Amanda Childs Pet Bereavement Counsellor

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How lovely is this Olympics story. After her winning swim in the River Seine, Van Rouwendaal pointed to and kissed a tat...
09/08/2024

How lovely is this Olympics story.

After her winning swim in the River Seine, Van Rouwendaal pointed to and kissed a tattoo of her late dog Rio's paw print on her wrist.

She explained that after she lost Rio she didn't care about swimming for three weeks but then decided to do the swim for him ... and she did ... she won!

What a wonderful way for her to commemorate her special boy. ❤️

More on this story here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/olympics/articles/c20lmypk13lo.amp

Some tips and advice on the healing process following the loss of a companion animal.
09/08/2024

Some tips and advice on the healing process following the loss of a companion animal.

Below I have listed 10 steps in the healing process (in no particular order), I hope these help....

I've worked with people who have lost both elderly pets and young pets plus those aged in between and I can confirm that...
25/07/2024

I've worked with people who have lost both elderly pets and young pets plus those aged in between and I can confirm that age is not a factor when it comes to determining the severity of grief that someone may feel.

This is a really informative blog that explores the differences between losing an elderly pet and losing a younger pet.

What is the difference between 12 weeks and 12 years other than time?  So much and so little, is the loss of a pet who is older any less significant than one that has only been in the family for 3 months?

"Canine euthanasia is more than just a medical procedure; it's a heart-wrenching decision many dog guardians face. It's ...
10/07/2024

"Canine euthanasia is more than just a medical procedure; it's a heart-wrenching decision many dog guardians face. It's about choosing to say goodbye to a beloved canine companion, not out of desire, but out of compassion and necessity. This post dives into the ethical maze surrounding this choice, looking at the reasons, the emotions, and the tough questions it brings up."

If you are faced with this tough decision, please do get in touch. I can help you understand it more and talk you through the process. Being prepared, can really help.

Over Christmas we lost our beloved Yorkie, Holly. We made the choice to end her life knowing that she was in fact coming to the end anyway. Holly was a lovely little dog. She came out of a puppy farm at 6 and became a puppy. She went from broken to full of life. In true Yorkie, style, Holly thought....

A great article in today's Daily Mail featuring Dawn Murray, founder member of the Association of Pet Bereavement Counse...
08/07/2024

A great article in today's Daily Mail featuring Dawn Murray, founder member of the Association of Pet Bereavement Counsellors of which I am an Accredited Member of.

24/06/2024

💔 𝗠𝗮𝗶𝘀𝘆

Just over 6 years ago, this beautiful girl came into my life. She came on her first dog walk with me on 12 March 2018 and has been a very special member of the Happy Buddies walkies team ever since.

Maisy has such a sweet soul, a beautiful character and loves treats but her favourite walks involve water. She is so excited to see me when I arrive to pick her up and drags me down the garden path to my van - I can never get the van door open quick enough for her! After her walks she falls asleep the whole way home and I have to give her a gentle tickle to wake her up when it's time to get out the van to go home. Over the years, Maisy has become my most elderly lady and whilst her pace has slowed she still musters up as much excitement as she can when she sees me and her other furry friends.

Today though, I had the devastating phone call from her lovely mum explaining that Maisy has been very poorly the last few days and I'm heartbroken to say that my beautiful, kind, special water baby has sadly passed away with her family at her side.

It was only a few months ago that her Tuesday walk buddy Bullet, also passed away and I'm comforted to think that Bullet's friendly face will be there to welcome her over rainbow bridge and they can run free of pain together.

Maisy I'll miss you so much and I know that your Tuesday walk friends Dexter, Hector, Obi and of course my Buddy and Fudge will miss you massively too.

This post is in memory of Maisy who passed away at her vets with her family beside her.

Rest in peace beautiful lady Maisy and know you were loved so so much. 🌈💔

Great news to hear that the Pet Abduction Bill was successfully passed through the House of Lords and received the Royal...
28/05/2024

Great news to hear that the Pet Abduction Bill was successfully passed through the House of Lords and received the Royal Assent last week and will become law from August.

