Jenni Nellist - Equine Behaviour

Jenni Nellist - Equine Behaviour Equine Behaviour and Training My 6 Stage Process to Helping You:

1. You can reach me via my contact form, text or WhatsApp message, email, or a phone call.

Contact me to arrange a free, no-obligation 20 minute phone call where we discuss how I can best help you and your horse. If you need to leave a message I will get back to you as soon as I can.​

​My aim for any behavioural case is to improve the quality of life for both horse and owner – through changing behaviour and promoting safety and welfare for horses and humans. This means I'll be helping

you to:

Create and/or improve horse friendly management

Use evidence-based training methods that adhere to the LIMA principle: Least Invasive, Minimally Aversive

I’ll also help you to read and respond to your horse’s body language to communicate better. By promoting you and your horse’s confidence through individually tailored least stress management, clear communication and reward-based training, I will help you avoid causing or increasing stress and fear. Types of cases typically seen:

Handling issues: catching, leading, barging, pulling away, failure to cooperate with clipping, farriery and veterinary procedures. Problems with loading and travelling, fearful or dangerous behaviour at shows and events. Aggressive behaviour to people and/or other horses – biting and kicking. Stress related behaviour, anxious and fearful horses, separation anxiety, and stable vices such as cribbing and weaving/box walking. Ridden problems such as napping, bucking, rearing, bolting, nervous and spooky behaviour. Weaning and socialising issues in foals and young horses. Problems with early training. I also specialise in rescue horses and the problems that these horses can present, such as the results of severe trauma.


2. Get your horse, pony, donkey or mule checked by your vet (if you haven't already done this of course!). We can't train pain and illness and pain affect our dog's emotional lives with consequence for their behaviour. In some cases very stressed and anxious dogs benefit from medication that only your vet can prescribe. Your vet will need to refer you and your dog to me and forward their medical history via the vet referral form. In may cases the vets I work with regularly will have already done this by the time we first speak.


3. Give me some extra detail on your equine's behaviour. Write down in as much detail as you can, an account of all the issues you are having and send it to me via email. You can also send me videos of your equine on WhatsApp (07974 569407), but make sure you don't put you or your equine in harms' way with your filming. I'll believe you if he or she bites or puts you on the floor, you don't need to put you or your horse at risk to show me this.


4. We meet! This will either be in person (subject to Covid 19 regulations) or virtually in a Zoom meeting. Zoom meetings are really useful for getting the ball rolling for me to take your equine's case history, understand how and why they feel, think and behave, and get you started with the behaviour plan. In simpler cases the first meeting takes an hour, where the case is more complex we will spend up to two hours making sure that we leave no stone unturned and that all the important details are understood and accounted for.


5. You receive your behaviour report, action plan and additional informational material, along with your first 4 weeks of FREE WhatsApp and/or email support so we can continuously monitor progress and keep you moving forward. You can purchase additional Whats App and email support for £5.00 per month afterwards if you feel you will need the continued benefit of it.


6. We meet again, online or in person to follow-up on progress and to continue to tailor your plan to make sure it works at its absolute best for you. Like the follow-up on WhatsApp and email, the follow-up appointments can be continued for as long as you need them. In cases which can take some time and carefully staged behaviour modification to help, these follow-up appointments often prove invaluable. Examples are: aggressive behaviour, separation-related behaviours including napping, loading issues, and helping equines over their fears and phobias such as feral ponies, those with fear of handling, being caught and farrier/veterinary treatment. Treatment Plans

