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How lovely is this Olympics story. After her winning swim in the River Seine, Van Rouwendaal pointed to and kissed a tat...
09/08/2024

How lovely is this Olympics story.

After her winning swim in the River Seine, Van Rouwendaal pointed to and kissed a tattoo of her late dog Rio's paw print on her wrist.

She explained that after she lost Rio she didn't care about swimming for three weeks but then decided to do the swim for him ... and she did ... she won!

What a wonderful way for her to commemorate her special boy. โค๏ธ

More on this story here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/olympics/articles/c20lmypk13lo.amp

Some tips and advice on the healing process following the loss of a companion animal.
09/08/2024

Some tips and advice on the healing process following the loss of a companion animal.

Below I have listed 10 steps in the healing process (in no particular order), I hope these help....

I've worked with people who have lost both elderly pets and young pets plus those aged in between and I can confirm that...
25/07/2024

I've worked with people who have lost both elderly pets and young pets plus those aged in between and I can confirm that age is not a factor when it comes to determining the severity of grief that someone may feel.

This is a really informative blog that explores the differences between losing an elderly pet and losing a younger pet.

What is the difference between 12 weeks and 12 years other than time?ย  So much and so little, is the loss of a pet who is older any less significant than one that has only been in the family for 3 months?

"Canine euthanasia is more than just a medical procedure; it's a heart-wrenching decision many dog guardians face. It's ...
10/07/2024

"Canine euthanasia is more than just a medical procedure; it's a heart-wrenching decision many dog guardians face. It's about choosing to say goodbye to a beloved canine companion, not out of desire, but out of compassion and necessity. This post dives into the ethical maze surrounding this choice, looking at the reasons, the emotions, and the tough questions it brings up."

If you are faced with this tough decision, please do get in touch. I can help you understand it more and talk you through the process. Being prepared, can really help.

Over Christmas we lost our beloved Yorkie, Holly. We made the choice to end her life knowing that she was in fact coming to the end anyway. Holly was a lovely little dog. She came out of a puppy farm at 6 and became a puppy. She went from broken to full of life. In true Yorkie, style, Holly thought....

A great article in today's Daily Mail featuring Dawn Murray, founder member of the Association of Pet Bereavement Counse...
08/07/2024

A great article in today's Daily Mail featuring Dawn Murray, founder member of the Association of Pet Bereavement Counsellors of which I am an Accredited Member of.

24/06/2024

๐Ÿ’” ๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜†

Just over 6 years ago, this beautiful girl came into my life. She came on her first dog walk with me on 12 March 2018 and has been a very special member of the Happy Buddies walkies team ever since.

Maisy has such a sweet soul, a beautiful character and loves treats but her favourite walks involve water. She is so excited to see me when I arrive to pick her up and drags me down the garden path to my van - I can never get the van door open quick enough for her! After her walks she falls asleep the whole way home and I have to give her a gentle tickle to wake her up when it's time to get out the van to go home. Over the years, Maisy has become my most elderly lady and whilst her pace has slowed she still musters up as much excitement as she can when she sees me and her other furry friends.

Today though, I had the devastating phone call from her lovely mum explaining that Maisy has been very poorly the last few days and I'm heartbroken to say that my beautiful, kind, special water baby has sadly passed away with her family at her side.

It was only a few months ago that her Tuesday walk buddy Bullet, also passed away and I'm comforted to think that Bullet's friendly face will be there to welcome her over rainbow bridge and they can run free of pain together.

Maisy I'll miss you so much and I know that your Tuesday walk friends Dexter, Hector, Obi and of course my Buddy and Fudge will miss you massively too.

This post is in memory of Maisy who passed away at her vets with her family beside her.

Rest in peace beautiful lady Maisy and know you were loved so so much. ๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ’”

Great news to hear that the Pet Abduction Bill was successfully passed through the House of Lords and received the Royal...
28/05/2024

Great news to hear that the Pet Abduction Bill was successfully passed through the House of Lords and received the Royal Assent last week and will become law from August.

It will mean that pet theft will become a criminal offence at last and anyone found guilty of stealing a pet in England or Northern Ireland will face up to five years in prison, a fine, or both.

More details in below link.

On Friday 24 May the Pet Abduction Bill, which was introduced by Anna Firth MP, was successfully pushed through the House of Lords.

Have you lost a pet and now wondering if it's the right time to introduce another? It can be a tough decision and one th...
25/05/2024

Have you lost a pet and now wondering if it's the right time to introduce another? It can be a tough decision and one that needs to be thought out.

