
08/04/2025
I often get asked to help with rehoming a dog that ive previously worked with, its always an incredibly hard decision to make and often the owners change their mind, only to realise, it really isnt working. So we start the process again. I offer my advice from personal experience and try to guide them through the hardest decision, they may possibly ever have to make.
This picture is of my dogs about 6 yrs ago. Frankie on the back cushions, Pippy and Twirl close together, then Doug far right of the pic. Doug was with us as a foster for about 8 weeks, he was Frankies half brother, we believe. Im not sure whether this change in dynamics of the group, was the catalyst for the war that began between Pip and Twirl, but just a few weeks after this was taken, they began to fight. It was always started by Pip, with Twirl just trying to defend herself. Pip was left with some puncture wounds on her head, as Twirl was trying to control her head, to stop the biting. It was very loud and horrific to watch, especially as Pip was half Twirls size, but that didnt matter to her.
This experience was incredibly challenging for someone like me, who is supposed to know how to handle this kind of behaviour, but it has given me first hand experience of how difficult it is to live with this. Im not alone, many trainers/behavourists end up in the same place, especially with multi dog households, you will often find dogs that just dont like each other and wont get along under any circumstances. A bit like a marriage break down. I often describe it as like living with an abusive partner, its very stressful and thoroughly unpleasant for all involved.
We decided to keep both girls and manage their environment, to allow them to continue to live together, but with barriers betwen them. This happened at home and at work, even in our motorhome. Management is a great tool, but at some point it WILL fail. It only happened twice in 5 yrs. one time Garf (husband) got bitten, as his arm got in the way, second time, I ended up grabbing them both by their collars and holding them apart until Garf could got hold of one of them. This is obviously not ideal and if there were more people at home, it may have been impossible, but we were able to make it work. Both girls had special time on their own with me, then id have help on walks. Its certainly not somthing I would recommend, without discussing the possible pitfalls and outcome. We made it work, but when we lost Pippy, we realised how challenging it was. Twirl is definitely happier now, although initially she did keep looking for Pip and putting herself in the den all the time. 😢. So in conclusion, it is possible, but not an easy arrangement for all involved. Xx