Behavioural Consultations

I visit horse and owner (and anyone else involved in the care&/training of the horse who would like to be present) and formalise my assessment of the problem behaviour; by working up as full and accurate a diagnosis of the specific problem as possible. I want to make sure I properly understand the horse’s motivation, predispositions and factors that initiated and maintain the current problem. This way I can tailor the most appropriate and effective behaviour modification plan with you. This may involve management changes and/or specific remedial training depending on the case. Private Training
Some problem behaviours are very easy to diagnose and require a more training-oriented approach. These cases become apparent during the initial assessment phone call. In these circumstances the case history is easily taken over the phone during that initial assessment call, and the first remedial training visit follows with further training visits as needed, as well as access to the other forms of follow-up support described above. Horses and ponies under the age of three years
It's not unusual for owners of young horses to experience problems related to the horse's age, often the result of foalhood and emotional and behavioural development through to puberty and on to maturity. Such problems may be related to unwanted attention seeking and playful behaviour from foals, and nervous or even aggressive or pushy behaviour from yearlings through to three-year-olds. Or you may wish to consult me about best practices surrounding weaning or training and socialising your youngster. Provided there aren't above average complexities to such cases, most owners and their young horses benefit from a specifically designed young horse consultations with the above follow-up services as necessary. The young horse consultation usually takes around 2 hours and covers the behavioural and emotional development of your youngster, as well as bespoke management advice to help them grow up emotionally well balanced and simple training in important life skills as per individual requirements. https://www.jenninellist.co.uk/price-list

I offer behaviour consultations and horse training services across South, West and Mid Wales and the Border Counties.

A Defining Moment for Me A while back I was invited to share my knowledge and experience of horse behaviour in an applie...
13/11/2025

A Defining Moment for Me

A while back I was invited to share my knowledge and experience of horse behaviour in an applied setting - the equine veterinary hospital.

I was invited by The Veterinary Nurse journal to write on behaviour first aid for equine vet nurses.

It was important to me to lean into the times when I have helped my clients with carrying out veterinary treatment requested by their vets on their worried and unwilling horses and ponies.

One cremello section A mare sprung to mind as I put pen to paper. She had some nasty skin disease over her back and a steroid cream was to be applied. She did not want to be a party to this, her skin was sore. But it needed to be done and once she learned the next few steps, she found the cream quite soothing.

My first step was to show her that it could be over quickly and reliably; breaking the task down to the smallest tolerable step, repeated the same way a few times and always followed by some food.

Testing willingness to eat is always a good measure of how horses are feeling. Willing to eat usually means the procedure, or at least a small repeated part of it by way of initiating a reintroduction, is not so bad, and soon most horses, this pony included, start to orientate to me and gently touch me when I offer my hand as if to say, "do it again".

Then the process can be scaled up a little, 3 strokes instead of 1. Enough to challenge, and still a reliable number to help the pony learn when I will stop, as that is still very important, and not off putting as far as motivation to eat is concerned. Bit by bit, the ointment was applied, the pony stayed calm and came to enjoy the attention.

Sharing the power of these small, reliable steps with vet nurses was a great moment for me. The more vet nurses and indeed vets, can learn to apply these simple steps themselves, the more they can help horses. Which is of course their life work and mission.

I am sat on my backside in the mist on the Black Mountain, and I am not really sure where I am but I am not giving up. B...
02/11/2025

I am sat on my backside in the mist on the Black Mountain, and I am not really sure where I am but I am not giving up.

But I am crying and trying to stop crying so no one notices.
It's July 2024 and I am competing in my first ever Croeso. It's an orienteering event in Wales that comes round every 4 years, and I have literally thrown myself in the deep end on navigational difficulty. And the thick mountain mist has lingered all day.

To be fair, I had done well to get to where I now was, about two thirds of my way round. And I had been orbiting my next control for about 20 minutes, but not found it. What I didn't know while I was sat down, was that it was only one short dressage arena away. In a hole in the ground.

When my horse people are stuck I remind them to "stick at it squirrel".

Not just to be cute, even though it is light hearted.

Stick at it Squirrel was a character used during my son's primary school education to remind children to keep going, even when things are hard.

Remembering these values as I sat on my sorry backside in the swirling mist, I remembered the basics: align map with compass, match map to landscape, then find the control.

Doing anything well is about doing the basics well, just like with horses. So when I am cheering my horse people to keep going. I am also sharing with them the basics that will help them.

Calm horse react less and recover more quickly, so take your time and watch what your horse is saying.

If it’s falling apart, break down the ask into little bits and work on each until they feel natural and consistent.

Horses like clear and reliable signals and achievable outcomes.

This helps my people become more “horse”. And it helps them push through and solve their problems even when I am not there. Which is all we can ever strive to be when we bring horses into our lives.

A leap of faith.My first ever horse welfare job as a riding groom, fresh out of university terrified me! The job descrip...
21/10/2025

A leap of faith.