This article may help.

When a pet dies, we are left with a hole in our hearts and homes.

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26/04/2024

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Saying goodbye to a beloved pet is never easy, especially when faced with the tough decision of euthanasia. It's completely normal to feel a mix of emotions, like guilt or confusion. Our thoughts go out to anyone struggling with this heartbreaking choice right now. If you're struggling with the grief of losing your pet, we have some wonderful pet bereavement counsellors on our website. Don't hesitate to reach out for support.

https://www.dignitypetcrem.co.uk/pet-bereavement-support/pet-bereavement-counselling/

๐Ÿถ ๐—ก๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—Ÿ๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐——๐—ผ๐—ด ๐—”๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐——๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐ŸถToday is National Lost Dog Awareness Day and although this day was created in America...
23/04/2024

๐Ÿถ ๐—ก๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—Ÿ๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐——๐—ผ๐—ด ๐—”๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐——๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐Ÿถ

Today is National Lost Dog Awareness Day and although this day was created in America by Lost Dogs of America, it's well worth highlighting this day in the UK to help raise awareness about lost dogs here too and share information about what we can all do to help reunite them with their families.

Losing a pet is an unbearable thought yet, sadly, it does happen. There are things you can do to ensure a greater chance of a quick reunion should this happen though:

๐™ˆ๐™ž๐™˜๐™ง๐™ค๐™˜๐™๐™ž๐™ฅ ๐™”๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐˜ฟ๐™ค๐™œ
It is compulsory in the UK to microchip your dog. An up-to-date microchip can help facilitate a quick reunion. Make sure your dog is microchipped and that you keep your contact details up-to-date, especially if you move house or change your telephone number.

๐™ˆ๐™–๐™ ๐™š ๐™Ž๐™ช๐™ง๐™š ๐™”๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐˜ฟ๐™ค๐™œ ๐™ƒ๐™–๐™จ ๐˜ผ๐™ฃ ๐™„๐˜ฟ ๐™๐™–๐™œ
This is a legal requirement when your dog is in a public place. Your name and address must be on it and we'd also advise a mobile number is also included.

๐™๐™š๐™–๐™˜๐™ ๐˜ผ ๐™๐™š๐™ก๐™ž๐™—๐™ก๐™š ๐™๐™š๐™˜๐™–๐™ก๐™ก
Teach your dog a reliable recall for when you are out walking and never let them off the lead if you are unsure whether they will come back to you. If in doubt, use a long line or training lead, especially if you are in an unfamiliar area where your dog may get lost more easily.

๐™ˆ๐™–๐™ ๐™š ๐™Ž๐™ช๐™ง๐™š ๐™”๐™ค๐™ช ๐™ƒ๐™–๐™ซ๐™š ๐™‹๐™ก๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™ฎ ๐™Š๐™› ๐™๐™š๐™˜๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ ๐™‹๐™๐™ค๐™ฉ๐™ค๐™จ
Take clear photographs of your dog from various angles, and update them regularly. Make a note of any distinguishing features.

Take lots of photographs of yourself with your dog to help you prove ownership if needed.

๐˜พ๐™–๐™ง๐™š๐™›๐™ช๐™ก๐™ก๐™ฎ ๐˜พ๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™จ๐™ž๐™™๐™š๐™ง ๐˜พ๐™–๐™ง๐™š ๐™‹๐™ง๐™ค๐™ซ๐™ž๐™™๐™š๐™ง๐™จ
Take care when choosing someone to care for your dog if you are going away or need a dog walker whilst you are at work. Use a reputable company and choose someone who has qualifications and experience. Check references and licences (where appropriate) for people who provide dog walking, day care or holiday services.

๐˜พ๐™๐™š๐™˜๐™  ๐™”๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™‚๐™–๐™ง๐™™๐™š๐™ฃ ๐™„๐™จ ๐™€๐™ฃ๐™˜๐™ก๐™ค๐™จ๐™š๐™™
Make sure your garden is safe, secure and fully enclosed.

๐Ÿ”Ž ๐—œ๐—ณ ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—™๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—” ๐—Ÿ๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐——๐—ผ๐—ด ๐Ÿ”Ž

If you find a lost dog and are able to encourage them towards you and keep them safe, take them to a local vet for their microchip to be scanned.

If you are unable to capture them, take pictures as best as you can and report your sighting to the local Dog Warden then share information about them on social media and local lost dog groups.

