23/11/2024
🖤 This beautiful boy saw me for his third grooming session yesterday. He was completely different to our first meet. And isn’t he gorgeous??!
1️⃣ On our first meeting, Bertie had extensive matts to remove. He growled at me before I was even able to approach him, so I knew he needed the upmost care and sensitivity to help him. 🧘♀️ ☮️ His owners had tried to brush him, but being fairly new to the family he still needed to build up his own acceptance of that type of interaction. His coat is full and complex and not surprising that his owners struggled to help him, despite trying very hard to 💕
✍️ Matts are formed for a number of reasons (greasy coats, dandruff and dander, undercoat shedding and getting trapped, outside elements, moisture, health, diet etc.) and can form quite quickly, become tight and cause discomfort, pain and even wounds.
✂️ To remove them kitty needs to stay still, calm and have flat skin to prevent cutting. (There’s no clipper emoji, we DONT use scissors). It’s what all professional cat groomers are taught…cat skin is thin and delicate! So I had to use my best skills and wits, for both his physical and emotional health. Yes, this is equally as important; how kitty experiences their world “umwelt”.
We managed to shave what was needed, but needed to adopt some of my specialist feline protective gear and a simple towel. Bertie was given breaks but still became stressed, and needed that extra time to rest ⏰ (thus why I allocate extra time for new clients). I’m sure he was glad to see me leave that day. 😞
2️⃣ The next session was completely different, letting me approach and do much more with him, even enjoying a head scratch too, without him panting or hissing or biting. No protective equipment on Bertie, just my trusty arm guards in case. (These types of behaviours don’t mean kitty is being bad, they mean kitty needs understanding: scared, fearful, nervous).
🍪 🦐 He had a delicious creamy treat to distract him from some of the parts of grooming he didn’t like. It worked!
And then, yesterday…as you can see, he was a different Bertie. He hissed a couple of times, and was definitely finished at the end, but he let me shave his bottom for a little sanitary trim, clipped his paw pad tufts and I even trimmed his bib safely. Admittedly he started to tell me he didn’t like that, so I stopped. His communications were softer and less worried, and he even chirped his way through chatting to me and his owner who expertly fed him his favourite creamy treat again 🦐
He was laying comfortably, still, only two feet down, and even rested his head on my “calm” blanky. At the end he sat contentedly in the room and let me say goodbye. Maybe we are friends now 🤔 I know I love him. (Hope he feels the same 😉)