Embrace Dogs - with Heather Medway

Embrace Dogs - with Heather Medway Well-being centred dog training and behaviour.

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29/10/2024

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Our time with our dogs goes by so fast.  This is something I struggle with a lot.Puppy, now entering her golden years.  ...
25/10/2024

Our time with our dogs goes by so fast. This is something I struggle with a lot.

Puppy, now entering her golden years. She is happy with a slower life, slower movement. She has lost many teeth, her colours have changed, her coat requires more care and I believe her hearing is now quite limited.

I often find all of these things incredibly hard to think about and accept. I often do not want to accept the process.

But we must. It is our job to love them fully, exactly as they are in the present moment. Respect that their needs change and we must respond accordingly.

I'm am incredibly grateful for the time we have and continue to share. The memories we have. The lessons she has taught me. And while I'm still trying to do much better at it, the value of being present in the moment together.

She will always be my perfect girl. This is a Puppy appreciation post. What a dog.

Please love your dog's with everything you have. The time we have with them is so precious. We are only human and they deserve so much.

Your dog's behaviour is not the problem. So you're not doing them any favours by trying to stop it, even if you train th...
17/10/2024

Your dog's behaviour is not the problem.

So you're not doing them any favours by trying to stop it, even if you train them with the kindest of methods. Behaviour is functional, and every behaviour has a story.

It may have been formed through trial and error, as a coping mechanism, a survival strategy or even passed to them from their ancestors. It makes perfect sense when you understand its origin. It's not fair to ask them to change their behaviour, without first changing the narrative of their story.

Want to stop your dog picking fights with other dogs or strangers?
First, ask why do they feel threatened? Then, what do they need to feel safe?

Want your dog to stop barking for attention?
First, ask why did they learn they had to shout to get a social connection? Then, what sort of changes are needed so this need is more readily met, or can you listen to the quieter requests so they feel heard long before it escalates to barking?

The behaviours themselves, are just information that tells us a part of a dog's story.

It's up to us to change the narrative.

Certified Dog Behaviourist and Family Dog Mediator in Torbay | Embrace Dogs

I was out for a lovely dog walk in the woods yesterday, when coming the other way was a man with a dog on lead.  My cue ...
12/10/2024

I was out for a lovely dog walk in the woods yesterday, when coming the other way was a man with a dog on lead. My cue to get my dogs out of the way as this may have been a dog that needed space.

So I scattered some treats off the path for my 2 to snuffle up so they could pass in piece. Mission accomplished!

What I did notice, however, was this dog was being walked on a an extendable lead that was attached to a head collar.

Part of being an ethical dog professional is ensuring clients are aware of the risks of any methods or equipment they are using, so here's an awareness post as to why the head collar + extendable lead combo is not a good idea.

The head collar, for those not aware, is a type of collar that goes around the snout of the dog with an attachment point for the lead.

By design, when the dog pulls, or you pull the dog, their head gets turned to the side, making it difficult for them to pull.

The risks associated with head collars are:

- Neck and spine injury - the unexpected forces through the neck of a dog with forward momentum once they hit the end of the lead, or the lead is tugged, risks severe injury.
- Prevention of natural gait - which long term can create discomfort through compensatory muscle usage.
- Physical discomfort to the snout and eyes, especially if poorly fitted
- Emotional distress, especially if not properly trained to wear

Now let's look at the extendable lead. While often convenient for the human, the problems we can see with extendable leads include:

- A constant pulling sensation where it's attached to the dog due to the lead consistently trying to retract
- When the dog reaches the end of the lead, they experience the forces of their forward momentum being unexpectedly brought to a halt, sending a jolt through the body

Now lets put these 2 things together. When a head collar is attached to an extendable lead, the lead will be pulling consistently. So the neck muscles must work hard to keep the head forward.

Imagine if you had an elastic rope pulling your head to one side when your trying to look at something straight ahead. How long do you think it would take before your neck muscles started to ache? Imagine what sort of pain you would be in if this was a regular occurance.

Then we also have to consider what happens when the dog reaches the end of the lead.

Considering the average extendable lead is much longer than a standard lead, the dog is able to move faster and even run, enabling an even bigger impact once they reach the limit of the lead. Creating the potential for more severe damage to the neck and spine.

When choosing what equipment to walk your dog on, the top 2 priorities are, keeping both you and your dog safe AND keeping your dog comfortable.