๐Ÿ˜ข ๐—œ๐—ณ ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐——๐—ผ๐—ด ๐—›๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—š๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐— ๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐Ÿ˜ข

๐™Ž๐™š๐™–๐™ง๐™˜๐™ ๐™๐™๐™š ๐˜ผ๐™ง๐™š๐™–
Start with the immediate area where your dog was last seen. Call your dogโ€™s name and some tasty treats and listen for barking, whining or any movement. Get friends and family to help with the search.

๐˜ผ๐™ก๐™š๐™ง๐™ฉ ๐™”๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™‰๐™š๐™ž๐™œ๐™๐™—๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง๐™จ
Let your neighbours know that your dog is missing and ask them to keep an eye out. If they went missing locally, some dogs may find their own way home.

๐˜พ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ฉ๐™š ๐™‹๐™ค๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง๐™จ
Create and display posters with a clear photo of your dog, their name and your contact details. Put these in high-traffic areas around your neighbourhood or where your dog went missing and in local parks, vets and pet shops etc.

๐˜พ๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™–๐™˜๐™ฉ ๐™‡๐™ค๐™˜๐™–๐™ก ๐™‘๐™š๐™ฉ๐™จ, ๐™๐™š๐™จ๐™˜๐™ช๐™š๐™จ ๐˜ผ๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™”๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐˜ฟ๐™ค๐™œ ๐™’๐™–๐™ง๐™™๐™š๐™ฃ
Call all local vets, the dog warden and RSPCA branches and other animal welfare organisations to see if your dog has been handed in. Send them posters of your dog to display.

๐™๐™š๐™œ๐™ž๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง ๐™”๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐˜ฟ๐™ค๐™œ
Register them with a company such as PetsReunited, DogLost.co.uk or the National Pets Register..

๐™๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ก๐™ž๐™จ๐™š ๐™Ž๐™ค๐™˜๐™ž๐™–๐™ก ๐™ˆ๐™š๐™™๐™ž๐™–
Social media can be a quick and effective platform to spread the word that your dog is missing. Include photos and information on how people can contact you with any sightings etc.

๐™๐™–๐™ก๐™  ๐™๐™ค ๐™‹๐™š๐™ค๐™ฅ๐™ก๐™š
Visit places where dog walkers go such as local parks and public places and talk to people. Ask them to keep an eye open for your dog.

๐˜พ๐™–๐™ก๐™ก ๐™”๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™ˆ๐™ž๐™˜๐™ง๐™ค๐™˜๐™๐™ž๐™ฅ ๐˜พ๐™ค๐™ข๐™ฅ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ฎ
This is so they can flag your dog as missing. It will also alert them to anyone trying to re-register the same microchip number.

๐™Š๐™›๐™›๐™š๐™ง ๐˜ผ ๐™๐™š๐™ฌ๐™–๐™ง๐™™
Offering a reward for the safe return of your dog can help encourage people to join in the search and report sightings. It's worth checking your pet insurance policy too as some cover the cost of a reward.

๐˜พ๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™–๐™˜๐™ฉ ๐˜ฟ๐™ง๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™š ๐˜พ๐™ค๐™ข๐™ฅ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™š๐™จ
Drone companies such as Drone To Home and pet trackers who specialise in finding lost dogs are well worth considering.

Help to spread awareness of National Lost Dog Awareness Day by sharing this post. The more we can do to reduce the risk of our dogs going missing and increase the chances of reunions for those that are missing the better!

ยฉ๏ธ Amanda Childs
Happy Buddies Dog Training, Dog Walking and Pet Care Services and Puppy School
Amanda Childs Pet Bereavement Counsellor

"Children suffering from pet bereavement will not necessarily grieve in the same way as adults. They may not be adept at...
19/04/2024

"Children suffering from pet bereavement will not necessarily grieve in the same way as adults. They may not be adept at expressing their feelings verbally in the way an adult can, meaning that understanding how a child may react is important in supporting them through their grief. Some children can be very resilient and cope far better than we give them credit for, while others are deeply affected by death."

The above extract is taken from the blog below by Dawn Murray. To read the full article on children and pet loss, click on the link within the post below.

This weeks featured blog is written by association founder member, Dawn Murray, who looks at the important and often complicated aspects of Children and Pet loss...

https://apbcounsellors.co.uk/blog/f/children-pet-loss

I'm very proud to announce that I've been accepted as an Accredited Member of the Association of Pet Bereavement Counsel...
20/03/2024

I'm very proud to announce that I've been accepted as an Accredited Member of the Association of Pet Bereavement Counsellors.

