher, I feel that there is a calling for us, the force free advocates, to do more. For us to listen. To empathise. To educate.
Because if we only ever stay routed in the ‘I’m
Force free I won’t speak to anyone that uses aversive methods’ camp, we never help the transformation that could happen within the dog world.
We can apply empathy, kindness and compassion to dogs.
Then why, when it comes to humans can we not do the same?
Don’t get me wrong, the person on the other end needs to be just as open to this, to listen and to understand.
But if we only ever stay in the same 2 camps, we never progress.
And the dogs deserve for us to all progress. To be better. And to do better.
Now before you jump on me, this doesn’t mean I’m going to be best friends with an aversive trainer, or train alongside them or start recommending them.
But what it does mean is that I’m open to helping the dog training world to grow and to progress into something better. Because the dogs of the world deserve something better.
And ultimately, just because there are 4 quadrants doesn’t mean we should use all 4. I (and all teachers), would never dream of using them to teach children in a classroom, yet it seems okay for animals. Despite there being massive similarities between children and dogs (but that’s a conversation for another time).
So for those that are a little intrigued about the force free world, welcome that. Strike up that conversation, share how you train, why and what it can do. Be the teacher. But do it with empathy. Understand where they are, because when you begin at their starting point, you have more chance of them leaning into growth.
And if they’re not open, then move on. Don’t waste your energy getting into an arguement which will just show you in a bad light. Move on, do your thing, but be ready to listen to those that are interested in why we do what we do. Because they’re the ones that can held change the outlook of the dog world.