Parker and Pooch - Dog Training & Solo Walks

Parker and Pooch - Dog Training & Solo Walks Dog training & solo dog walks in Todmorden, Hebden Bridge and surrounding areas Hi, I’m Clare, founder of Parker & Pooch.

The lessons I learnt along the way while struggling with my own dog’s behaviour inspired me to ditch my career as an accountant and re-train as a dog trainer. And now I spend my days supporting others who were just like me, who want the best for their dog, and just need a bit of a helping hand to get there.

Say what you like about the robots, but ChatGPT is much better (and quicker) than me at making a word cloud from all my ...
20/12/2024

Say what you like about the robots, but ChatGPT is much better (and quicker) than me at making a word cloud from all my 2024 walking posts 🤣 I also think it’s quite telling that apparently “mud” was my third most commonly used word, closely followed by “rain” 🙈

Well that's me done for the year… another 12 months of working with fab doggos 🐾 and fab people ❤️ Whether you comment on my posts and/or hit the like button, or you just enjoy reading them - thank you all so much for being here and supporting my little business 🙏 Have yourselves a lovely Christmas break, and I’ll see you all in 2025 🤩

🐾 This week's walks 🐾Tess and Tyra were the lucky Hebden pups who got a walk on Monday, before I gave up on the trek to ...
20/12/2024

🐾 This week's walks 🐾

Tess and Tyra were the lucky Hebden pups who got a walk on Monday, before I gave up on the trek to the other side 🙈

[For those of you that aren't local: as of a week ago, we've effectively been cut off from the next town along, as a collapsed sewer pipe means the only road through the valley has been closed while the powers that be try and work out how to fix it… in the meantime it means lengthy diversions and traffic chaos 😭 and so no walks for Chai or Juno 😟]

Tess got herself a Midgeley Moor spectacular, cue much delight and bouncing through the heather 😍 and she even posed for me which never normally happens 🤩

And miracle of Christmas miracles, I even managed to sneak in a side shot of gorgeous girl Willow too when she was distracted 🥳 That was her serene calm-before-the-storm face, before she turned round, saw the phone, and launched herself off the wall, which reminded me why I don't take photos of her anymore 🤣🙈

Tyra was in a gloriously giddy mood too - I mean she's always in a good mood, but she was positively beaming 🥰 - so she got an extra long walk as we were having too much fun to turn around ❤️

Annie got the mist and murk up at Bridestones, and gave Layla Dog a run for her money on Muddiest Dog of the Week… I think they both sealed their places as founder members of the Bog Squad 🐾🤣

Chewie was very interested in Mr Cheese & Onion Pie Man (aka Chris) who happened to be walking past the canal with some tasty baked goods from Manning's 🫔🥧🤣

And me and Mr B gambled on not needing waterproof coats. A decision we both came to regret later 🌧 Mr B also won this week's extra large gold star ⭐️ for not getting all kinds of starey at a lurcher/greyhound type who was walking past, and instead stayed lovely and relaxed, having a little look at said lurcher/greyhound, and then checking back in with me, and repeat 🥳 The first time I think hes's ever done that when out with me 🥳 Well done my beautiful boy ❤️

I don't post much about the individual training cases I work with, as often I don’t feel like they're my stories to shar...
17/12/2024

I don't post much about the individual training cases I work with, as often I don’t feel like they're my stories to share. So this might be a tricky one to guess… but - here’s a question for you:

What breeds or breed types do you think I’ve worked with most this year?

I mean just training not walking (walking is easy, you can just look at the photos 🤣)

As a bit of a clue, or not - last year’s top 3 were:

1. collie
2. pointer
3. spaniel

And none of last year’s top 3 are in this year’s top 3 🤔

So what do you think they were? Put your guesses below, and I’ll pop the answer in the comments later 🤩

🐾 This week's walks 🐾[A day early as I’m off on a canine first aid course tomorrow]Chewie was in a particularly fine tre...
12/12/2024

🐾 This week's walks 🐾

[A day early as I’m off on a canine first aid course tomorrow]

Chewie was in a particularly fine treat-mugging kind of mood 🥰

Tess was also very much full of beans… the only photos I have of her are blurry and undignified 🙈 rolling around on her back like she just didn't care 😍

The squirrels were out in force baiting poor Mr B 🐿

Layla Dog was wanting to get up close and personal with the camera for a rare change 🤣

Annie and her semaphore ears celebrated her birthday in style 🥳 by dunking her brand new harness in as many bogs as she could find 🤩

Juno was mostly on the hunt for pheasants, but she is also probably the only dog I walk whose reaction to seeing a little 🐀 move in the grass is to jump back in fear rather than jump forward 🤣

And answers on a postcard for what Tyra was up to 🤷‍♀️

The dance of the reactive dog walk 💃🐾💃🐾I spy a lady and a dog walking up the track towards us.There’s a fork in the trac...
11/12/2024

The dance of the reactive dog walk 💃🐾💃🐾

I spy a lady and a dog walking up the track towards us.