This is a network dedicated to providing support, education, and collaboration for professionals in the field of pet bereavement counselling. Members are committed to promoting the highest standards of care and professionalism in the field of pet bereavement counselling.

To find out more, please visit https://apbcounsellors.co.uk/

Amanda Childs Pet Bereavement Counsellor

I'm very proud to announce that I've been accepted as an Accredited Member of the Association of Pet Bereavement Counsel...
20/03/2024

I'm very proud to announce that I've been accepted as an Accredited Member of the Association of Pet Bereavement Counsellors.

This is a network dedicated to providing support, education, and collaboration for professionals in the field of pet bereavement counselling. Members are committed to promoting the highest standards of care and professionalism in the field of pet bereavement counselling.

To find out more, please visit https://apbcounsellors.co.uk/

Amanda Childs Pet Bereavement Counsellor

"Introducing the Association of Pet Bereavement Counsellors ๐Ÿพ

We are thrilled to announce the launch of our compassionate and dedicated association, aimed at providing support and healing to those who have experienced the loss of a beloved animal companion.
Our team of trained pet bereavement counsellors are here to lend a listening ear, offer guidance, and help you navigate through the complex emotions that come with grieving the loss of a beloved pet.
We understand the deep bond you shared and the impact their presence had on your life.

At the Association of Pet Bereavement Counsellors, we believe that no one should have to face pet loss alone. We are here to provide a safe space for you to express your feelings, find solace, and receive the support you need during this difficult time. Join us on this journey of healing and remember, you are not alone.

Together, we can honour the memory of our cherished pets and find comfort in the shared experience of pet bereavement.

๐Ÿ“ž Reach out to us today and let us be your guiding light on the path to healing.

"

Thank you for your kind review Lauren. It was lovely to hear all about Max and how special he was. I'm glad I could help...
13/03/2024

Thank you for your kind review Lauren. It was lovely to hear all about Max and how special he was. I'm glad I could help you.

๐—œ๐—ป ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—”๐—.๐—” ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜†.Last night I spoke to AJ's mum after she emailed me to tell me that her special boy h...
06/02/2024

๐—œ๐—ป ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—”๐—.
๐—” ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜†.

Last night I spoke to AJ's mum after she emailed me to tell me that her special boy had passed away after suddenly developing meningitis in both his spine and brain ๐Ÿ’”.

I first met AJ when he arrived at Hoopers and oh my goodness what a character! He LOVED his Hoopers and made us laugh as he very often decided his own route around the obstacle course was far better than my route!

His mum's tribute to AJ:

"He may have been small in stature, but he was big in every other way. He was affectionate, loyal, funny, mischievous, exasperating, vocal, fiercely independent, determined, very cheeky and as single minded as his namesake!

He came into our lives at seven weeks old and instantly turned us from a couple into a family. He always made his presence known and was usually front and centre of whatever was happening, whether it actually involved him or not! As we often said โ€œNobody puts AJ in the cornerโ€œ.

His life has been cruelly cut short, but he packed a lot into his eight years and five months on this world: he excelled at scentwork and enthusiastically freestyled his way through fun agility and Hoopers ๐Ÿ˜‚.

He was always up for an outing, ever hopeful that thereโ€™d at least be a bit of sausage roll for him at the end of it or - his absolute favourite - a visit to The Garibaldi!

He had many adventures over the years at numerous music festivals, social gatherings, camping trips and visits to the Isle of Wight to name but a few.

He made us smile every day: heโ€™s left a void in our lives as big as his personality. The colour has drained from our world and our hearts are shattered.

Run free in the land of unlimited gravy bones and chicken little man, where fireworks and beeping lorries are banned, run free!"

AJ: 29.08.2015 - 02.02.2024 ๐ŸŒˆ

If you are looking for something to remember your beloved pet by, this lovely lady produces wonderful clay sculptures fr...
05/02/2024

If you are looking for something to remember your beloved pet by, this lovely lady produces wonderful clay sculptures from your photos. ๐Ÿค—

Slots available for full bodied sculptures from July onwards โ˜บ๏ธ
I will accept installments as long as payment is complete by the date given

A great image from Refuge In Grief for those who might be supporting someone who is grieving for a lost person or animal...
26/01/2024

A great image from Refuge In Grief for those who might be supporting someone who is grieving for a lost person or animal.

Sometimes, just being there is enough. ๐Ÿซ‚

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