It will mean that pet theft will become a criminal offence at last and anyone found guilty of stealing a pet in England or Northern Ireland will face up to five years in prison, a fine, or both.

More details in below link.

On Friday 24 May the Pet Abduction Bill, which was introduced by Anna Firth MP, was successfully pushed through the House of Lords.

Have you lost a pet and now wondering if it's the right time to introduce another? It can be a tough decision and one th...
25/05/2024

Have you lost a pet and now wondering if it's the right time to introduce another? It can be a tough decision and one that needs to be thought out.

This article may help.

When a pet dies, we are left with a hole in our hearts and homes.

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26/04/2024

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Saying goodbye to a beloved pet is never easy, especially when faced with the tough decision of euthanasia. It's completely normal to feel a mix of emotions, like guilt or confusion. Our thoughts go out to anyone struggling with this heartbreaking choice right now. If you're struggling with the grief of losing your pet, we have some wonderful pet bereavement counsellors on our website. Don't hesitate to reach out for support.

https://www.dignitypetcrem.co.uk/pet-bereavement-support/pet-bereavement-counselling/

🐶 𝗡𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗟𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗗𝗼𝗴 𝗔𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗗𝗮𝘆 🐶Today is National Lost Dog Awareness Day and although this day was created in America...
23/04/2024

🐶 𝗡𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗟𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗗𝗼𝗴 𝗔𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗗𝗮𝘆 🐶

Today is National Lost Dog Awareness Day and although this day was created in America by Lost Dogs of America, it's well worth highlighting this day in the UK to help raise awareness about lost dogs here too and share information about what we can all do to help reunite them with their families.

Losing a pet is an unbearable thought yet, sadly, it does happen. There are things you can do to ensure a greater chance of a quick reunion should this happen though:

𝙈𝙞𝙘𝙧𝙤𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙥 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝘿𝙤𝙜
It is compulsory in the UK to microchip your dog. An up-to-date microchip can help facilitate a quick reunion. Make sure your dog is microchipped and that you keep your contact details up-to-date, especially if you move house or change your telephone number.

𝙈𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙎𝙪𝙧𝙚 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝘿𝙤𝙜 𝙃𝙖𝙨 𝘼𝙣 𝙄𝘿 𝙏𝙖𝙜
This is a legal requirement when your dog is in a public place. Your name and address must be on it and we'd also advise a mobile number is also included.

𝙏𝙚𝙖𝙘𝙝 𝘼 𝙍𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙗𝙡𝙚 𝙍𝙚𝙘𝙖𝙡𝙡
Teach your dog a reliable recall for when you are out walking and never let them off the lead if you are unsure whether they will come back to you. If in doubt, use a long line or training lead, especially if you are in an unfamiliar area where your dog may get lost more easily.

𝙈𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙎𝙪𝙧𝙚 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙃𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙋𝙡𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙮 𝙊𝙛 𝙍𝙚𝙘𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙋𝙝𝙤𝙩𝙤𝙨
Take clear photographs of your dog from various angles, and update them regularly. Make a note of any distinguishing features.

Take lots of photographs of yourself with your dog to help you prove ownership if needed.

𝘾𝙖𝙧𝙚𝙛𝙪𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝘾𝙤𝙣𝙨𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙧 𝘾𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙋𝙧𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙨
Take care when choosing someone to care for your dog if you are going away or need a dog walker whilst you are at work. Use a reputable company and choose someone who has qualifications and experience. Check references and licences (where appropriate) for people who provide dog walking, day care or holiday services.

𝘾𝙝𝙚𝙘𝙠 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙂𝙖𝙧𝙙𝙚𝙣 𝙄𝙨 𝙀𝙣𝙘𝙡𝙤𝙨𝙚𝙙
Make sure your garden is safe, secure and fully enclosed.

🔎 𝗜𝗳 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗙𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝗔 𝗟𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗗𝗼𝗴 🔎

If you find a lost dog and are able to encourage them towards you and keep them safe, take them to a local vet for their microchip to be scanned.

If you are unable to capture them, take pictures as best as you can and report your sighting to the local Dog Warden then share information about them on social media and local lost dog groups.

