Parker and Pooch - Dog Training & Solo Walks

Parker and Pooch - Dog Training & Solo Walks Dog training & solo dog walks in Todmorden, Hebden Bridge and surrounding areas Hi, I’m Clare, founder of Parker & Pooch.
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The lessons I learnt along the way while struggling with my own dog’s behaviour inspired me to ditch my career as an accountant and re-train as a dog trainer. And now I spend my days supporting others who were just like me, who want the best for their dog, and just need a bit of a helping hand to get there.

So we're off on our annual pilgrimage to somewhere in the middle of nowhere to avoid fireworks for Alice 🥰Here's hoping ...
02/11/2024

So we're off on our annual pilgrimage to somewhere in the middle of nowhere to avoid fireworks for Alice 🥰

Here's hoping we do better than last year's rollercoaster, from 1) finding out on the drive up that the pub down the road was having a firework display 🙈 to 2) discovering when we got to the cottage that it had an actual underground bunker, kitted out with cozy armchairs and a massive tv 🤣

Stay safe, and I'll see you all in a week or so 😊

🐾 This week's walks 🐾Tess was back on form for entertaining my photographic requirements this week. I don't think there'...
01/11/2024

🐾 This week's walks 🐾

Tess was back on form for entertaining my photographic requirements this week. I don't think there's ever been a pic of her where her tail isn't wagging so fast it's just a blur ❤️

Layla thought she'd have a stab at auditioning for the lead role in Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat, if by “many colours” we're meaning all the shades of boggy brown 🐾

Annie had another walk from the house because my car was actually in for a service (as opposed to two weeks ago when it was meant to be but the garage failed to pick it up 😤) Just like last time, she was beautifully behaved walking through the sheep fields, but I'm afraid I can't say the same about walking past the squirrels in the wood on the way back 🙈🤣

So Chewie got a local walk too… no coats for either of us as it was lovely and warm, a very pleasant stroll with my favourite dobie 😍

Chai was on a snuffle mission, he was head down sniffing all the way 🥰

A Midgeley Moor extravaganza for Juno, up through the quarries into the misty murk… we hadn't been up there in months and months so there was much excitement to be had 🤩

Both Willow and Mr B were full of the joys of autumn 🍂 kicking up the leaves without a care in the world as to what might be lurking beneath them 💩🤣

And Tyra's now got a poorly leg bless her, so just a little toilet wander for her, and then we did some Search for Mr Squirrel scentwork, which she absolutely nailed 🥳

Sometimes it’s the little things that can turn out to be the big things…At a first training session, we'll often spend a...
31/10/2024

Sometimes it’s the little things that can turn out to be the big things…

At a first training session, we'll often spend a fair chunk of time talking about lots of things that are nothing to do with training.

Because it's really important to consider every aspect of a dog’s life when looking at a behaviour issue, not just the behaviour itself.

So that might include (in no particular order):

✅️ Sleep & rest

✅️ Food

✅️ Exercise & walks

✅️ Health

✅️ Equipment

✅️ Home environment

✅️ Enrichment and mental stimulation

And there’s usually some things I'll suggest - some changes to consider making in terms of your dog’s day to day routines and/or their environment.

And those things don't have to be big things.

There's one dog I'm working with at the moment who has already become less reactive to other dogs - she still reacts, but to a much lesser intensity.

And the only thing we've changed so far is that her human is now driving her five minutes up the road, so she can go for peaceful dog-free walks up on the moor, rather than encountering multiple dogs on the road from their house.

So now, those times when she is being walked from the house for a toilet walk, and she does see another dog - she's less trigger stacked and more mentally able to cope with seeing that dog.

I can also remember a lovely little chap I worked with last year who could be reactive to people. The first thing his human did after our first session was change his lead… from a 1.5m one to a 3m one. That's it.

And that greater length gave him more freedom on walks, to sniff where he wanted. And it gave him more choice, it provided him with the space to make better decisions, like moving away from an incoming person rather than barking and lunging at them.

And so that alone made a huge difference to how he felt in the presence of strangers.

I can think of quite a few examples of dogs where just putting window film up at home - in the room where the dog spent most of their time - made a big impact.