My first ever horse welfare job as a riding groom, fresh out of university terrified me! The job description was to work with problem horses. I had some experience: Pony Club eventing, backing a few young ponies, and dressage lessons.

The equine mind was my new passion, Uni studies confirming the mind is where welfare is experienced. That horse behaviour is both adaptation to being a social herbivore of grassy places, and expression.

It was 1999 and I was entering my Five Freedoms era, and was as a groom with a conscience.

While I waited my Cotswold relocation, I read "The Impossible Horse". The heroine, a little younger than me, lived near Oxford and was experimenting with breaking and schooling. I could relate.

The fear was an unsettling undercurrent within me about failing horse society expectation of being able to “sort horses out”. I wasn't a brave rider, pushing horses through things didn’t feel good. I don’t do that now, and that is thanks to my Blue Cross era.

My boss was progressive. No one was expected to battle horses but to work with them. My attitude towards working naturally with horses, interview tweed, and riding on a long rein got me the job. My Uni years dressage focused on feeling with the horse to influence them.

I nearly didn't pass my probation, leaping from academic to practical left me lacking in efficiency! Not easy with undiagnosed ADHD tripping me up. Double trips for forgotten hoof picks was not my friend.

I kept the faith, worked the horsemanship program assigned, felt where it didn't align and bravely took myself into R+ and part time post graduate study.

Pilgrim was my standout horse. He was very scared. I broke down his training into small, clear steps, kept the faith and helped him. He went from me trailing after him about the field waiting for him to stop to him following me while he become comfortable with being haltered. I worked with the most wonderful farrier, helping Pilgrim find that hoof care could be safe. He had previously been hobbled and cast for this, so it was a big step forward for him.

I learned that it was possible to show a horse there was a choice that can be enjoyed.

Shwmae! Dw i'n Jenni. On this Shwmae day that's about as far as my Welsh is going. Apart from "Dych i'n eisiau bisgedi c...
14/10/2025

Shwmae! Dw i'n Jenni. On this Shwmae day that's about as far as my Welsh is going. Apart from "Dych i'n eisiau bisgedi ci?" For the dog! He comes running for those words as he loves a biscuit and I tend to speak more Welsh with him as no judgement comes from a dog (unless you eat biscuits without sharing).

For my conservation ponies I might say "Bore da cefyllau bach" or "dych i'n mwynhau moron?". Dave does enjoy (mwynhau) a carrot (moron).

Learning a new skill, like trying to speak some Welsh, can be a challenge, not least the fear of judgement while you learn. I am here to help horse people learn to speak horse and use positive reinforcement as horses do indeed enjoy carrots and other treats. They can be very useful for your horse's learning and development when deployed responsibly. Think of me as your non-judgey support team helping you advocate for your horse and your use of positive reinforcement techniques.

05/10/2025

Shhh! Ponies sleeping!

One cool sleep fact, horses lie down to sleep more on a deep bed (15cm) compared to a thinner 5cm bed. Probably because it's warmer and drier.

My new, short blog has some more sleep facts with links to my free download guide to "Your Horse's Sleep" and my latest YouTube video on the same. These resources go more in-depth on facilitating horse sleep and cover sleep deprivation too.

What helps your horse sleep comfortably?

https://www.jenninellist.co.uk/post/is-your-horse-sleeping-comfortably

What is R+ / Positive Reinforcement / Clicker training for horses?The most basic definition is that positive reinforceme...
29/09/2025

What is R+ / Positive Reinforcement / Clicker training for horses?

The most basic definition is that positive reinforcement, adding something the horse would like, as a direct consequence of a behaviour, causes that behaviour to happen again more often.

It's something that can be levered in horse training to motivate the horse to repeat desirable behaviours.

Here's an example, I gave Penny some of her favourite food, pony cubes, when she was walking along with her nose and neck moving forward out in front of her while I was riding. I did this from time to time when she was already doing it, and when she shifted towards this way of walking after being spooked. I didn't otherwise do anything to make her do it, just stayed calm and in tune with her in the saddle, working on my own position and movement with her. She relaxed more under saddle (there had been tension problems owing to an old neck injury of hers), and she performed this behaviour more often (walking forward, head and neck forward (not short and tense).