😢 𝗜𝗳 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗗𝗼𝗴 𝗛𝗮𝘀 𝗚𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗠𝗶𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 😢

𝙎𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙘𝙝 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝘼𝙧𝙚𝙖
Start with the immediate area where your dog was last seen. Call your dog’s name and some tasty treats and listen for barking, whining or any movement. Get friends and family to help with the search.

𝘼𝙡𝙚𝙧𝙩 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙉𝙚𝙞𝙜𝙝𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨
Let your neighbours know that your dog is missing and ask them to keep an eye out. If they went missing locally, some dogs may find their own way home.

𝘾𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙚 𝙋𝙤𝙨𝙩𝙚𝙧𝙨
Create and display posters with a clear photo of your dog, their name and your contact details. Put these in high-traffic areas around your neighbourhood or where your dog went missing and in local parks, vets and pet shops etc.

𝘾𝙤𝙣𝙩𝙖𝙘𝙩 𝙇𝙤𝙘𝙖𝙡 𝙑𝙚𝙩𝙨, 𝙍𝙚𝙨𝙘𝙪𝙚𝙨 𝘼𝙣𝙙 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝘿𝙤𝙜 𝙒𝙖𝙧𝙙𝙚𝙣
Call all local vets, the dog warden and RSPCA branches and other animal welfare organisations to see if your dog has been handed in. Send them posters of your dog to display.

𝙍𝙚𝙜𝙞𝙨𝙩𝙚𝙧 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝘿𝙤𝙜
Register them with a company such as PetsReunited, DogLost.co.uk or the National Pets Register..

𝙐𝙩𝙞𝙡𝙞𝙨𝙚 𝙎𝙤𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙡 𝙈𝙚𝙙𝙞𝙖
Social media can be a quick and effective platform to spread the word that your dog is missing. Include photos and information on how people can contact you with any sightings etc.

𝙏𝙖𝙡𝙠 𝙏𝙤 𝙋𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚
Visit places where dog walkers go such as local parks and public places and talk to people. Ask them to keep an eye open for your dog.

𝘾𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙈𝙞𝙘𝙧𝙤𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙥 𝘾𝙤𝙢𝙥𝙖𝙣𝙮
This is so they can flag your dog as missing. It will also alert them to anyone trying to re-register the same microchip number.

𝙊𝙛𝙛𝙚𝙧 𝘼 𝙍𝙚𝙬𝙖𝙧𝙙
Offering a reward for the safe return of your dog can help encourage people to join in the search and report sightings. It's worth checking your pet insurance policy too as some cover the cost of a reward.

𝘾𝙤𝙣𝙩𝙖𝙘𝙩 𝘿𝙧𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝘾𝙤𝙢𝙥𝙖𝙣𝙞𝙚𝙨
Drone companies such as Drone To Home and pet trackers who specialise in finding lost dogs are well worth considering.

Help to spread awareness of National Lost Dog Awareness Day by sharing this post. The more we can do to reduce the risk of our dogs going missing and increase the chances of reunions for those that are missing the better!

©️ Amanda Childs
Happy Buddies Dog Training, Dog Walking and Pet Care Services and Puppy School
Amanda Childs Pet Bereavement Counsellor

"Children suffering from pet bereavement will not necessarily grieve in the same way as adults. They may not be adept at...
19/04/2024

"Children suffering from pet bereavement will not necessarily grieve in the same way as adults. They may not be adept at expressing their feelings verbally in the way an adult can, meaning that understanding how a child may react is important in supporting them through their grief. Some children can be very resilient and cope far better than we give them credit for, while others are deeply affected by death."

The above extract is taken from the blog below by Dawn Murray. To read the full article on children and pet loss, click on the link within the post below.

This weeks featured blog is written by association founder member, Dawn Murray, who looks at the important and often complicated aspects of Children and Pet loss...

https://apbcounsellors.co.uk/blog/f/children-pet-loss

I'm very proud to announce that I've been accepted as an Accredited Member of the Association of Pet Bereavement Counsel...
20/03/2024

I'm very proud to announce that I've been accepted as an Accredited Member of the Association of Pet Bereavement Counsellors.

This is a network dedicated to providing support, education, and collaboration for professionals in the field of pet bereavement counselling. Members are committed to promoting the highest standards of care and professionalism in the field of pet bereavement counselling.