For each of them, it not only stopped them from barking at dogs and/or people walking past, but it meant they weren't constantly on alert, checking for threats. Which in turn means they got more quality sleep, and so were better equipped to deal with other stressors in their lives.

Driving to walks. A longer lead. Window film. None of these things were the whole answer - far from it - but they all made a massive difference to the starting point for training.

So quite often, it is the little things that turn out to be the big things 🤩

And then this bit of the week’s walks deserves a post all of its own ❤️🥳❤️🥳(clearly not an actual photo from today's pea...
25/10/2024

And then this bit of the week’s walks deserves a post all of its own ❤️🥳❤️🥳

(clearly not an actual photo from today's peasouper 🤣)

🐾 This week's walks 🐾No gorgeous staffie pics this week 😭 as neither Tess nor Layla were in the mood for me taking photo...
25/10/2024

🐾 This week's walks 🐾

No gorgeous staffie pics this week 😭 as neither Tess nor Layla were in the mood for me taking photos of them 🙈 They were both in the mood for rolling round in the grass, getting mucky paws (up to her armpits in Layla's case) and taking me on a merry sniffy dance across the moors

No such issues with Tyra who was more than happy to get up close and personal with the camera 🤣

Meanwhile I ruined Chewie's fun by not letting him saying hello to two little fluffies… they also wanted to say hello back, but I knew he would have absolutely flattened them 🙈 so they made each others acquaintances at a distance. He also got to admire gorgeous pup Mabel being walked by Wags & Wanders 🥰 She was safely the other side of the canal so didn't get flattened either. Although give it a few months and she'll probably be flattening him… she's got some ears and paws to grow into yet ❤️

Chai didn't find any pheasants or rabbits to lunge after that, so that was a pleasant change for me after the last few weeks 🤣

Juno on the other hand was on a mad one, bouncing round in the heather and doing solo stick relays 😍

Mr B found a dead badger. Definitely dead when he found him. Pinky swear.

And Willow was in full sniffing mode, she even had a calm little sniffy hello with a gorgeous old staffie boy who we met on the lane 😍

Just a little suggestion from me, to that section of the dog walking world who’ve never shared their life with a dog who...
23/10/2024

Just a little suggestion from me, to that section of the dog walking world who’ve never shared their life with a dog who needs space…

If you and your dog are walking towards another dog, and that dog is eyeballing your dog - and the person with them is clearly trying to create some more distance for the eyeballer (you know, the dog who's staring at your dog and clearly uncomfortable about them approaching)

Rather than: marching towards them both at full speed, giving no f*cks about the situation and therefore giving no space to anyone 🙈

Why not: try slowing down and giving them some space, so the person can move the dog to a safer place? 🥰

Just an idea. It would require you to take a moment to appreciate other people's perspectives, so I realise it's not for everyone 🤷‍♀️

Signed in hope,

Me, and everyone else who walks dogs who need a bit more space x

(An unrelated photo of a beautiful Bridestones sunset to bring back some zen into my life 🙏❤️)

(Although to be fair, my faith in humanity was already redeemed by the lovely family we encountered on the way back at exactly the same spot - who upon seeing what I was doing, shortened their puppy's lead and encouraged them to keep moving past where we were waiting out of the way 🙏❤️)

21/10/2024

We were down in Devon the weekend before last, staying with my mum and dad.

So I took the opportunity to use their lovely garden for al fresco breakfasts for Alice... she always gets half her food in a bowl, and then the rest in two kongs that she has to find.

The first morning I didn’t think to take videos, but there was a slight breeze blowing up the garden carrying the scent to her, so she found them both within seconds. This is the first kong from the second morning, when there was zero wind which made it a lot trickier.

Still nailed it though 🤩 One of the things I love most about dogs is just watching them do their thing ❤️

PS: Diamond Dogs this speeded up video will be way too busy for you, even with the calming music 🤣 I’ll pop another one in the comments that will be more your bag 😍

🐾 This week's walks 🐾Yeah we had some grim weather this week but we also had some glorious 😍 I think you can guess from ...
18/10/2024

🐾 This week's walks 🐾

Yeah we had some grim weather this week but we also had some glorious 😍 I think you can guess from the photos who had each 🤣

Here's a question for you all…How do you describe yourself in terms of your relationship with your dog?Are you an owner?...
17/10/2024

Here's a question for you all…

How do you describe yourself in terms of your relationship with your dog?