There’s a fork in the track, so I pause to see which way they’re going to go.

They take the right hand fork - towards us - so we head off into some long grass, to create the space that Juno needs.

Halfway across, I glance back to check how much time we have. I realise that the lady has only just spotted us. She stops, and she waves.

I wave back.

She smiles, she points behind her, and she and her dog turn together and walk back the way they’ve just come.

We walk back onto the track and wait a little while, to let them get further ahead of us.

And all is right with the world 💕

(Of course, often the dance isn't as elegant as that… sometimes it's more of a stampede to find the nearest ditch to dive into 🙈🤣)

10/12/2024

I've said it before... if I could have a superpower, it would be that I could smell like a dog (I should rephrase that but I'm not going to 🤣)

This is Alice sitting in the middle of a bramble bush next to the car park at the end of a walk - I want to know what she’s smelling and why it’s so amazing 🤩

Is it just me, or would you love to know exactly what your dog is sniffing? (excluding 💩 obviously 🙈)

🐾 This week's walks 🐾What with soggy foggy walks and frozen fingers, I decided not to take any photos this week... So as...
06/12/2024

🐾 This week's walks 🐾

What with soggy foggy walks and frozen fingers, I decided not to take any photos this week... So as a throwback to sunny summer days - do you remember both of them? - here are some non-soggy non-frozen doggos ❤️ Normal winter service will be resumed next week 🤩🤣

And just in case the previous post has had you reflecting on your relationship with your dog and maybe made you a little...
03/12/2024

And just in case the previous post has had you reflecting on your relationship with your dog and maybe made you a little bit sad - then to lighten the mood, here's a pic of me having zero trust in Alice not to attack Betsy the rabbit 🙈 And yes my face is absolutely saying “would you stop dicking around taking photos and come over here and help me”

The irony is that Betsy gave zero f*cks about anyone and anything, regardless of size, and I'm pretty sure she'd have come out on top in a Alice v Betsy bout 🤣🤣

There might come a point when you realise you've lost trust in your dog…❌️ It might be: you don’t trust that you can wal...
03/12/2024

There might come a point when you realise you've lost trust in your dog…

❌️ It might be: you don’t trust that you can walk down the street without getting pulled over by them. You worry that you're going to end up on the floor, or worse still dragged down the road, when they start barking and lunging as soon as they see another dog.

❌ It might be: you don't trust that they won't snap or growl at you. You're scared of what might happen when you try and take something from them, or when you need to handle them or groom them.

❌️ It might be: you don't trust their recall. When they’re off lead, you know there's a good chance you're going to be spending the next twenty minutes chasing them round the park.

If you've lost trust in your dog…
.. I can pretty much guarantee that your dog has also lost trust in you.

⭕️ If you've lost trust that you won't get pulled over by your barking lunging dog; your dog has lost trust that you won't put them in situations they can't cope with.

⭕️ If you've lost trust that your dog won't bite you; your dog's lost trust that you won't take things they value away from them, or that you won't listen to what they’re trying to communicate to you with their actions and their body langauge.

⭕️ If you've lost trust that they’ll come back when you call them; your dog's lost trust in you - you're no longer a play buddy, you're the no fun police. Going back to you means the lead’s going back and we’re going home.

And there's no blame attached to any of the above. There's no “you should have done X” or “it's because you didn't do Y”.

But trust is a two way street. Always.

So when we're working through the issues you have with your dog, if you've lost trust in your dog, it’s never just going to be about training.