To find out more, please visit https://apbcounsellors.co.uk/

Amanda Childs Pet Bereavement Counsellor

I'm very proud to announce that I've been accepted as an Accredited Member of the Association of Pet Bereavement Counsel...
20/03/2024

I'm very proud to announce that I've been accepted as an Accredited Member of the Association of Pet Bereavement Counsellors.

This is a network dedicated to providing support, education, and collaboration for professionals in the field of pet bereavement counselling. Members are committed to promoting the highest standards of care and professionalism in the field of pet bereavement counselling.

To find out more, please visit https://apbcounsellors.co.uk/

Amanda Childs Pet Bereavement Counsellor

"Introducing the Association of Pet Bereavement Counsellors 🐾

We are thrilled to announce the launch of our compassionate and dedicated association, aimed at providing support and healing to those who have experienced the loss of a beloved animal companion.
Our team of trained pet bereavement counsellors are here to lend a listening ear, offer guidance, and help you navigate through the complex emotions that come with grieving the loss of a beloved pet.
We understand the deep bond you shared and the impact their presence had on your life.

At the Association of Pet Bereavement Counsellors, we believe that no one should have to face pet loss alone. We are here to provide a safe space for you to express your feelings, find solace, and receive the support you need during this difficult time. Join us on this journey of healing and remember, you are not alone.

Together, we can honour the memory of our cherished pets and find comfort in the shared experience of pet bereavement.

📞 Reach out to us today and let us be your guiding light on the path to healing.

"

Thank you for your kind review Lauren. It was lovely to hear all about Max and how special he was. I'm glad I could help...
13/03/2024

Thank you for your kind review Lauren. It was lovely to hear all about Max and how special he was. I'm glad I could help you.

𝗜𝗻 𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗼𝗿𝘆 𝗼𝗳 𝗔𝗝.𝗔 𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝗯𝗼𝘆.Last night I spoke to AJ's mum after she emailed me to tell me that her special boy h...
06/02/2024

𝗜𝗻 𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗼𝗿𝘆 𝗼𝗳 𝗔𝗝.
𝗔 𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝗯𝗼𝘆.

Last night I spoke to AJ's mum after she emailed me to tell me that her special boy had passed away after suddenly developing meningitis in both his spine and brain 💔.

I first met AJ when he arrived at Hoopers and oh my goodness what a character! He LOVED his Hoopers and made us laugh as he very often decided his own route around the obstacle course was far better than my route!

His mum's tribute to AJ:

"He may have been small in stature, but he was big in every other way. He was affectionate, loyal, funny, mischievous, exasperating, vocal, fiercely independent, determined, very cheeky and as single minded as his namesake!

He came into our lives at seven weeks old and instantly turned us from a couple into a family. He always made his presence known and was usually front and centre of whatever was happening, whether it actually involved him or not! As we often said “Nobody puts AJ in the corner“.

His life has been cruelly cut short, but he packed a lot into his eight years and five months on this world: he excelled at scentwork and enthusiastically freestyled his way through fun agility and Hoopers 😂.

He was always up for an outing, ever hopeful that there’d at least be a bit of sausage roll for him at the end of it or - his absolute favourite - a visit to The Garibaldi!

He had many adventures over the years at numerous music festivals, social gatherings, camping trips and visits to the Isle of Wight to name but a few.

He made us smile every day: he’s left a void in our lives as big as his personality. The colour has drained from our world and our hearts are shattered.

Run free in the land of unlimited gravy bones and chicken little man, where fireworks and beeping lorries are banned, run free!"

AJ: 29.08.2015 - 02.02.2024 🌈

If you are looking for something to remember your beloved pet by, this lovely lady produces wonderful clay sculptures fr...
05/02/2024

If you are looking for something to remember your beloved pet by, this lovely lady produces wonderful clay sculptures from your photos. 🤗

Slots available for full bodied sculptures from July onwards ☺️
I will accept installments as long as payment is complete by the date given

A great image from Refuge In Grief for those who might be supporting someone who is grieving for a lost person or animal...
26/01/2024

A great image from Refuge In Grief for those who might be supporting someone who is grieving for a lost person or animal.