This is particularly relevant when selecting equipment to stop your dog from pulling, as many things on the market advertising anti-pull features, do so by causing pain or discomfort. Definitely not something that should be part of an enriching walk for your dog.

06/10/2024

Young dogs that are still growing their confidence often like to stay close to their person on walks.

It's important to not to take this forgranted and get complacent. Just because they are great at coming back now doesn't mean they always will be.

As confidence grows, and especially as adolescence takes over, this is where they might start to be more independent and not care so much about coming back to you.

So, while they still want to hang around you, make sure they're getting lots of rewards for it. The more reinforcement history a behaviour has, the more likely it is to be repeated.

Lovely Mable here started a game in which she'd run to the other dog we were walking with, then run back to me.

Essentially she was choosing to recall all by herself.
So I seized the opportunity to call her name as she started running and reward her when she got to me.

Yes she was going to do it anyway, but now we started a pattern. When she hears her name, she comes back, she gets a treat.

Patterns with lots of practice become habits. And a behaviour with a reinforcement history is more likely to be repeated.

This will hopefully pay off in the future when a recall is actually needed.

01/10/2024

I've got some new buttons that I thought would be fun for me and the dogs.

These are recordable buttons so I can have each one say something different. In the long term, the idea is they would be able to use them as another way communicate different things with me. Like requests to go outside and activities like scratches, play or a walk. The possibilities are endless.

But to start with, they first need to be able to push the button.

Puppy and Batman are well on the way, but we have some small kinks to iron out.

Batman being a large dog with enthusiasm will sometimes scratch or kick the button rather than press it. But as becomes more thoughtful of his actions, this is improving. Eventually the buttons will also be held in place with a tile board which will help him too.

Puppy however, is on the other end of the scale. Her small size and delicate nature often means she doesn't always push the button hard enough to activate it. I reward effort because that's the important bit. But on the times she does activate the button, u try to give her extra information to say I REALLY liked that and hopefully we'll get more of it in the future.

These two are a great example of how every dog is different. We all can have different experiences of the same thing, which is why it's importance not to compare your dog or yourself to others.

Meet the latest member of the team...From demo dog, to make do play mate, to stooge dog, this guy is going to be a very ...
24/09/2024

Meet the latest member of the team...

From demo dog, to make do play mate, to stooge dog, this guy is going to be a very versatile employee đŸ¶

Change isn't always easy, but it's never impossible.If you're ready to start growing your awareness, that's where we can...
20/09/2024

Change isn't always easy, but it's never impossible.

If you're ready to start growing your awareness, that's where we can help.

Change is not easy. I know that. I've made some whoppers of change in my lifetime so far; expect more to come.

So, what helps anyone change? First, respect that change is an intensely personal response. How much change is possible, and how quickly it can happen varies wildly.

I am reminded me of all the times earnest folks told me, "Smoking is so bad for you!" I often wondered what rock they thought I lived under? Hard to escape the information! Until *I* was ready to change, you could have woken me up every freaking morning with a stack of studies, and I still would have pushed them aside to light the morning cigarette.

The awareness comes first, long before the change (generally speaking -- always the possibilities of epiphanies!), and in fact, awareness is considered the first step in the change process.

I want to keep making people aware of what is possible between people and animals. We need to do it in a way that does not make them defensive. You know, the way we try to help dogs make changes?

In my mind, I'm wondering how many ways big and small we can raise awareness. Those who want to can join the chorus (not the villagers with pitchforks and torches!) to sing a song that makes people stop and listen, watch and wonder. It is possible. Let's share ideas

Gandhi said it best: "Be the change you want to see in the world."

Could your seemingly healthy dog be in pain?We got our Galen Myotherapy Assessment back for Batman on Friday.They scored...
15/09/2024

Could your seemingly healthy dog be in pain?

We got our Galen Myotherapy Assessment back for Batman on Friday.

They scored his comfort level at just 38%, indicating that he is experiencing discomfort at such a level it's likely impacting his physical and psychological wellbeing.

So often, when I suggest to people that we should consider that possible pain may be a factor in their dogs behaviour, the response is 'but they aren't limping' or 'but they can still run around and chase their ball'.

Batman is still fully capable of many things. He can easily jump on the sofa and our rather high bed. He runs around gleefully up and down the steep hire field. He hasn't limped once in his time with us or shown any sign of weakness.
And yet, a detailed assessment of his posture, gait, behaviour and body condition has revealed quite excessive discomfort in his body. No wonder he can be more than a little grumpy sometimes.