It’s going to be about building or rebuilding trust - at both ends of the lead ❤️

🐾 This week's walks 🐾If you can cast your mind back to the hideousness that was Monday… Tess’ face was a sight to behold...
29/11/2024

🐾 This week's walks 🐾

If you can cast your mind back to the hideousness that was Monday… Tess’ face was a sight to behold when we pulled up at the car park and it was hailing 🤣 I waited till it stopped and then we actually had a lovely 15-20 mins even in the icy rain. And then the hail came back with a vengeance, sideways, and Tess called it a day by pulling me back to the car. Needless to say, no photos of our outing 🥰

Tyra fared slightly better, as in no hail, just the icy sideways rain. As always, Tyra didn't care ❤️

Annie took me on an off road adventure up at Bridestones. We hadn't been for ages what with snow and ice and cows. We found bogs galore, and she didn't get shouty with any of the people or dogs we spotted 🤩 (who were invading her own personal Bridestones, how rude 🤣)

Meanwhile Chewie got another graveyard, loves a good graveyard does our Chewie 😍

The one and only Chai Chai got this week’s gold star ⭐️ I'm not entirely sure that's ever happened before 🤔 He was cool, calm, and collected around some sheep… and that is definitely not a sentence that has ever passed my lips before 🤣 Took treats, looked back to me, played Find it, walked on with me. No pulling no lunging no drama. Awesome work my beautiful boy 🥳

Juno was deeply unimpressed that all the boggy puddles were still frozen over and she couldn't splash in them 😭

Mr B did have a bit of a lunge at a passing dog, but to be fair, firstly, the other fella was Neighbourhood Nemesis Dog, and secondly, N.N.D. absolutely started it by barking at Mr B, so doesn't count in my book 🤗

Willow got a change of scenery up at Summit. We hadn't been there for forever, ever since we made her world a bit smaller after she got attacked. I'm so glad we went, it was lovely and quiet, and she found all the sniffs, every single one 😍

And Layla decided she didn't want to go for much of a walk, so we found a little quiet patch and did some scatter feeding for a while. And then she decided that not only did she want to go for a walk after all, but she also absolutely didn't want to turn round and go home 🤣❤️

Way  #2 in which Pottery Is A Metaphor For Dog Training:Comparison is the thief of joy. But only if you let it.The other...
28/11/2024

Way #2 in which Pottery Is A Metaphor For Dog Training:

Comparison is the thief of joy. But only if you let it.

The other five lovely people on our pottery course had all completed at least a couple of terms already.

Each week it seemed like they were knocking out masterpieces while we, or at least I (I don't want to do Chris down 🤣) felt like we were stumbling round in the dark.

And it would be easy to beat yourself up: why can't I do what they can do 🤷‍♀️

But they'd had months and months of practice, compared to us newbies.

[And they did all say that even now they still have weeks where nothing goes right and everything they make ends up in the reclaim pile… the big pile of cast-off clay where bad pots go to die and be reborn as a new creation by someone else 🥰]

So a better way to look at those who are doing things we can't yet, is as inspiration. (The clue being in the word “yet”...)

By showing us what’s possible. And then we just need to find out what skills we need to learn and then hone, so that one day we’ll be able to achieve those things ourselves.

I think you can probably guess where I'm going with this…

If you see a dog and their human and you think god I wish I was them - their dog is walking past another dog without kicking off, their dog is beautiful trotting by their human’s side not madly pulling at the end of the lead, their dog is calmly watching a car drive past not furiously barking and lunging at it.

Comparing yourself to them can absolutely be the thief of joy. It's easy to let comparison turn to envy, and become a brick to beat yourself up with. So it takes a bit of reframing sometimes to see it in a different light.

But envy is just a reminder of what’s important to us, what we want for ourselves.

We’re all where we’re meant to be right now. And if we want to be somewhere else, we just need to figure out how to get there ❤️

And guess what? A few weeks after I made my weird little goblet that was meant to be a mug, I managed to make not one but two mugs 🥳 I mean they were meant to be matching shapes and sizes, but turns out that's very tricky, and will require a lot more skill honing 🤣

Me and Chris have been doing a pottery course for the last ten weeks, and tonight we got to pick up our fired pieces 🤩I ...
26/11/2024

Me and Chris have been doing a pottery course for the last ten weeks, and tonight we got to pick up our fired pieces 🤩

I was chatting to my lovely friend and fellow dog trainer Tara last night, and she said oh I bet you can get at least three facebook posts out of the ways that pottery is a metaphor for dog training…

Challenge accepted 🤣

Way #1 in which Pottery Is A Metaphor For Dog Training:

The most fundamental skill in pottery is centering.