Sometimes, just being there is enough. 🫂

Gosh it is SO windy out there! Before letting your dogs out in the morning, check your fences and gates in case your gar...
21/01/2024

Gosh it is SO windy out there!

Before letting your dogs out in the morning, check your fences and gates in case your garden is no longer secure.

A lot of dogs love windy weather but others find it scary. This amount of wind can also cause them to lose their sense of smell and become lost. So make sure they are wearing their up-to-date ID tag on walks and that their microchip details are correct. 🐶

Who am I fighting for?We all hope that our pets will pass peacefully in their sleep of old age but sadly, in reality, th...
18/01/2024

Who am I fighting for?

We all hope that our pets will pass peacefully in their sleep of old age but sadly, in reality, that rarely happens.

Sometimes, we are faced with an agonising decision, but when you start to consider who you are fighting for, that decision becomes a little easier:

"Am I fighting and trying for HIM to have more time? Or am I fighting so I can have more time WITH him?"

I wrote this a year ago today while I was agonizing over Ben and his deteriorating condition. It still rings true and it’s so important to discuss. Miss you sweet boy.

Can we talk about something we don’t like to talk about?

Can we talk about suffering?

To suffer, is to be subjected to something unpleasant or painful. This can be physical or mental or both. It’s also enduring it for a continuous amount of time.

Suffering is what I want to avoid the most with my dogs, specifically my old dogs, but any animal really. And I want you to understand this perspective because it may help you one day making decisions with your dog. I’m going to use Ben as an example here because his case is at the forefront of my mind right now.

An elderly animal with a chronic medical condition that causes pain or discomfort regularly is suffering in my opinion. When faced with this, my intent immediately is to offer relief from that suffering. For many animals, this can simply be a different pain medication, a change in environment (no stairs) a switch of diet, etc. Anything that offers relief from that suffering will then be continued until the condition increases past those interventions and we need to try something else etc.

However, when the intervention poses a risk of further suffering (in a different way) then a balancing act begins. If in order to relieve one part of suffering you are then creating another, you have to stop and consider the reasoning behind this compromise and whether or not it is fair for the animal, and who is it actually helping?

Ben is 12 years old. He’s got chronic skin and stomach issues, likely from years of untreated allergies and neglect. He’s on a special diet for his gut, medication for his allergies, pain medication for his arthritis and supplements for his joints and muscles. He has autoimmune issues that cause his skin to have sores on them that get infected - on his nose lips ge****ls and feet, and antibiotics help curb the infection and inflammation but can’t provide long term relief. He doesn’t want to walk or move much because of the pain.

The steriods to curb the autoimmune issues causes him to have worsening gut issues, increased thirst, panting, pacing and discomfort. Since starting them he’s much more miserable than he was without them, although time will tell what it does for the immune issues. Then the other medications we can try are just as vicious to the insides, trust me, I know, I’ve been there.

When I get into these types of situations, I have to ask myself honestly what, or better yet WHO, am I fighting for?

Am I fighting and trying for HIM to have more time? Or am I fighting so I can have more time WITH him? And if time is what I want what should that time look like? If it is not free from suffering because of the interventions necessary, and that will then need further intervention, etc, what exactly am I doing? Whose suffering am I relieving? Mine? Because I don’t want to lose him? What is his joy? What is his relief?

All kinds of things then come into play. If Ben was 6/7 years old and had more stamina to endure some discomfort but still find joy, it’s an easier choice. But 12 for a large shepherd is already a pretty good run, do I want the last few months of his life to be filled with desperately trying to keep the dam from collapsing? Constantly pushing meds in him to help stop one side effect and then more for that side effect? I’ve done that before, and I know where it ends. What joy is he going to have moving forward with each plan? it’s not easy. These are conversations I have in my mind all the time.

Being alive is not enough. Suffering is unacceptable to me, and I know how easy it can be to choose not to see it simply because seeing it sometimes means WE suffer instead. If we lose Ben, his suffering will cease, but mine won’t, it will be agony for me. BUT thats the responsibility I have and what I have dedicated my life to. I know how so many people get so attached to some of the dogs I have here, but I will never make decisions based on their popularity or likes, I make it based on what the animal deserves and what I would want for myself too. I will take the suffering if it means easing theirs.

"𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘥𝘦𝘤𝘪𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘵𝘰 𝘦𝘶𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘪𝘴𝘦 𝘢 𝘥𝘰𝘨 𝘪𝘴 𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘹. 𝘍𝘰𝘳 𝘨𝘶𝘢𝘳𝘥𝘪𝘢𝘯𝘴, 𝘪𝘵’𝘴 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘣𝘢𝘭𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘥𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘢𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘣𝘰...
13/01/2024

"𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘥𝘦𝘤𝘪𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘵𝘰 𝘦𝘶𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘪𝘴𝘦 𝘢 𝘥𝘰𝘨 𝘪𝘴 𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘹. 𝘍𝘰𝘳 𝘨𝘶𝘢𝘳𝘥𝘪𝘢𝘯𝘴, 𝘪𝘵’𝘴 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘣𝘢𝘭𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘥𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘢𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘣𝘰𝘯𝘥 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘥𝘰𝘨 𝘢𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘴𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘥𝘰𝘨'𝘴 𝘴𝘶𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨. 𝘐𝘵'𝘴 𝘢 𝘥𝘦𝘤𝘪𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘰𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘯 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘴 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘢 𝘮𝘪𝘹 𝘰𝘧 𝘴𝘢𝘥𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴, 𝘥𝘰𝘶𝘣𝘵, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘨𝘶𝘪𝘭𝘵. 𝘍𝘰𝘳 𝘷𝘦𝘵𝘴, 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘦𝘯𝘨𝘦 𝘭𝘪𝘦𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘷𝘪𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘰𝘣𝘫𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘦, 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘱𝘢𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘢𝘥𝘷𝘪𝘤𝘦. 𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘮𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘪𝘥𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘥𝘰𝘨'𝘴 𝘸𝘦𝘭𝘧𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘴𝘵, 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘣𝘰𝘯𝘥 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘸𝘦𝘭𝘭-𝘣𝘦𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘨𝘶𝘢𝘳𝘥𝘪𝘢𝘯. 𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘰𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘶𝘯𝘴𝘶𝘯𝘨 𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘰𝘦𝘴, 𝘰𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘶𝘱𝘱𝘰𝘳𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘨𝘶𝘪𝘥𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩 𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘦𝘯𝘨𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘴 𝘢 𝘥𝘰𝘨 𝘨𝘶𝘢𝘳𝘥𝘪𝘢𝘯 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘧𝘢𝘤𝘦."

If you are faced with this emotional and difficult decision, I can help give you an understanding of what will happen during the euthanasia process. Having a better understanding can help you to prepare, know what to expect and deal with things better on the day.

Please do get in touch if you need help, guidance and support pre the loss of your pet (www.petlossandbereavement.co.uk).

RIP little Holly. 💔

Over Christmas we lost our beloved Yorkie, Holly. We made the choice to end her life knowing that she was in fact coming to the end anyway. Holly was a lovely little dog. She came out of a puppy farm at 6 and became a puppy. She went from broken to full of life. In true Yorkie, style, Holly thought....

𝗚𝗿𝗶𝗲𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗮 𝗣𝗲𝘁 𝗮𝘁 𝗡𝗲𝘄 𝗬𝗲𝗮𝗿New Year can be difficult if you are grieving the loss of a pet, especially if the approac...
30/12/2023

𝗚𝗿𝗶𝗲𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗮 𝗣𝗲𝘁 𝗮𝘁 𝗡𝗲𝘄 𝗬𝗲𝗮𝗿

New Year can be difficult if you are grieving the loss of a pet, especially if the approaching new year is the first one without your pet.

The month of January can be hard for many, but when you’re grieving, it can be an even more emotional and daunting time.

Please have a read of my new blog which includes some tips to help you cope better this New Year.

https://www.petlossandbereavement.co.uk/blog/grieving-for-a-pet-at-new-year

©️ Amanda Childs
Amanda Childs Pet Bereavement Counsellor

Explore practical tips and heartfelt advice for navigating the New Year while grieving the loss of a beloved pet. Our guide offers solace and ways to honour your pet's memory during this challenging time.