It isn't nice to think of our dogs as being in pain. But once we open our minds and accept them where they are, we are empowered to help them in meaningful ways.

I don't feel disheartened by this new information, but pleased to have some answers and understand him better.

I have also been given instructions on how and where to apply theraputic massage that will support him to feel better, as well as some lifestyle tweeks.

It isn't nice to think of our dogs as being in pain. But a worse thought, is that of a dogs pain going unnoticed and ignored, suffering alone.

I highly recommend www.galenmyotherapy.com, if you have any suspicion of pain or discomfort in your dog. It can be difficult to recognise, even in a veterinary practice. Having specifically trained eyes on your dog can reveal many of their secrets.

We've been coming to this field for about 2 months now, and this is the 1st time Batman has decided to interact with the...
11/09/2024

We've been coming to this field for about 2 months now, and this is the 1st time Batman has decided to interact with the dog walk.

He saw Pup walking up and down and wanted to join in too.

If I'd tried to push him into doing it, or encouraged him with treats, that would have risked him doing something that made him uncomfortable because I wanted him to.

The real learning that would come out of that would not only that dog walks make me uncomfortable, but also that I am not to be trusted. I dont look out for his best interests and he should be suspicious of the things i ask him to do. Not something that I want or would be helpful in our relationship.

Instead he learnt from real life feedback. He learnt how it felt to walk a dog walk and be raised of the ground. He formed his own opinion independent of me and in this case it was a good one.

If it wasn't, that would have been okay too. Some dogs may like dog walks, others not so much. And that's OK too. Those dogs will find joy in their own way that's more them.

06/09/2024

Body Language Breakdown

Can you spot anything I missed?

It's International Dog Day!I think today is a good day to reflect on the things we appreciate about our dogs.One of the ...
26/08/2024

It's International Dog Day!

I think today is a good day to reflect on the things we appreciate about our dogs.

One of the things I appreciate about Puppy is the little moments of joy she brings every day.

It could be the little snuggles in bed when I first wake up.

A funny face she made.

A playful gesture.

A sassy bark.

What things do you appreciate about your dog?

I'd love to hear below in the comments. But don't forget to tell your dog too.

Pleased to announce, I am now a Certified Family Dog Mediator đŸ„łFamily Dog Mediation is about going above and beyond trai...
23/08/2024

Pleased to announce, I am now a Certified Family Dog Mediator đŸ„ł

Family Dog Mediation is about going above and beyond training, to assess each dog based on their L.E.G.S.(Learning, Environment, Genetics, and Self)

Where there is conflict between dogs and their humans, Family Dog Meditation helps to manage your expectations for your dog's behavior, translate what your dog needs from you, and help you meet those needs.

We can still utilise training to support behaviour, but it will be appropriate for the L.E.G.S of the individual dog, so it works for everyone, not just the humans.

So excited to start putting it all to good use đŸ€©

18/08/2024

The Shake Off

Dogs do this when they're wet to get rid of excess water, but did you know it also has a behavioural function?

The shake starts with the head and rolls down the body. If your dog isn't wet and you see them do the shake off, there's a couple of things that it could mean.

Shake offs seem to be connected to tension. The shaking seems to help release built up tension in muscles and act like a bit of an emotional reset.

So you might see shake offs after minor or major stressful events, such as interactions with other dogs or people, or really anything that might have concerned them enough for the body's nervous system to respond to it.

Even positive experiences such as play, excitement or exercise can create that body tension warranting a shake off.

You might also see shake offs during transitioning between activities. Such as when they first wake up, or when they get home after a walk. Again this is like a reset.

It's one of the ways dogs can regulate their emotions. So it can be seen as a good thing. The dog is shaking off an event so they can feel calmer.

However, if you see your dog shaking off often in a given situation, that might be a sign you need to step in to help change or calm the situation down, or remove them from it so they don't get overwhelmed.

You can also try the shake off yourself.

Stressful day at work or nervous before a big event? Shake out your body and see if you can feel that ease of tension.

I'm so pleased we've reached this milestone.2 months in and I can finally let them mingle.We filled our home with stairg...
14/08/2024

I'm so pleased we've reached this milestone.

2 months in and I can finally let them mingle.

We filled our home with stairgates and room dividers when Batman arrived. Pup is used to being an only dog and we didn't really know what to expect from Batman.

Keeping everybody safe and comfortable for the transition was my biggest priority.