Centering is the first thing you do once you've got your piece of clay on the wheel: it’s the process of moving and manipulating the clay to make sure it’s exactly in the middle of the spinning wheel.

And the reason that it's so important? It enables you to shape the clay evenly, which means you can make a symmetrical piece (rather than a wonky crap-looking one… I am possibly speaking from experience)

If your clay isn't centred at all, it's obvious. You can't even start to work with it, because it'll just be bashing your hand on one side as it spins round. And if your clay is nearly centred but not quite, you might not realise (as a newbie - I’m sure as a pro it’s bloomin’ obvious) and it all starts off ok, but as you carry on working the clay and creating more height and/or width, the fundamental flaw in your process begins to become more and more apparent. At best, you end up with a piece that has different thicknesses at different points and isn’t symmetrical at all, and at worst the clay flops over or you end up ripping it with your fingers 🙈

And how on earth does this relate to dog training I hear you ask? 🤷‍♀️

If your dog isn’t “centred” - if we haven't considered the fundamentals of…

❓️ do they get the right quantity and quality of sleep
❓️ do they get an appropriate amount and type of exercise
❓️do they get an appropriate amount and type of mental stimulation
❓️ do they have any sort of underlying health issue or condition
❓️ do they live in an environment and have a day-to-day routine that suits them as an individual

If the answer isn't yes to all of the above, then arguably there’s little point in starting training.

From a point of view of welfare and ethics.

But also from a waste-of-time-and-effort (and potentially money) point of view. Because it won’t work. Or you won't get very far before it all goes to pot (pun very much intended).

And your dog will end up looking like my weird little goblet that was meant to be a mug (I might have stretched the metaphor too far 🤣)

Stay tuned for Way #2, once I figure out how to crowbar some other trainery stuff into a little ramble about pottery 🏺

[And by the way, our pottery course was with The Clay Academy and it was flipping brilliant, so much so that we've just signed up to carry on next term 👍 If you're local to Tod and you like being creative (and even if you're not!) - go check out Shar and Laura, they're awesome 🤗]

22/11/2024

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🐾 This week's walks 🐾Oh my days what a GLORIOUS week of sn❄️w 🥳Some of my favourite ever walks this week, and I don't sa...
22/11/2024

🐾 This week's walks 🐾

Oh my days what a GLORIOUS week of sn❄️w 🥳

Some of my favourite ever walks this week, and I don't say that lightly 😍

[Although can you guess who had a Monday walk and missed out on all the white stuff? 🤔🤣 Sorry Tess, blame the weather gods not me 🥰]

The light was stunning, the roads were clear (well apart from today 🙈) and most importantly, everyone had an absolute ball ❤️

[And I make no apology for the number of photos, I’ve already whittled it down from +100 🙈🤣 … video post coming up next 🤩]

Off the back of my last post, someone messaged me to ask how come I don't have my own dog offlead if I know how to teach...
21/11/2024

Off the back of my last post, someone messaged me to ask how come I don't have my own dog offlead if I know how to teach recall.

And before anyone gets offended on my behalf, it wasn't in an accusatory way, it wasn’t a troll (I don’t think I’m important enough for trolls 🤣)

It was a genuine question of “that makes perfect sense, so how come it doesn’t work for your dog?”

And you know what - that is a very good question 🤔

And the short answer is:

If I ask Alice to come back to me, if you think back to my previous post, then we have the holy trinity of…

❌️ she generally doesn’t hear me (i.e. too distracted)

❌️ she doesn’t know what I’m asking of her (she doesn’t have a recall cue)

❌️ she isn’t sufficiently motivated (the environment is usually far more motivating than what I’ve got to offer)

The longer answer is:

When she first came to live with us eight years ago - when I knew nothing about dogs, and the idea of being a dog trainer wasn’t even a twinkle in my eye - we did try to teach her recall. We had a dog trainer out for a session and everything 🤩

And we quickly gave up, because let’s just say she was not on board with the process 🤣 If I knew then what I know now (in terms of how to train recall I mean) I think we might have had a better stab at it. But realistically, I think we probably would have still given up.

She’s a half husky ex-street dog with a ridiculously high prey drive, and while that’s not an excuse, it is a fact. I do know plenty of huskies and ex-street dogs that go off-lead and have great recall. But I think it’s fair to say that the cards were stacked against us from the start 🙈

And when she became reactive to dogs, and then easily spooked by loud noises, it just seemed easier to always keep her on-lead, so that she was safe and so was everyone else 🥰

If we’d have felt like she was missing out by not being offlead, that she wasn't living her best life, then maybe we would have tried again.