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Christmas can be an extremely tough time when grieving. For some of you, this may be your first Christmas without your pet. If you find yourself struggling, reach out for help and let family and friends know you need support.

Think about the happy times and the good memories you made with your pet. Celebrate their life and concentrate on the love you shared for each other.

And if you know someone who may be struggling at this time of year, perhaps they are putting on a brave face, check in with them and let them know you are there for them.

Our family will be thinking of little Alfie this Christmas after losing him recently and I'll be thinking of all my clients who are experiencing their first Christmas without their pets too. 😘

"The grief resulting from the death of a pet is often trivialized and neglected, especially by those who’ve never known ...
10/12/2023

"The grief resulting from the death of a pet is often trivialized and neglected, especially by those who’ve never known a meaningful attachment beyond our species."

Mourning a pet is very normal though and for some people, losing a pet can be just as, if not more, devastating than losing a person.

https://www.vice.com/en/article/93k88a/how-to-deal-with-losing-a-pet?fbclid=IwAR3TlKRgFBypoLB2iikzhLIbgQ1IJPY_bkPGm94CCrLNyCUUYObVNzhtqUo

How to deal with losing a pet, according to people who've gone through it.

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This article explains how you can tell if your pet is affected, what some of the signs are and ways to help them cope.

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🐾💙 𝑨𝑳𝑭𝑰𝑬 💙🐾

Last week we sadly said goodbye to little Alfie, my mother in law's beloved Jack Russell.

Alfie was an extremely special boy, loved by the whole family and our friends. He was also very fondly thought of throughout the village. He reached the grand old age of 16 and provided much love and companionship to his Mum, Sharon and his Dad, John.

Rest in peace handsome Alfie and enjoy your reunion with John. We'll forever hold you in our hearts.

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🐾💙 𝑨𝑳𝑭𝑰𝑬 💙🐾Last week we sadly said goodbye to little Alfie, my mother in law's beloved Jack Russell. Alfie was an extrem...
25/11/2023

🐾💙 𝑨𝑳𝑭𝑰𝑬 💙🐾

Last week we sadly said goodbye to little Alfie, my mother in law's beloved Jack Russell.

Alfie was an extremely special boy, loved by the whole family and our friends. He was also very fondly thought of throughout the village. He reached the grand old age of 16 and provided much love and companionship to his Mum, Sharon and his Dad, John.

Rest in peace handsome Alfie and enjoy your reunion with John. We'll forever hold you in our hearts.

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🎁 𝗛𝗮𝗽𝗽𝘆 𝗕𝗶𝗿𝘁𝗵𝗱𝗮𝘆 𝗕𝘂𝗱𝗱𝘆 🎁Happy 11th birthday to my best boy, my best friend, my cheeky monkey and my little Puppa!! You r...
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🎁 𝗛𝗮𝗽𝗽𝘆 𝗕𝗶𝗿𝘁𝗵𝗱𝗮𝘆 𝗕𝘂𝗱𝗱𝘆 🎁

Happy 11th birthday to my best boy, my best friend, my cheeky monkey and my little Puppa!!

You really do make me smile every single day! ❤️

On the 11th hour, of the 11th day, of the 11th month, we will remember them.Remembering our fallen heroes including the ...
11/11/2023

On the 11th hour, of the 11th day, of the 11th month, we will remember them.

Remembering our fallen heroes including the service animals that fought and lost their lives during the war.

🐾 𝗡𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗦𝗲𝗻𝗶𝗼𝗿 𝗣𝗲𝘁 𝗠𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗵 🐾Did you know that the month of November is dedicated to raising awareness of our senior pet...
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🐾 𝗡𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗦𝗲𝗻𝗶𝗼𝗿 𝗣𝗲𝘁 𝗠𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗵 🐾

Did you know that the month of November is dedicated to raising awareness of our senior pets.

This is a subject close to my heart as I have a senior dog. This is a blog I wrote for my dog training company but wanted to share it here too. 🐶

November is a great awareness month for pets, especially our senior ones.  Not only is it Pet Cancer Awareness Month , but it is also Senior Pet Awareness Month and Adopt a Senior Pet Month.  Whilst we don’t want to think about our pets getting older, it is an inevitable part of

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