08/01/2026
It’s been snowing hugely here in Aberdeenshire and we’ve been snowed in twice.
One of the joys of the snowfall has been watching Sassi’s absolute delight exploring the white stuff and watching her utter excitement and zoomies and the freedom she has just to be her. Completely and utterly carefree enjoying the weather & the environment and just being a dog.
For me, the pure pleasure and laughter she brings to my life just being her, uninhibited, unafraid, trusting me to take care of her every need, cheeky sometimes, as she feels confident enough to put a paw on me in play, to stalk me on our walks, to run away with a toy and amuse herself with it instead of bringing it straight back. She knows I will just laugh, there are no consequences to her just being herself, a dog who just wants to be free to be a dog & enjoy her short life on this earth of ours.
Sassi arrived with me at 9 weeks, a well bred puppy, well done from birth. As soon as she arrived her education started, the learning that allows her to have as much freedom as possible in this human dominated world of ours. The important part of her learning is that it was all games based & plenty of fun for her.
I don’t expect her to be a “yes man” dog, I don’t want a robot who can do a down stay in a busy shopping precinct (she can btw do that!) or perform in an army of suppressed dogs wearing various tools around their necks to correct any foot put wrong, with their tails down & their sad haunted eyes, knowing “correction” will come if they show their fear & react at the dog walking too close, mirroring that body language & fear so I, the trainer, can boost my ego or show off my skills!
I want my dog to be joyful, to enjoy being herself, and tbh if I had to change my lifestyle in order to keep her happy I would. And indeed I have for previous dogs Iv owned.
When I take a dog into my home, I take him or her unconditionally and they are top of my list of priorities. They are important to me and I let them know that. They have choices, they enjoy freedoms.
The thing is, when we take a dog into our lives, although we dream of amazing walks on the beach, picnics in the park, visiting friends or having friends to visit us, often this dream may be dashed because the dog we get, for whatever reason, finds it hard to cope in the human world.
He may be a different dog to the one we dreamed of getting. He may be fearful of being alone, of other dogs, of other humans, he may suffer ill health. For me this is where I need to step in and support that dog, to kindly help him or her overcome her fears or health issues and to adjust my life if I have to to facilitate whatever this dog may need.
There are no guarantees when we take a dog into our home.
For me this is true love of my dog and is no more than my dog deserves when Iv chosen to take him or her into my life
Love your dog unconditionally for who they are - it’s never long before they are grey & slow and you will be missing them when they leave.
Video of Sassi living her best life ❤️
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