But I remember the day we took her to a new secure field, well woodland actually. And after she’d done a lap of the perimeter, she spent twenty minutes sat in one spot, sniffing the breeze and trying to spy where the squirrels were 😍 Literally twenty minutes, we timed it 🤣

And it reminded me that she IS living her best life. It’s maybe not the life that every dog would choose, and it’s not necessarily the life that every owner would think of for their dog - I know I wouldn’t have before she came into our lives. But we know that she’s happy. And that’s all that really matters ❤️

I honestly didn't mean to get that philosophical about this, I was just going to explain why she's got zero recall 🤣 But I do think there’s a wider point here to be made. If you don’t want to train something with your dog, or if you’ve tried and failed - if it doesn’t negatively impact you or your dog’s life (or other people's) then it’s ok, it's more than ok, to make your peace with that 🥰

WHEN YOUR DOG WON’T DO WHAT YOU WANT THEM TO DOThere are three common reasons why a dog hasn't done what you've asked.An...
19/11/2024

WHEN YOUR DOG WON’T DO WHAT YOU WANT THEM TO DO

There are three common reasons why a dog hasn't done what you've asked.

And none of those reasons are because your dog is…

❌️ stubborn

❌️ dominant

❌️ spiteful

If your dog hasn’t done what you’ve asked - - let’s use the example of coming back to you when called - - it’s more than likely down to one of these three things:

⭐️ Reason #1: They can't hear you

This might be that they can't hear you because of background noise (e.g. it’s really windy or maybe a noisy bus is going past).

Or, and this is much more likely - they’re too busy concentrating on something else.

In the same way that if you’re engrossed in a good book or maybe working on your laptop, you literally don’t hear someone calling you. If your dog is engrossed in an uber exciting scent or plotting their next squirrel raid - they’re not choosing to not listen, they literally won’t be hearing you.

⭐️ Reason #2: They can hear you, but they don't understand what you're asking them to do

This could be using a cue/command that you think your dog knows what it means, but they don’t.

Like using your dog’s name to recall them, rather than a specific recall cue. We use our dogs’ names in all sorts of situations: to get their attention; when we tell them they’re amazing; when we tell them they’re not; to stop them from doing something we’d really rather they didn’t. And then we expect them to know that their name also sometimes means “please come back to me now” 🤷‍♀️

Or, you could be using a specific recall cue that you have taught them - but you haven’t spent enough time practising it in different places (“proofing” it) so that they definitely understand that it means the same thing everywhere.

⭐️ Reason #3: They can hear you, they understand what you’re asking them to do, but they aren’t sufficiently motivated to do it

Some might say that’s being stubborn. I’d say it’s not being paid well enough.

If your boss wanted you to turn up for work for a pittance, you’d probably not go, or do a half-arsed job if you did go. If you feel that you’re being recompensed well enough, you’d turn up. And if you’re being paid a fortune, you’d probably pull all the stops out on what you were being asked to do.

And it’s no different for our dogs…

If you’re asking your dog to recall away from something mega interesting - next door’s cat, a dog they love playing with, the scent of a deer - but they know that all they’re going to get in return is a dry biscuit, I’m guessing there’s not much chance of them choosing to come back.

Which is why I would always recommend pairing a recall cue with something flipping amazing, that your dog truly loves - be that chasing sausages or a game of tug with their favourite squeaky toy.

And if you’ve rehearsed that chain of behaviour - - you shout their recall cue, they come back, they get a massively motivating reward - - over and over and over again, guess what?

You are much more likely to have a dog who’s done exactly what you’ve asked 🤩
So in any situation (not just recall) when your dog isn't doing what you want…

1️⃣ Reflect on which of the three reasons above might be the issue

2️⃣ Consider what you need to do differently to get a different result - either in that moment, or in the future

15/11/2024

Oh, and also, this little clip of Tyra, cos it makes me smile every time I watch it 😍

Phew it’s been a busy first week back! Not enough time for any walk write-ups, but at least here are some gorgeous doggo...
15/11/2024

Phew it’s been a busy first week back! Not enough time for any walk write-ups, but at least here are some gorgeous doggos for you all ❤️

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