Are you an owner?

A guardian?

A pet parent?

A caregiver?

Something else?

Owner is a useful shorthand, everyone knows what it means. But personally, I don't really like it.

I don't think we own Alice. She's not an item of property. If anything, she owns us 🤷‍♀️🤣

So I rarely use the word “owner” on this page, and it's why I generally refer to dogs and their humans - it feels like a more equal option. Alice is our dog. And we are her humans.

No other word I've come across seems to describe our relationship, or really do it justice.

I know it's just words, but I'm a firm believer that words matter.

So tell me, who are you to your dog?

🐾 This week's walks 🐾Me and Tess found ourselves a new path to explore so it was head down sniffs all the way 🤩Tyra fina...
11/10/2024

🐾 This week's walks 🐾

Me and Tess found ourselves a new path to explore so it was head down sniffs all the way 🤩

Tyra finally got a dry walk for a change 🥳

Chai was off to a flying start when he realised there were two pheasants in the bushes next to the car. I now have one arm longer than the other 🙈

Chewie got two walks this week, so he was doubly happy 🥰

Mr B was in a treat mugging kind of mood 🙏

Juno pulled like a stream train for the first 45 minutes and then walked like a dream for the last 15. Turns out her lovely human had taken her canicrossing on the same route recently… I was confused why she was pulling so hard, she was busy thinking jeez you are one slow runner and then finally took pity on me 🤣

Layla rolled in cow 💩 yet again 🙈

Annie was all about the sniffing the breeze 😍

And I can't remember what happened on Willow’s walk, but I do remember the homemade vegan cereal bar that her lovely human gave me which was delicious 🤩 Thanks Deb ❤️

09/10/2024

The other week, I was talking - aka having a mild rant - about letting our dogs sniff.

So to follow on, I want to talk about the power of scattering feeding i.e. scattering food on the ground for your dog to find. Scatter feeding is such a simple thing to do, but can have big benefits…

⭐️ Scatter feeding can help an easily worried or spooked dog, by building their confidence and their resilience: “I found a treat! Yay me! And I found another one! Yay me again!” 🥰

⭐️ Scatter feeding can help an easily frustrated dog, by growing their ability to cope with micro doses of frustration: “Can’t find it can’t find it…. Yay I found one! Can’t find it can’t find it… Yay I found another one!” 🤩

⭐️ And scatter feeding encourages any dog to sniff, which releases endorphins and encourages relaxation 😍

Here’s a little video of the awesome Layla Dog, showing you all how it’s done (Just so you're mentally prepared, nothing interesting happens at the end, it’s just 53 seconds of the ginger ninja sniffing. You're welcome 🤣 Personally I could watch her all day ❤️)

🐾 This week's walks 🐾Tess very sensibly took a duvet day on Monday 🥰 Tyra was probably wishing she'd done the same after...
04/10/2024

🐾 This week's walks 🐾

Tess very sensibly took a duvet day on Monday 🥰 Tyra was probably wishing she'd done the same after an hour of the thoroughly wet stuff 🌧

In staffie solidarity, Layla also bailed on Tuesday's walk, even though it'd finally stopped raining for a bit 🤷‍♀️ We played a new game in the kitchen instead, called the Thinking Game, and you could actually see her little brain cogs whirring… it was ace and she was ace 🤩

Chewie made the rain magically stop just as his walk started, and then he explored every single corner of the Unitarian churchyard 🥰

Me and Chai played dodge the dog with a local nemesis (she's actually lovely, but they both lunge like mad to get to each other, so it's easiest to play a game of hide and no seek in the long grass instead 🤣)

Then much excitement for Juno as we finally braved Midgeley Moor… there's been lots of reports of overly aggressive cows the last few months so we've been avoiding it for a while. But current intel suggested they'd gone, so we gave it a go. And to celebrate the cow-freeness of her favourite bit of moorland, she jumped in all the puddles, found all the sticks to carry, and bounded about in the heather. A lot. And as an added bonus she pulled me up all the steep bits, propelled by her giddiness 😍

No such luck with our Mr B… he's a man of many talents, but pulling me up hills isn't one of them. Although that does mean he doesn't pull me down either, so there's that 🤩

