27/12/2025
Social media is a highlight reel that showcases the best bits when in fact every single dog has things they struggle with. Some trainers will want you to think they’ve got the perfect dog, showing seamlessly edited videos of obedience, tricks, posting their wins and success stories. We all do it, but what’s important is to voice the not so good bits too.
Many trainers will never show you things that go wrong. Even if you don’t see them, they happen.
Today was a not so good day. Tide is a fantastic dog, he’s relaxed at home, super easy to have off lead hiking but when we head out and I clip that lead on his eyes light up and he’s immediately ready to work. Which is great for his role as a sports dog but in other scenarios isn’t always a positive…
Our goal is to change Tide’s perspective that busy environments aren’t just for training. It’s not something that mattered before but with Crufts looming our priorities have changed.
Our obedience is coming along nicely but the environment of Crufts is a lot to deal with so requires extra planning too. I didn’t want Tide like a coiled spring all day waiting for his turn in the ring. Instead I wanted to practice relaxing in busy environments where he’d usually train. I didn’t want to command him to do anything, just relax and walk with me - easy right? Apparently not for this workaholic.
I looked down and could see his eyes as wide as saucers. As we walked he kept trying to offer behaviours. I knew with the snap of my fingers he’d be delighted to hop into a heel and prance along under formal obedience. Sure it would look impressive but that wasn’t our goal. I didn’t want obedience I wanted a calm mindset.
His eyes grew wider and his anticipation grew. ‘We always train obedience in town, so why not today?’ I could see his questioning stare. The rules had changed. This was alien to him, free time is off lead in the forest. Not here? I tried to reassure him as we continued.
After a while I hoped the anticipation would dissipate but it soon turned to frustration. Tide let out a few barks and grabbed the lead with his mouth and began tugging. I could feel the eyes of the crowd staring. It only lasted a matter of moments but a dog as large as Tide draws attention.
I could’ve got embarrassed. Frustrated. I could’ve disappeared as quickly as possible back to the van. Abort mission! However, that doesn’t achieve anything. Instead, we got control back. Reset and tried again. It wasn’t perfect but better.
Eventually once out of town and at the promenade Tide was then rewarded with a fun obedience session. Which he was delighted about. We followed this up with a settle and people watched for a while.
It wasn’t our finest hour but it was successful as Tide still learnt something from this outing. Obedience is easy, changing our dogs mindset and emotions is much harder. We will keep pushing through and slowly change his perception of what’s expected.
The real success doesn’t come from within your comfort zone. It requires determination to stick with it even when it’s awkward and uncomfortable.