We had double barriers in place at all times at the beginning. That might sound like overkill and honestly, it was very inconvenient and annoying to live with but it did provide the security I felt we needed, and allowed them to not worry about each other while they got used to the idea of living together.

If I'd let them mingle too soon, while tensions were still running high from the big change in both of their lives, its more likely they would have had a negative experience that could have tainted their relationship going forward.

It's important not to put a timeline on these things. For another situation, this could have happened much sooner, or even much later.

I knew the time was right when I could see them both looking relaxed and confident. As I slowly started to phase the barriers, it simply felt safe.

You can't dictate how long it will take for a dog or even yourself to feel safe. You can't force it. All you can do is your best to provide a safe environment, and be their safe person they can trust and rely on. When they are ready, they will tell you.

09/05/2023
𝗛𝗼𝘃đ—Č đ˜†đ—Œđ˜‚ đ˜đ—źđ˜‚đ—Žđ—”đ˜ đ˜†đ—Œđ˜‚đ—ż đ—±đ—Œđ—Ž đ˜đ—”đ—¶đ˜€ đ—Č𝘀𝘀đ—Čđ—»đ˜đ—¶đ—źđ—č đ˜€đ—žđ—¶đ—čđ—č?      Nope it's not sit or stay.  In fact you may not have even heard of i...
02/04/2023

𝗛𝗼𝘃đ—Č đ˜†đ—Œđ˜‚ đ˜đ—źđ˜‚đ—Žđ—”đ˜ đ˜†đ—Œđ˜‚đ—ż đ—±đ—Œđ—Ž đ˜đ—”đ—¶đ˜€ đ—Č𝘀𝘀đ—Čđ—»đ˜đ—¶đ—źđ—č đ˜€đ—žđ—¶đ—čđ—č? Nope it's not sit or stay. In fact you may not have even heard of it before.
And yet this type of training may well be the most impactful for your dogs welfare.

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The skill of dog's tolerating and choosing to join in with their care tasks like, grooming, baths, and veterinary handling. It's generally the accepted norm for dogs to hate or fear these things, causing them major stress and in many cases, aggression or shut down. The human response is often to restrain and just get on with it, or avoid these jobs all together, which can also have major welfare consequences.
If you don't want to accept this as the norm for your dog, it's never too late to start improving your cooperative skills. The first step is recognising that you can.
If you'd like to get started and want some proffesional help, I can support your learning and training with 1-2-1 sessions which you can book here https://www.heathermedwaydogbehaviour.com/cooperative-care-course
𝘋đ˜Șđ˜„ đ˜șđ˜°đ˜¶ 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘾, đ˜”đ˜©đ˜Ș𝘮 đ˜Ș𝘮 𝘩đ˜čđ˜ąđ˜€đ˜”đ˜­đ˜ș đ˜”đ˜©đ˜Š đ˜”đ˜șđ˜±đ˜Š 𝘰𝘧 đ˜”đ˜łđ˜ąđ˜Ș𝘯đ˜Ș𝘯𝘹 đ˜”đ˜©đ˜Šđ˜ș đ˜„đ˜° 𝘾đ˜Șđ˜”đ˜© đ˜»đ˜°đ˜° 𝘱𝘯đ˜Ș𝘼𝘱𝘭𝘮? đ˜Œđ˜·đ˜Šđ˜Ż đ˜”đ˜©đ˜Š 𝘭đ˜Ș𝘰𝘯𝘮, đ˜”đ˜Ș𝘹𝘩𝘳𝘮 đ˜ąđ˜Żđ˜„ 𝘣𝘩𝘱𝘳𝘮! 𝘏𝘰𝘾 đ˜€đ˜łđ˜ąđ˜»đ˜ș đ˜Ș𝘮 đ˜Șđ˜” 𝘾𝘩'𝘳𝘩 𝘮𝘰 𝘧𝘱𝘳 đ˜Łđ˜Šđ˜©đ˜Șđ˜Żđ˜„ đ˜”đ˜©đ˜Š đ˜”đ˜łđ˜Šđ˜Żđ˜„ 𝘾đ˜Șđ˜”đ˜© đ˜”đ˜©đ˜Š 𝘱𝘯đ˜Ș𝘼𝘱𝘭𝘮 𝘾𝘩 đ˜Žđ˜©đ˜ąđ˜łđ˜Š đ˜°đ˜¶đ˜ł đ˜©đ˜°đ˜źđ˜Šđ˜Ž 𝘾đ˜Șđ˜”đ˜©?

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