Willow and me practised being calm around sheep. I don't want to brag, but I'm actually quite good at it already. But Willow aced her practice too, and stayed calm when faced with a barky shouty dog as well 🥳

And I made it up to Annie for our downpour of a walk earlier in the week, with a gorgeous wander up at Maidens Cross this morning. We had zoomies, we had pouncing, we had long line cats cradle in the hawthorn trees, and we had a deer that stopped and took one look at us and then was long gone… a wise decision Mr Deer 🤣

We're all guilty of it…We have a crap walk with our dog - whether it's because they just kept pulling on the lead, they ...
02/10/2024

We're all guilty of it…

We have a crap walk with our dog - whether it's because they just kept pulling on the lead, they barked at another dog, they lunged at a car, they ran off after a squirrel - and all of a sudden we're back to square one.

The world is against us. And we're failing as dog owners.

But it's not. And we're not.

Us humans have a terrible habit of resetting the goalposts and forgetting to tell ourselves. Okay so one bad thing happened, maybe two (or three - maybe it was a very crap walk 🙈🤣)

But I bet if you look back and reflect on where you were a few months ago, maybe a year ago… there's a world of difference. Sure, walks still aren't perfect. But look how far you've come ❤️

[Book extracts from the gorgeous “The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse” by Charlie Mackesy]

Mr Pheasant, Mrs Bee Snake, and Master Robin all took one for the team during wet weather play yesterday 🤣🤣
01/10/2024

Mr Pheasant, Mrs Bee Snake, and Master Robin all took one for the team during wet weather play yesterday 🤣🤣

A quick recap… in Part 1 last week, I talked about how to say hello to a dog.Part 2 is for all of us that share our live...
30/09/2024

A quick recap… in Part 1 last week, I talked about how to say hello to a dog.

Part 2 is for all of us that share our lives with dogs. And it’s a lesson in what not to do when someone asks if they can say hello to your dog.

So the other day, me and Alice were walking down the road from our house, and a lady walking towards us stopped and said “is she friendly, can I say hello?”

And I said yes - because she’d asked if Alice was friendly and I didn't want to say no because that makes it sound like she's a monster.

When actually, by saying no, all I would have meant was:

“she's generally not arsed about actually meeting new people, so she's not going to bite you, if that's what you're asking, but no, she probably doesn't really want to say hello”.

But because I said yes, the lady walked towards Alice, who was wagging her tail but not moving towards her. And then she leant forward and she stroked Alice on the head.

And Alice didn’t give any overly obvious stress signals, but I could see she shrank a little inside herself, and she looked up at me as if to say “why am I in this situation”. And my heart broke a bit that I didn’t advocate for her better, or at all in fact.

And then the lady stood back up and we chatted for a little while, and then we both carried on our respective ways. And I said sorry to Alice for letting her down.

On reflection, what I should have said when the lady asked “is she friendly, can I say hello?” was:

“she is friendly, but if she wants to say hello she'll come to you”

gently, with a smile on my face to show that I wasn’t being a dick about it. And that’s going to be my go-to phrase next time someone asks that question.

Sometimes, it’s hard to find the right words at the right time. But we owe it our dogs to try ❤️

PS: Even if you think - even if you know! - that your dog loves people and enjoys meeting them? Humour me, and next time someone goes to stroke your dog: watch them closely. (And remember I say this with love 🙏)

Do their eyes squint?

Do they turn their head away briefly?

Do they close their mouth?

Do they lower their head slightly?

Do they lick their lips or their nose?

Do they yawn?

Do they gently pant?

Do they do none of the above, but shake off afterwards?