I helped her by riding in places that weren't too challenging for her, where she was likely to move this way, then as we both gained confidence in this manner, and reduced fear of painful incidents: throwing her head up in fear often, and holding it there instead of relaxing would cause painful muscle spasm. I even got off and walked if we accidentally overstepped things, or something unexpected and out of our control happened. Working like this helped me to reach a dream I never through would happen after her injury, getting to ride to the top of Cefn Bryn and be out for over an hour doing so.

It's in doing this that I have learned there is more than just the mechanics of the behaviour and its outcome: do this and you will get that. Knowing that adding a desirable thing, in this case pony cubes, to a behaviour, makes that behaviour happen more is one thing.

The other thing is being able to become an observer and a facilitator rather than a dictator or an enforcer, while still having a safe horse. This is because, as long as you are prepared to take an observant, nurturing role, and trust in the process, you will find that you create a safer space for your horse. This leads to a better feeling for both of you. That's why I used positive reinforcement when the behaviour happened, and why I didn't set up any cue to prompt it. That's also why I kept to safe routes to begin with, then got bolder as we felt safer.

This reinforces the human part of the equation for becoming an observer and facilitator rather than being someone who makes someone else, the horse, do things. After all, we could try to make the horse do things that are against their will, even for food - that's when using food really is bribery! And with the motivational conflict comes fall out.

By observing and supporting a calmer, safer space for the horse my experiences show that it can create a space to help us humans become more grounded, and to have positive experiences, for things to go right. Provided there is understand what you are doing and how the horse is feeling. Which does tend to come along with learning about what associative learning is and learning how to apply it sensitively.

If you are positive reinforcement curious, or even positive reinforcement established and would appreciate coaching to help you with your positive reinforcementship horsemanship skills I have space for new clients:

Monday route: West Gower to Swansea and NPT
Friday route: West Gower towards Llanelli & Carmarthen

Note! I notice that Penny's bitless was too low, her head gear was later changed up to a better fit before her eventual retirement. Sadly Penny is no longer with us after a colic crisis in December 2024.

Remembered my helmet today! It's important to wear one when handling on the ground. Norf gave my head a good old wobble ...
03/09/2025

Remembered my helmet today!

It's important to wear one when handling on the ground. Norf gave my head a good old wobble to remind me!

While of course I also make sure I try to set my horses up for success to avoid my head (or now, my helmet) getting bashed, things can happen very quickly.

Horses are adapted to spot danger and move away quickly. AND they are adapted to move quickly, in the same direction, and without collision 💥 in response to each other.

Humans are not... That's why we get trampled by horses, and even on some tragic occasions, by other people.

Helmets help for when we fall off and for when we just don't get out of the way when we are on the ground.

25/08/2025

Horses may need to be stabled for a number of reasons. This More Horse Monday we wanted to highlight one of our handouts that will help make this period easier for you and your horse

https://bit.ly/2Kq0oZm

Day in my life!This morning's session was a one-to-one horsemanship coaching session. I help horse folk from all backgro...
11/08/2025

Day in my life!

This morning's session was a one-to-one horsemanship coaching session. I help horse folk from all backgrounds and experience levels with deeper insight into the horse's emotional experience, learning ability, and interaction with us.

Today took a lean in the natural horsemanship direction where we looked at the nuances around the one-rein stop and where checking in with the horse's ability to offer lateral flexion and move the hind quarters over can be an indication of how safe the horse feels in the environment - if a horse feels safe and calm they can do this with relative ease. And how forcing the same manoeuvre isn't something that can make the horse feel safe, it's our job to manage the horse's exposure to the environment in a way that builds confidence and skill without overwhelm.

We also explored how shoulders in can help to aid relaxation in horses and a bunch of other things such as building moving forwards into a sequence that also involves resting and eating at a designated spot to reduce the motivation for flight and change the focus of attention towards reaching a desirable location linked to pleasant experience.

This afternoon I spent time with my Fellowship of Animal Behaviour Clinicians mentee group where we explored case history taking and how building a case formulation not only helps to understand the horse in light of a behavioural complaint presented by the horse's human connection, but also opens up exploration of the horse's life experience and psychological make up more completely. This then informs how to take forward further support. Which we will explore for this case study in next month's group session.

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