Are you still 100% sure they love meeting people? 🥰

🐾 This week's walks 🐾It was a sheepy kind of a week this week…Tess nearly had to turn her hand to 🐑 herding when the far...
27/09/2024

🐾 This week's walks 🐾

It was a sheepy kind of a week this week…

Tess nearly had to turn her hand to 🐑 herding when the farmer decided it would be a good idea to move them between fields with us in the way 🙄

Juno was supremely calm in the multiple Wallace & Gromit style 🐑 scenes we found ourselves in… not so calm around the pheasants but hey, you can’t have everything 🤷‍♀️

And Layla would like it known that she had nothing to do with the demise of the 🐑 but she was very interested in what was left 🙈

Tyra continued her run of bad luck on the weather front. Biblical is the best way of describing both her walks 🌧

Willow shot out of the car like a wrecking ball, and then settled down for a good ol’ sniffari 🥰

Chai rolled in I don't even know what 🤢 Luckily, despite being a fluffy one he is also a wipe clean kinda dog. Didn’t get rid of the smell though 🤮🤣

Annie and I had a proper good adventure up at Maidens Cross, we didn't need paths where we were going 🌪

And eagled-eyed followers of the page will have spotted a newbie in the photos this week 🤔 Well he’s not actually a newbie, he’s the one and only Mr B 🤩 He doesn’t usually appear in photos, but with permission from his lovely human, here he is… the ‘B’ in Mr B is for beautiful, obviously ❤️

The following is said with love, and is aimed at me as much as everybody else in the world, because I have been guilty o...
26/09/2024

The following is said with love, and is aimed at me as much as everybody else in the world, because I have been guilty of both parts sometimes ❤️

[Edit: this post has got long!! Part 2 will be its own post next week 🙈🤣]

Part 1 - Ask twice before saying hello to dogs you don't know:

First, ask the owner if it’s ok to do so.

And if they say yes, then ask the dog.

And by that, I don't mean sticking your hand out anywhere near the dog. I mean turning to the dog, saying hello in a gentle voice, and patting your hand on your leg if you truly have to do something with your hands, like us chimp-like creatures are prone to.

And then wait. And see what the dog does.

If the dog makes no move towards you, even if they’re wagging their tail and looking happy and relaxed, they are saying “I’m fine over here thanks, no need to come any closer”. And that’s the end of the hello.

If they move towards you, they're still not saying “please stick your hand in my face”, they're saying “I’d like to check you out a little bit more please”

Let them sniff you, and still don’t reach towards them. Even if the owner says “oh they love people”, “they love a good fuss” or words to that effect.

After a few seconds of sniffing, if they are trying to initiate further contact with you - maybe nudging your leg or looking up at you, maybe reach towards them. But!

Watch their body language as your hand comes out…

▶️ do they lick their lips or nose
▶️ do they yawn
▶️ do they blink repeatedly
▶️ do they look away or turn their head away?

If you see any of the above, they’re not entirely sure about the interaction. Stop reaching towards them and give them a little bit of space.

If you don’t see any of those low level stress signals, you could stroke them for a second or two, on their side or maybe under their chin.

Then stop, withdraw your hand, and see what they do - do they try to re-initiate contact, do they nuzzle in for more?

If they do, you could stroke them again for a few more seconds. But if they don’t, that’s the end of the hello.

And yes, this is a very long winded explanation of how to say hello. So if you can’t remember all of the above, it’s easy - don’t ask if you can say hello to a dog 🙏

23/09/2024

Let’s talk about long lines…

Long lines get a bad rep in some quarters. I think some people feel like they’ve failed if their dog has rubbish recall and they have to use a long line. And also that they’re failing their dog - that it’s cruel to not give them freedom.

And I think some other people judge those first people for using long lines. Actually I don’t think it, I know it.

Alice doesn’t have rubbish recall. She has zero recall. Nada. It’s not even a thing where she comes from 🤣

And you know what? I used to feel like a failure. Especially once I became a dog trainer. Call yourself a dog trainer when you can’t even let your own dog off-lead? 🤷‍♀️

But these days, I have a different perspective on it.

In my book, long lines don't take away freedom, they give freedom 🌟

Regardless of whether your dog is on a long line temporarily - maybe because they're a teenager with big hormones and no brain cells 🤪

Or whether they're on a long line permanently because they can’t be trusted not to run away and live out their days on the moor (and yes Alice I'm looking at you right now 😍🤣)

Either way… a long line lets you give your dog freedom, to still explore the places they couldn’t otherwise go.

So please, don’t ever feel guilty about keeping your dog on a long line if you need to use one 🙏 It keeps them, you, and others around you safe - and that can never be a bad thing 🫶

And just in case you needed a reminder that dogs can still have fun on a long line, here's a (very unseasonal) video of a very happy dog on a long line ❤️

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